Ukufika kwengane njalo kumelela ushintsho olukhulu empilweni yombhangqwana. Ngaphandle kokwazi ukuphatha ngendlela efanele, kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi izisekelo zobudlelwano ziqale ukubhidlika ngendlela eyingozi. Ukuzalwa komntwana ngokungangabazeki kuwukuhlolwa kwe-litmus kubazali.
Ukwazi ukuphatha isimo esisha kungasiza ekuqiniseni ubudlelwano kanye ukuze ukwazi ukujabulela ngokugcwele iqiniso lokuthi ukuba nengane kuhlongoza. Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokubonisa izimbangela noma izizathu zokuthi kungani umbhangqwana ungantenga ngaphambi kokufika komntwana wawo wokuqala nokuthi yini okufanele uyenze ukuze ukulungise lokho.
Inkinga yombhangqwana ngemva kokuzalwa kwengane yabo yokuqala
Umbhangqwana ngamunye ubhekana nenkinga engenzeka ngendlela ehlukile. Kwezinye izimo kuba nokulwa noma ukuthukana njalo, kanti kwezinye kuba nokuhoxa ngokomzwelo. Noma ngabe kunjalo, lokhu akukuhle neze ebudlelwaneni, okubangela ukuwohloka okukhulu kubo.
Uma into ingaxazululeki, kungenzeka ukuthi ukungakhululeki okukhulunywe ngakho ngenhla kuzogcina kulimaza umndeni wonke. Ukuze ugweme lokhu, kubalulekile ukuthola izimbangela ezibangela ukungakhululeki okunjalo futhi wenze ukuze i-nucleus yomndeni ingalimazi nganoma yisiphi isikhathi.
Izimbangela zenkinga yombhangqwana ngenxa yokufika kwengane
- Isizathu sokuqala ngokuvamile sibangelwa izici zomuntu siqu zabo bobabili abazali. Endabeni yomama, kufanele kuphawulwe ukuthi umzimba wakhe uye waba nezinguquko ezibalulekile kanye nesimo sakhe esingokomzwelo. Endabeni kababa, Umthwalo wemfanelo mkhulu kakhulu ikakhulukazi lapho kuziwa ekunakekeleni ingane encane.
- Esinye isizathu sale nkinga singaba ngenxa yoshintsho olukhulu lwezinqubo zansuku zonke. Ukuba nomntwana kusho ukuthi kufanele uguqule impilo yakho ngokuphelele futhi ugxile ngokuphelele enhlalakahleni yengane. Abazali abanaso neze isikhathi sabo futhi bakwazi ukunqamula.
- Esinye sezizathu ezivame kakhulu zokuthi kungani imibhangqwana ixabana lapho inengane yayo yokuqala kungenxa yokuhlukaniswa komsebenzi wasendlini. Ezikhathini eziningi akukho ukulingana lapho kuhlukaniswa imisebenzi ehlukene ngaphakathi kwendlu kanye Lokhu kugcina ngezingxabano ezinamandla.
- Akungabazeki ukuthi ukunakekela umntwana kuba umsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu phakathi kombhangqwana. Lokhu kusho ukuthi isikhathi sabashadikazi sinciphe kakhulu. Izikhathi zokujabula kombhangqwana zishabalala cishe ngokuphelele futhi lokhu kunomthelela omubi ekusaseni elihle lobudlelwano.
Okufanele ukwenze ukuze ugweme izikhathi ezinzima ngemva kokuzalwa kwengane yokuqala
- Kuhle ukuthi abazali bakusasa bathole ngaphambi kokuzalwa, kukho konke okuhambisana nokuba nengane.
- Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokuhlala phansi, nikhulume, niqale ukuhlela imisebenzi eyahlukene okufanele nibhekane nayo lapho ingane yakho izalwa. Kuyindlela ephumelelayo yokugwema izingxabano nokulwa okungenzeka.
- Kubalulekile ukuthi umzali ngamunye abe nesikhathi esincane sokuphumula, ukukwazi ukunqamula imizuzu embalwa emsebenzini wokunakekela ingane.
- Uma kunesidingo, kulungile ukucela usizo abangani noma umndeni. Ngezinye izikhathi lolu sizo lubalulekile ukuze ugweme izimo zokucindezeleka noma ukukhathazeka.