Akubona bonke abantu ababhekana nomzuzwana obuhlungu njengokuhlukanisa ngendlela efanayo. Kunabantu abangabhekana nakho ngendlela enhle kanti abanye bangaba ukuhlukunyezwa kwangempela. Izimbangela nezinto zangaphandle zibaluleke kakhulu futhi ukwehlukanisa ngaphandle kwezingane akufani nokuba nomndeni wangempela.
Ezimweni eziningi zamacala esehlukaniso, abantu bavame ukuba nesikhathi esibi impela, okuholela eziqephu zokukhathazeka noma zokudangala. Yingakho kubalulekile ukulandela uchungechunge lwezeluleko noma imihlahlandlela esiza ukwenza isehlukaniso sibe sibuhlungu kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka.
Imihlahlandlela okufanele ilandelwe lapho ubhekene nesehlukaniso
Ukudlula kwinqubo yesehlukaniso akusona isidlo sokunambitheka okuhle kunoma ngubani. Kunezigaba zamathiphu ezingasiza umuntu ukuthi abhekane ngendlela engcono kakhulu:
- Okokuqala, yize kuyikho okunzima kakhulu, iqiniso lokwamukela inqubo yokwehlukana. Akulula nakancane ukuvalelisa emaphusheni omndeniKepha kufanele uthathe isimo esisha ngokuzethemba okukhulu kakhulu futhi ubheke phambili.
- Ukusekelwa ngabantu abasondelene nakho kubalulekile lapho ubhekene nesehlukaniso. Ukuzizwa usekelwa futhi usekelwa umndeni nabangane kuhlala kuvula indlela enzima yokuhlukana nomlingani wakho unomphela.
- Kuyiqiniso ukuthi isehlukaniso sisho ukuvalelisa ochungechungeni lwamaphupho nemicabango edalwe ngomunye umuntu. Kodwa-ke, le nqubo yokuqhekeka ibuye isho isifiso sokukwazi ukukhula futhi futhi sibeke uchungechunge lwezinhloso zekusasa. Kubalulekile ukudala izindlela ezintsha nezinhloso ezikuvumela ukuthi ushiye okwedlule futhi ukwazi ukubheka okuhle esikhathini esizayo.
- Akusizi ngalutho ukuthola icala bese ubamba omunye umuntu icala ngesahlukaniso. Lokhu kuveza umonakalo nobuhlungu obukhulu kakhulu kunenqubo yesehlukaniso esivele ihilelekile. Ikhefu kufanele lithathwe ngokuzola ngangokunokwenzeka futhi libhekane namaqiniso ngqo.
- Akusizi ngalutho ukuzisola ngokwenzekile nokuthi yini ebingenziwa ukugwema isehlukaniso esishiwo ngenhla. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukwenza imisebenzi eyahlukahlukene esiza ukugcina ingqondo yakho icacile. Kuhle ukuba nempilo enhle ngokomzwelo futhi uvikele ukukhathazeka noma ukucindezeleka ekutholeni umhlaba. Ukwenza imidlalo ethile noma ukuzikhipha nabangani kukusiza ukuthi ukhohlwe ngokuhlukana bese uqhubeka.
- Kufanele uvikele izingane ngaphandle futhi uzame ukungaphatheki kahle ngesehlukaniso sabazali babo. Yingakho kunconywa ukuhlala nezingane uchaze isimo ngokuzola ngangokunokwenzeka. Kumele uthembeke futhi ugcine imikhuba ukuze abancane bahlupheke kancane ngangokunokwenzeka ngaphakathi kwenqubo yesehlukaniso.
- Uma uthola ukuthi ngaphandle kwaleso seluleko, impilo yakho engokomzwelo ikhubazeke kakhulu, kuhle ukuya kochwepheshe owazi ukuthi angakusiza kanjani ukubhekana nesehlukaniso ngendlela enempilo kakhulu.