Zonke izingane ziyizwa imizwa yazo kakhulu kepha aziqondi noma azi ukuthi zisho ukuthini ... Kuyadingeka ukuthi abazali babe yimikhombandlela yalezi zingane okufanele zifunde ukuthi ziziphathe kanjani nokuthi ziziqonde kanjani ukuze zinqume ngezinyathelo ezinhle kakhulu empilweni yazo. Enye indlela yokufundisa izingane ngesibonelo, ngokuba nokuhlakanipha okuhle ngokomzwelo.
Ukukhathazeka
Yize enye indlela kungukusetshenziswa kwemishwana engafundisa izingane ukuqondisa kabusha imizwa engemihle futhi bashintshe ukucabanga kwabo ngemizuzu nje embalwa. Ukukhathazeka kuvame ukuvela kungalindelekile futhi kuguqula umzuzu onokuthula ube yisimo esingesihle. Akukho okuhlukile ezinganeni.
Akukhathalekile ukuthi ingane yakho ijwayele ukuba nemizwa yokukhathazeka kaningi noma ivele ivele nje ngezinye izikhathi. Lapho nje ukukhathazeka sekufike ngaphezulu, kuyesabeka ... kulabo abazizwayo nakulabo abakubonayo.
Isibonelo ekuseni ezinesiphithiphithi semindeni, lapho izinzwa ngoba sekuhlwile kungagcina kukhathazekile phakathi kwamalungu ayo. Uma uqaphela ukuthi izingane zakho ziba novalo ngemikhuba yasekuseni, kuyisibonelo sokuthi ukwazi ukuzifundisa ukulawula imizwa yazo yokungazinzi. Ukuqinisekiswa noma amabinzana ayadingeka ukusebenzisana nale mizwa enamandla… Izingane zizoqala ukuzwa ukuthi zilawula usuku lwazo nemizwa yazo. Okubaluleke kakhulu, ukwenza lokhu besebancane kuyabasiza ukuthi babone ukuthi imicabango yabo inomthelela omkhulu empilweni yabo yansuku zonke.
Yimiphi imishwana
Imisho iyindlela elula kepha ephumelelayo yokunciphisa ukukhathazeka. Ukuvuma kungumthandazo omuhle oqinisa imizwa ekhuthazayo. Kususelwa esimisweni sokuthi ingqondo enganakile ingabamba umcabango owodwa ngasikhathi sinye futhi ihlale yamukela umcabango onamandla kunayo yonke. Lapho siphindwa, isitatimende siguqulwa ngokuzenzakalela emcabangweni onamandla, ngakho-ke kunqoba imicabango engemihle nokukhathazeka.
Ngezansi uzothola uhlu lweziqinisekiso engizithandayo. Ngokuzayo lapho izingane zakho zizizwa zikhathazekile, zisize ziguqule imicabango yazo zisuke ezitatimendeni ezingezinhle zokuzishaya ziye ezitatimendeni ezinhle.
Khetha isiqinisekiso ngezansi bese usiphinda nabo izikhathi ezingama-21. Ungazizwa ushintsho oluhle kumzwelo wakho:
- Ngikhululekile futhi ngilawula imizwa yami.
- Uzoba usuku oluhle namuhla
- Ngigxile futhi ngikhululekile ngaso sonke isikhathi.
- ngikhetha ukujabula
- Nsuku zonke ngiba ngcono futhi ngiba ngcono.
- Nginethezekile futhi ngizolile
Lokhu kuqinisekiswa kuzofundisa ingane yakho ukuthi iqondise kabusha imizwa engemihle futhi iguqule ukucabanga kwayo ngemizuzu nje ... Kodwa ukuze ube yisibonelo esihle sokuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo nezingane zakho. Ngoba khumbula, ukuthi yize iziqinisekiso zibalulekile, isibonelo sakho sizohlala sibaluleke kakhulu ekukhuliseni izingane zakho. Ngabe usuyazi vele ukuthi yimaphi amabinzana ozowasho ezinganeni zakho namuhla?