Angicabangi ukuthi ukhona umzali emhlabeni (osengqondweni efanele) ofuna ukubuka izingane zakhe ngokungazethembi noma ukuzethemba okuphansi. Kepha ngeshwa lokhu akuhlali kunjalo futhi asikwazi ukuthola konke esikufunayo. Izingane eziningi kakhulu azizethembi futhi njengabazali kungumsebenzi wethu ukugcwalisa leso sikhala ukuze zibone ukuthi zingazethemba, ngoba uma zifuna zingazuza noma yini eziyimisele!
Uma unendodana noma indodakazi, kungaba umfana noma osemusha, Nazi ezinye izindlela eziwusizo zokuthuthukisa ukuzethemba kwakho nokuthi ngale ndlela ukuzethemba kwakho kuyathuthuka futhi kunethuba elikhulu lokuphumelela ngokuzayo. Ungalahlekelwa yimininingwane futhi ukhumbule ukuthi uyisibonelo sakhe esihle kakhulu, uthisha wakhe omkhulu kanye nokwesekwa kwakhe okuhle kakhulu okungenamibandela. Izingane zakho ziyakudinga!
Yazisa imizwa yabo
Njengawe, ingane yakho nayo inemizwa futhi uma ngelinye ilanga uyibona idabukile, kufanele ucabangele okwenzekayo kuyo bese uzama ukuthola ukuthi kwenzekani kuyo noma kungani uzizwa udangele. Ngakho-ke, uma usiza ingane yakho ukuyithola kanye naye, izofunda ukubona inkinga eyimbangela futhi igxile ezixazululweni ezisebenzayo kunokugxila ezinkingeni eziyimbangela yazo.
Msize abone okungokoqobo
Izingane, njengabanye abantu abadala, zivame ukuba ngabagxeki bazo ababi kakhulu ngokuzizwa ukuthi azihlangabezani nezindinganiso ezifanele (izikhathi eziningi lezo zindinganiso zingenakwenzeka futhi zingenangqondo) ezisungulwe emphakathini, into ezokhokha imali enkulu ekuzithembeni kwabo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma njengomzali unikeza umbono onenhloso nethemba ngokwengeziwe ngokwenzeka ngempela, khona-ke ungaguqula ngokushesha imicabango yakho ibe ngeyangempela. Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho ikhononda ngokuthi isitshudeni esinyantisayo, yenze ibone ukuthi ingumfundi okahle kepha kufanele ichithe isikhathi esithe xaxa ifunda isifundo esithile.
Ungalokothi umqhathanise
Ukuqhathanisa kunenzondo ngakho-ke akufanele neze umqhathanise nezingane zakwabo noma nezinye izingane emhlabeni. Ngokuqeda ukuqhathanisa, uyamsiza ukuthi abe nokuzethemba okungcono futhi anciphise umbango phakathi kwezelamani nabanye abantu. Awudingi ukufakazela noma yini emhlabeni futhi uzokwazi ukufakazela ukubaluleka kwakho kwangempela.
Ungaphuthelwa izincomo ezifanele
Abazali bavame ukusetshenziselwa ukutshela izingane ukuthi zizenza kabi kangakanani izinto nokuthi kufanele zenze kanjani izinto kangcono (noma ngendlela yazo). Kepha ngeshwa bakhohlwa into ebaluleke kakhulu: bancome lapho benza izinto kahle.. Uma ufuna ukugcwalisa ukuzethemba kwengane yakho futhi ikulalele ngempela Futhi ungayeki ukukwenza ngoba uhlala umthethisa, kuyadingeka ukuthi umdumise inqobo nje uma enza izinto kahle nokuthi kumfanele.
Kepha kungcono ukukwenza ikakhulukazi uma kukhona abanye abantu abadala phambi kwakho futhi abaziyo ukuthi uzenza kahle kangakanani izinto. Jabulela ukubukisa njengengane futhi ubonise ingane yakho ukuthi awukusho ukukhulisa ukuzethemba kwakhe, kodwa ngoba uyakukholwa ngempela.
Dala indawo enhle ekhaya
Bathi isimo sasekhaya sibaluleke kakhulu enganeni ukuze izethembe. Kuyadingeka ukuthi kube nemvelo enhle ekhaya lapho ungakwazi khona dala ukuzethemba okuhle ezinganeni nokuthi uyakwazi nokuzihlola ukuthi ungubani hhayi lokho anakho.
Ngabe uyayisiza yini indodana yakho ukuthi izethembe kangcono futhi ikhulise ukuzethemba kwayo kuyo?