Nakuba abazali abaningi bengase bacabange okuphambene, imfuneko ekukhuliseni izingane ayifanele neze. Okuhle wukufinyelela endaweni ephakathi, hhayi kakhulu noma encane kakhulu.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sicacisa konke ukungabaza okungenzeka ube nakho mayelana nemfuneko emfundweni kanye kanjani ukukusebenzisa.
Iyini imfuneko?
Isihluthulelo sakho konke ukwazi ukuthi ungasisebenzisa kanjani isidingo esinjalo emfundweni yezingane ezincane. Ngokuvamile, imfuneko ingasiza ingane ukuba yenze izinto ngendlela efanele nefanele, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ukufunwa okunjalo kungadala ingcindezi enamandla enganeni egcina imthinta ngokomzwelo. Yingakho kubaluleke ngempela ukulinganisa kulokho okudingekayo futhi uthole imfundo engcono kakhulu yezingane.
Kunini lapho imfuneko ibhekwa njengedlulele?
Isidingo sikhulu lapho ingane icindezelwa futhi izizwa kabi ngokungafinyeleli lokho okulindelekile okudaliwe. Imfuneko kumelwe ibe nenjongo yokufundisa ingane hhayi ukumcindezela ngaphambi kwanoma yini eyenzayo. Imiphumela yokuba nezidingo ngokweqile ezinganeni yilena elandelayo:
- Ukuzenyeza.
- Ukwesaba nokwesaba ukudumazeka.
- Ukungalaleli.
- Ukuphazamiseka kokuziphatha nokuziphatha.
- Izinkinga ezingokomzwelo.
- Ukuxineka nokukhathazeka.
- Izinkinga eziphathelene nezinye izingane.
- isimo sokucindezeleka.
Amakilasi abazali ngokwesidingo esinikeziwe
Kunezinhlobo ezintathu zabazali ngokwezidingo ezeqile ezibekwe ezinganeni zabo:
- Okokuqala kungaba yilabo abaziwa ngokuthi abazali abaqinile. Lesi sigaba sabazali sijwayele ukuphendukela ekujezisweni futhi siba lukhuni uma kuziwa emfundweni yezingane zabo. Basebenzisa ukulawula okuqinile ezimpilweni zezingane zabo futhi lapho bebhekene namaphutha namaphutha bavame ukungabekezelelani ngokuphelele futhi bangaguquki.
- Uhlobo lwesibili lwabazali yilabo abalindele lukhulu. Balindele imiphumela emihle ebantwaneni babo okuthi ngezinye izikhathi ibonakale ingafinyeleleki ngempela. Konke lokhu kusho ukuthi izinga lokukhungatheka kwezingane liphezulu impela. futhi uvamise ukwenza ngaphansi kwengcindezi ephezulu.
- Uhlobo lwesithathu lwabazali lu-hypervigilant. Yilabo abahlale beqapha izingane zabo futhi bazivikele ngokweqile ngendlela yokuthi zingabi nawo ukuzimela nokuzimela uma kuziwa ekulingiseni. Ukulawula okunjalo nokuvikela ngokweqile kuvame ukuba nemiphumela emibi ekukhuleni kwemizwelo yezingane.
Lapho kufanele uvumelane nezimo ekukhuliseni izingane
- Lapho impelasonto ifika kufanele ukwazi ukupaka isidingo futhi vumelana nezimo kakhulu nezingane.
- Imfuneko ayinconywa lapho izingane zisencane kakhulu.
- Uma ingane izwela kakhulu Kufanele uvumelane nezimo ngokuziphatha kwakho.
- Akwenzeki lutho ngoba izingane ziyawenza amaphutha. Amaphutha abalulekile uma kuziwa ekufundiseni izingane.
- Awukwazi ukukhetha uma izingane bayadlala noma bajabulela isikhathi sabo samahhala.