Bonke omama nobaba emhlabeni abanamadodakazi kumele babanike amandla okuzilungiselela umhlaba abazohlala kuwo. Umphakathi kufanele uqhubekele phambili futhi lokhu kutholakala kuphela ngokufundisa bobabili amadodana namadodakazi. Ubuzali bethu buzosiza kakhulu amadodakazi ethu ukuba aqhamuke emibonweni eyeqisayo futhi abe ngcono kakhulu.
Sifuna amantombazane ethu athole wonke amathuba okuba ngabesifazane abanamandla nabaphumelelayo. Indlela esibaphatha ngayo ebuntwaneni idlala indima enkulu ekusaseni labo. Thola ukuthi ungakhuphula kanjani ukuzethemba kwendodakazi yakho futhi uyinikeze amandla okusabeka
Nika amandla indodakazi yakho
- Mnike izibonelo eziqinile zabesifazane. Ukugqamisa abesifazane abakhuthazayo ezinganekwaneni, esikrinini, nasempilweni. Kuhle emantombazaneni ukubona abesifazane benqoba, ngisho nasemikhakheni engabonwa ngokwesiko 'njengabesifazane'.
- Mkhuthaze ukuthi adlale imidlalo. Amantombazane adlala imidlalo maningi amathuba okuthi athole amamaki angcono futhi asethubeni lokuthola iziqu. Zibonisa amazinga aphezulu okuzethemba nokuzethemba kanye namazinga aphansi okudangala.
- Buza uvo lwabo. Yazisa indodakazi yakho ukuthi uyakwazisa ukufaka nemibono yayo. Babuze imibuzo evulekile, babuze ukuthi bacabangani nokuthi kungani bekucabanga lokho, futhi ulalele ngokufanele izimpendulo zabo.
- Ake akhethe akuthandayo ngempela. Esikhundleni sokwenza imicabango esuselwa ebulilini ngalokho okungahle kukuthakazelise, nikeza indodakazi yakho ukufinyelela kuwo wonke amathuba, kusuka ku-rollerblading nokushaya isigubhu, ebholeni lezinyawo noma yini ayifunayo.
- Gxila ekuhlakanipheni kwabo. Thatha ingqondo yendodakazi yakho ehlakaniphile ngokungathí sina bese uyinika amandla. Kuzofanele wenze isiqiniseko sokuthi ugxila ezicini azenza kangcono kakhulu, mhlawumbe isayensi nezibalo kungamandla akhe.
- Mncome. Ekuhlanganyeleni komuntu siqu, ukubukeka kwabo kuvame ukugcizelelwa ngokweqile. Esikhundleni sokuthi 'umuhle kakhulu', mncome ngokuthile okunengqondo, isimilo noma inani alilawulayo, njengomusa wakhe, isibonelo.
- Mkhuthaze ukuba azibeke engcupheni futhi abe nesibindi. Amantombazane adinga ukuzwa injabulo yokuzama izinto ezintsha, ukufuna ukuzijabulisa, nokuphumelela kokuthile okusabisayo.
- Ake athi 'cha'. Kubalulekile ukuthi indodakazi yakho izizwe inamandla futhi inelungelo lokuthi "yebo" kulokho ekwenzayo nokuthi "cha" kulokho engakufuni, noma ngabe kusho ukudumaza umuntu.
- Yiba yisibonelo esihle somzimba omuhle. Zama ukugxila ezintweni ozithandayo ngawe bese wabelana ngazo naye. Beka isibonelo futhi umkhuthaze ukuba ahloniphe, anakekele, futhi awazise umzimba wakhe.
- Gwema ukumbiza ngegama elibi. Ukuqiniseka emantombazaneni kuvame ukubizwa ngokuthi "ngubusi." Uma sifuna amadodakazi ethu aziphathe futhi akhombise amakhono obuholi, kufanele siyeke ukubeka uphawu kuzenzo zokuthi "ngongqondongqondo."
Umhlaba udinga abesifazane abasha abahlakaniphile, abaphumelelayo nabazethembayo. Ubaba bethu buzosiza kakhulu amadodakazi ethu ukuba aphume emibonweni eyeqisayo futhi abe ngongcono kakhulu abangahle babe… nobuntwana babo buyobonisa impilo yabo yabantu abadala!