Izinkinga zobudlelwano ziyinto evamile futhi ejwayele ukwenzeka ebudlelwaneni obuningi banamuhla. Lezi zinkinga zingadalwa yizinkinga ebezivele zikhona kwasekuqaleni noma ngenxa yesikhathi eside abashadile bahlala ndawonye. Inkinga yombhangqwana akufanele ibe yinto embi ngoba ingaba yisigaba esidingekayo soshintsho kumbhangqwana uqobo.
Ukwazi indlela yokubhekana nenkinga enjalo kungasiza umbhangqwana ukuba ukhule futhi uthuthuke kuzo zonke izici. esihlokweni esilandelayo Sikunikeza uchungechunge lwamathiphu angakusiza unqobe izinkinga ezimbalwa.
Izinkombandlela okufanele zilandelwe ukuze unqobe izinkinga ezimbalwa
Ungalahlekelwa imininingwane yezinkombandlela ezilandelayo noma amathiphu angakusiza unqobe izinkinga ezimbalwa:
- Ekunqobeni ubunzima obunjalo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi zombili izinhlangothi zibambe iqhaza ngokugcwele. Kubalulekile ukugwedla ngendlela efanayo ngoba uma kungenjalo kuzoba nzima ukunqoba le nkinga. Bobabili abantu kufanele bafune ukuthola isisombululo futhi baqhubekele phambili njengabashadikazi.
- Kubalulekile ukuthi nihlale phansi nixoxe izinto ngendlela evulekile necacile. Akukho okwenzekayo ukusho lokho umuntu akucabangayo futhi aphikisane nezixazululo ezingaba khona zengxabano. Ukuxhumana okuhle Ngaphezu kokuthambekela kokuxazulula izinto, kusemqoka uma kuziwa ekunqobeni ubunzima obunjalo.
- Izinhlangothi kufanele zihambisane nezivumelwano ezisungulwe ukuze kunqobe inkinga enjalo. Akusizi ukukhuluma ngezinto nokuzibophezela ukwamukela izinguquko lapho umzuzu weqiniso ufika zingagcini ngokugcwaliseka. Umuzwa wokukhungatheka ubaluleke kakhulu futhi izinto ziba nzima nakakhulu.
- Amaqembu kumele aguqule indlela akhuluma ngayo futhi Khetha ukuxhumana okusekelwe ekuhlonipheni nasekulinganeni. Ezimweni eziningi inkinga ibangelwa ukusebenzisa ulimi olungafanele nabashadile abagcwele inhlamba kanye nezimfanelo ezingafanele.
- Kubalulekile ukuthi lapho kunqoba inkinga enjalo ilungu ngalinye lombhangqwana likwazi ukuzwelana nelinye. Ukuzifaka ezicathulweni zabashadikazi kuyasiza uma kuziwa ekutholeni izixazululo.
- Akulula ukunqoba isimo esibucayi yingakho kubalulekile ukuthi sisekelane futhi bheka izixazululo ezingcono kakhulu ukuze abashadikazi bakwazi ukuya phambili.
- Esinye iseluleko siwukuba nombono omuhle ngezinkinga.. Isimo sengqondo esibonisiwe siyisihluthulelo sokuvula ikhasi bese uqala isiteji esisha nabashadikazi.
- Ukunqoba ingxabano yombhangqwana kuhlanganisa ukuthola ibhalansi ebudlelwaneni lokho kusiza ukwakha isixhumanisi esisha esikuvumela ukuthi ujabulele inhlalakahle okudala ilindelwe.
Ngamafuphi, Izinkinga zezithandani zivame kakhulu kunalokho abantu abangakucabanga ekuqaleni. Nakuba ekuqaleni kungase kubonakale njengento embi, kuyisigaba esisodwa sombhangqwana okufanele sinqotshwe ukuze kwakhiwe ubuhlobo obuqine kakhulu nobunempilo kunangaphambili. Ngenxa yalokhu, kubalulekile ukuba ne-predisposition ethile yabo bobabili abantu ukunqoba inkinga enjalo ukuze bafune inhlalakahle ethile kumbhangqwana.