Kunabazali abaningi abacabanga ukuthi bangapheleliswa lapho ukuphelela kungekho. Uma unale micabango, kulula kuwe ukuthi uzizwe wehlulekile. Lapho ubambe ingane yakho ezandleni zakho okokuqala kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi inhliziyo yakho iqhume ibe izingcezu eziyinkulungwane ... uthando oluningi oluzwayo. Awukaze ucabange ngaphambili ukuthi inhliziyo yakho ingazizwela amandla angaka ngomunye umuntu, Futhi futhi ukuthi uthando luzoqhubeka lukhula nsuku zonke.
Kepha kunezikhathi lapho kwesinye isikhathi ukhathazeka uma ungumzali owanele ngokwanele. Njengomzuzu wesabekayo uthole ucingo luvela esikoleni licela umhlangano wabazali ozokhuluma ngokuziphatha kwezingane zakho, noma okubi kakhulu, lapho ukuxhumana kuphazamiseka futhi abe yisitha sengane yakho eyeve eshumini nambili.
Izinto zonakala nini?
Uma kungabuye kwenziwe kabusha futhi kubuyele emuva ngesikhathi, ubungabuyela kuwo wonke amaphutha owenzile ukuwaguqula, kepha ngokudabukisayo, lokho akunakwenziwa. Akukho ongakwenza okungalungile, ukupheleliswa kumane nje akukho futhi kuzoba nezinsuku ezingcono nezimbi kakhulu. Ungalokothi ucabange ukuthi uyisehluleki ekukhuliseni izingane zakho, ngoba okubalulekile ukuthi nsuku zonke uzama ukwenza okungcono kancane.
Ukuthi wenza iphutha, ukuthi uyathukuthela noma ngisho nokuthi uphakamisa izwi lakho kuyinto ejwayelekile ... awuphelele futhi awudingi ukuba. Ukuzama ukuba ngubaba noma umama ophelele kuyakhathaza kakhulu, okudingekayo ukuthi uzame ukuba nguwe. Angiphinde.
Kungani kunzima kangaka ukuba ngumzali ophelele?
Kunabazali abaningi abakholelwa ukuthi bangaba ngubaba ophelele, kepha akunjalo. Uthando olungenamibandela luyimbangela yenjabulo kuwe, ezinganeni zakho nasemndenini wakho. Kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuthuthuka emndenini futhi ujabulele izinsuku. Yize noma bekwazi lokhu, kunabazali abaningi abazizwa bengajabule.
Ukugwema lokhu, kubalulekile ukwamukela ubunzima bansuku zonke lapho befika. Konke lokhu kuqala ngothando nokuzinakekela. Lapho uzizwa umuhle ngawe nangemvelo, ukukhulisa izingane zakho kuzoba lula kakhulu, yize lokhu kungakukhululi ezikhathini ezinzima kakhulu nsuku zonke. Uthando alusoze lwamoshwa.
Yamukela okungokoqobo
Kuyadingeka ukwamukela okungokoqobo futhi uqonde ukuthi akufanele futhi akudingeki ukuthi uphelele futhi empeleni, akekho ubaba noma umama onjalo. Lapho usukwamukele lokhu, uzozwa ukukhululeka nenkululeko enhliziyweni yakho ezokusiza ukuthi wehlise umoya futhi ubone ukuthi ungenza izinto kangcono uma ubeka ingqondo yakho kubo.
Wonke amaphutha angamathuba okuthuthuka nokufunda, ngakho-ke ungakhathazeki uma wenza iphutha. Cela ukuthethelelwa uma kufanele ucele futhi qhubeka uqhubekele phambili ufunde emaphutheni ungaphuthelwa yilezi zihluthulelo ezintathu:
- Yamukela ukuthi ukuzikhandla kwakho kulungile ngokwanele
- Yiba nezimo ukuze ikusasa lakho elihle likwehlele.
- Khetha uthando ngaphezu kokuphelela.