La isizungu umuzwa abantu abaningi abanawo namuhla, ngaphandle kokuthi kubonakala sengathi ngokusebenzisa ukuxhumana nomphakathi sixhunywe namakhulu abantu. Awudingi ukuba nabangane abaningi noma impilo enhle yezenhlalo ukuze uzizwe uhambisana ngokulinganayo. Futhi, isizungu singalungela izinto ezithile, kepha kufanele sazi ukuthi singaphuma kanjani kuso futhi sijabulele yomibili imihlaba.
Kulezi izikhathi lapho nathi kufanele sizihlukanise nomphakathi abantu abaningi bazizwa bodwa nsuku zonke. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi ungaxhumana kanjani nabanye futhi ulwe nalowo muzwa wesizungu ongaholela ekucindezelekeni.
Cabanga ngalokho okufunayo
Ukuba phakathi kwabantu noma ukuba nokuphila okumatasa kwezenhlalo kungahle kungafani nokuzizwa uhambisana. Isizungu ngokuvamile a ukukhetha okuhlakaniphile kwalabo abafunda ukukujabulela, kepha futhi kufanele ube nokuxhumana okuthile nabanye abantu ukuze ungaweli kumzwangedwa owedlulele osenza sihlupheke. Iqiniso ngukuthi emphakathini wanamuhla ubungani, labo abababazekayo bayavuzwa, kanti basenza sicabange ukuthi ukuba nekhofi kuphela kungahle kungabi kuhle uma kungafanele kube njalo. Kukhona labo abajabulela izikhathi zabo bebodwa ngendlela efanayo naleyo abahambisana nayo kakhulu. Lokhu kuyinto ebalulekile, ukwazi ukukala futhi ukujabulele kokubili. Ukwazi ukuthi ufunani ngempela ngaso sonke isikhathi ngaphandle kokuthatheka ngumphakathi noma ukuthi abanye bathini noma bafuna ini kuyinto encike kuwe.
Thembela kumbuthano wakho osondele
Uma uzizwa unesizungu futhi lokhu kukwenza uhlupheke mhlawumbe kufanele uncike kulabo abakade bekhona. Abangane bakho abaseduze bazokulalela noma ungahlali isikhathi eside kangako futhi kwenzeka okufanayo ngomndeni wakho. Kubalulekile ukuba nabantu abathembekile ongachitha isikhathi nabo futhi uxhumane nabo. Ukuba nabangane nomndeni kungukusekela okuhle ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngakho-ke bangubudlelwano okufanele sibunakekele, noma ngabe sichitha isikhathi sisodwa.
Phuma kancane
Noma uthanda ukuchitha isikhathi uwedwa, lokhu kungaba umkhuba okwenza kube nzima ngawe ukuphuma nokuya kunoma yimuphi umcimbi wokuzijabulisa. Ingabe kuhle ukuziphoqa ngezikhathi ezithile ukuya emicimbini nasemicimbini ukwazi ukuzihlanganisa. Kufanele sifunde ukujabulela zombili, ukubona uhlangothi oluhle ngalunye. Sijabulela esikuthandayo ngezikhathi zokuba wedwa futhi singawasebenzisa amakhono ethu kwezenhlalo lapho siya komunye umcimbi.
Zijwayeze ukuzijabulisa nokuzethemba
Kulabo abangajabuli ngokwemvelo, ukuba semicimbini, ukukhuluma nokwenza abangane cishe akunakwenzeka noma kunzima kakhulu. Kepha kuhle ukuzijwayeza lezi zinhlobo zezinto ngoba zisilethela izinzuzo. Sishiya indawo entofontofo lapho singahlobene namuntu futhi sifunda ukuzihlanganisa nabanye. Ngefayela le- ukuzimisela sizokwazi ukwenza imibono yethu yaziwe ukuhlonipha lezo abanye abanazo. Uma siba nobungane obuncane, ngaphandle kokwenza sengathi singekho, sizofunda ukuhamba ngokushesha ezindaweni zomphakathi. Konke kuyindaba yokuzama nokufunda ukuthuthukisa lezi zinhlobo zamakhono. Uzobona ukuthi impendulo yabanye abantu inhle uma wenza ngendlela evulekile.
Isikhathi sokuba wedwa kwekhwalithi
Okokugcina, kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi umuzwa wesizungu ungaba namandla uma singazi ukuthi singawuqeda kanjani. I- isikhathi sokuba wedwa kufanele sibe sezingeni, sizijabulisa, sazi esikuthandayo nezidingo zethu. Kuyindlela ebaluleke kakhulu yokuzazi ukuthi sihlobene kanjani nabanye, ngakho-ke akufanele sikuthathe kancane.