Kunezici eziningi ezingaba nomthelela ku imizwa yansuku zonke, kepha umuzwa wenjabulo nokwaneliseka yinto engafinyelelwa futhi engaphezulu kwalezi zithiyo ezincane ezijwayele ukwenziwa nsuku zonke. Ukuphila ngokugcwele kungenzeka, yize kungewona wonke umuntu okwazi ukufinyelela kuleso simo.
Namuhla sizobona ezinye zezinto ezingaba ukhiye kuzo phila ngokugcwele okwamanje, okusenza sizizwe sanelisekile futhi sijabule. Njengoba sishilo kaningi, injabulo yinto yomuntu uqobo, hhayi yezimo noma inhlanhla, ngakho-ke kukithi ukuqala imikhombandlela yokufeza lesi simo.
Phila manje
Okunye ukwehluleka okukhulu esinakho empilweni yethu ukuthi thina sibambelela kokwedlule noma ukulinda izinto esikhathini esizayo. Asikwazi okwenzekayo lapha manje futhi lokho kusenza singawujabuleli ngokugcwele umzuzu. Lapho senza okuthile siyazi ukuthi yini okufanele siyenze ngokulandelayo noma okuthile kwangesikhathi esedlule, sigweme ukuzwa ukuthi kwenzekani ngaleso sikhathi esiqondile.
Zizwe ugcwalisekile
Empilweni kunezindlela eziningi zokwenza ukuzizwa kugcwaliseka nsuku zonke. Ukuba nomsebenzi esiwuthandayo, ukuba nengane, ukusiza abanye kungaba izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokuzizwa wenelisekile futhi wenelisekile. Umuntu ngamunye unamathemba ahlukile maqondana nempilo yakhe, kepha lokhu kuyinto okungafanele sikhohlwe yiyo. Akukephuzi kakhulu ukufeza amaphupho akho. Ngisho nohambo esihamba ngalo ukuze sifinyelele kubo lungasinika lokho kugcwaliseka. Yilokho okushiwo ukuthi kunikeza injongo yokuphila. Lokhu kusesha kungasivimba ukuthi singazizwa singenalutho, into ezimeni eziningi okuholela ekungajabuleni.
Gwema abantu abayingozi
Ngaphandle kokungabaza enye yezinto ezingasenza sithuthuke sizungeze nabantu abasekelayo futhi usiphakamisele kulokho esikufunayo. Laba ngabantu okufanele sibagcine ezimpilweni zethu, ngokungafani nabantu abayingozi. Laba bantu kuthiwa yibona abasintshontshela amandla avumayo. Bangabantu abangenathemba, abangazicabangela bona kakhulu ukusiza abanye noma abasibangela imizwa emibi nsuku zonke. Kuhlala kungcono ukuzama ukushintsha lezo zinhlobo zobudlelwano noma uvikele lezi zinhlobo zabantu.
Yenza izinqumo zakho
Ukukhula nokuphila ngokugcwele nakho kusho ukwazi ukuthatha izinqumo nsuku zonke, kucatshangelwa imiphumela. Sizokwazi ukujabulela ukuzuzwa kwalezi zinqumo futhi sicabange ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi akuzona ezifanele. Sizokwazi ukuthi ukwehluleka nakho kungafundwa futhi yingakho kuyingxenye yempilo nokukhula komuntu siqu. Kepha kufanele sihlale sikhumbula ukuthi singabanikazi bezimpilo zethu nezinqumo esizithathayo.
Yiba wena
Ukuba nguwe kwesinye isikhathi kubonakala kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kunalokho kubonakala. Ezikhathini ezinjengobusha, kunzima ngathi ukukuthola lokho ubuntu bakhe futhi buchaze. Njengabantu abadala kwesinye isikhathi sizivumelanisa nalokho abanye abantu abakufunayo kithina, sigweme ukuba yilokho esiyikho ngempela, okuholela ekutheni sizizwe singakhululekile ngathi okusiphuca injabulo. Esikhathini samanje yinto eyenzeka kakhulu ngenxa yokuxhumana nabantu, lapho senza sengathi sinempilo okungenzeka ayisiyinhle njengoba sibonakala kwinethiwekhi, okuholela ekutheni singagculiseki neze ngempilo yethu.
Gwema ukuqhathanisa
Ukuqhathanisa impilo yethu neyabanye akuwona umqondo omuhle, ngoba umuntu ngamunye unamathemba futhi izisusa nezimo ezahlukahlukene. Kufanele sigxile kokufunayo nasezinhlosweni zethu, sigweme ukuqhathanisa izinhloso zethu noma impumelelo yethu naleyo yabanye.