Lapho kuziwa ekwakheni ubuhlobo nomunye umuntu, akungabazeki ukuthi kuyinselele yangempela. Ngaphandle kothando nothando, kunezikhathi lapho kufanele ubhekane nemizwa ethile engemihle. njengoba kwenzeka ngesimo sengqondo esibi noma ukunganaki.
Akulula ukuhlala nomuntu, ukuthi uzizwa udabukile noma usesimweni esibi ngezikhathi eziningi zosuku. Esihlokweni esilandelayo sikunikeza uchungechunge lweziqondiso ezingakusiza ukuthi ubhekane nesimo esibi somlingani wakho.
Ukuthi isimo esibi somlingani wakho singakuthinta kanjani
Isimo sombhangqwana sizothinta bonke ubuhlobo. Umbhangqwana uyinto yezinto ezimbili futhi uma umuntu ejabule futhi enhle, yonke into ihamba kahle. Nokho, isimo sengqondo esibi noma ukunganaki okuthile kuyoba nomthelela omubi ekusaseni elihle lombhangqwana. Bese sikubonisa eminye yemiphumela yokuthi umbhangqwana ube nesimo esibi:
- Imizwa nemizwa eyahlukene iyathathelana. Ukuhlanganyela isikhathi nomuntu ohlale esesimweni esibi kudala isimo esingesihle senhlalakahle yombhangqwana. Into eyodwa iholela kwenye futhi ekugcineni kuvela izingxabano ezithile ezilimaza kakhulu ubuhlobo.
- Isimo esibi sezithandani sidala isimo phakathi kobudlelwano esingesihle kubabhangqwana. Ukungakhululeki okuthile kwakheka okulimaza kakhulu isibopho phakathi kwabo bobabili abantu.
- Nakuba kungenabulungiswa nhlobo, isimo sengqondo esibi sombhangqwana singabangela omunye umuntu ukuba azizwe enecala ngalesi simo sengqondo. Kunenkolelo eqinile yecala elinjalo futhi kwenziwa yonke imizamo yokulungisa inkinga enjalo.
Izinkombandlela okufanele zilandelwe ukuze kusingathwe isimo esibi sezithandani
- Into yokuqala okufanele yenziwe ukungangenwa yisimo semizwa yombhangqwana. Kusukela lapha kufanele ubhekane nenkinga futhi uzame ukwenza isimo esibi sombhangqwana sinyamalale.
- Isinyathelo sesibili ukuzwelana nozakwenu ukuze ubone ukuthi kungani besesimweni esibi. Kubalulekile ukuthi uhlale phansi nomunye umuntu ulalele izizathu zalesi simo somqondo.
- Esimeni lapho isimo sengqondo esibi sombhangqwana singeyona into engavamile futhi iba yinto evamile, Kungaba ukuhlakanipha ukucela usizo kuchwepheshe. Ngezinye izikhathi isimo sengqondo esibi noma ukunganaki ngokuvamile kuyisandulela senkinga enkulu kakhulu njengokucindezeleka. Umbhangqwana kufanele uyiqaphele inkinga yawo futhi uvumele usizo ukuze uhlehlise isimo esinjalo.
Ngamafuphi, Akulula ukubhekana nesimo esibi sabashadikazi. Uma lesi simo somqondo siyinto yokugcina isikhathi, singelashwa ngaphandle kwezinkinga eziningi. Uma, ngakolunye uhlangothi, isimo sengqondo esibi nokunganaki kuqhubeka ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kuhle ukuya kuchwepheshe omuhle. Ngeshwa, kunezimo lapho inkinga iba yimbi kakhulu, okwenza ubudlelwano bube nobuthi. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, kungaba ngcono ukuqeda isixhumanisi nobudlelwano.