Imicabango kamama ingashintsha kusukela ekuvukeni ekuseni kuya ekulaleni ebusuku. Bangaba nemizwa exubile ngezikhathi ezahlukahlukene futhi akumangalisi. Ukuba ngumama kungumsebenzi wamahora angama-24, izinsuku ezingama-365 ngonyaka futhi yize kuyakhathaza, kuyinto enhle kakhulu owesifazane angafuna ukuba ngumama angaba nayo empilweni.
Nginemizwa exubile
Mhlawumbe ukuba nemizwa exubile kunezinzuzo ezithile nezimbi ezithile. Isibonelo, umama (pro) angabona ukuthi ukuhlala ekhaya kungaba yindlela eshibhile kweminye imindeni kunokukhokhela ukunakekelwa kwengane, igesi, ukunakekelwa kwezimoto, ukuhlanza okomile, ikhabethe, ikhefu lasemini, njll. Kepha futhi (imali) umholo wezomnotho wabantu ababili ungcono emnothweni womndeni.
Kubalulekile ukuthi uma unemizwa exubile ngalokho okufanele ngabe uyakwenza noma uma ukuhlala ekhaya akuyona into enhle njengoba ubucabanga ... Bese ubhale futhi ulungise isabelomali somndeni ukukusiza ukuthi uhambe endleleni, wehlise ingcindezi futhi ube nakho konke ama-akhawunti alawulwa. Ungabandakanya umndeni wakho ukuthi ucabangele ukuthola izephulelo neminikelo yokuthi kufanele uthenge nini.
Liyini izinga lengcindezi yami?
Ingcindezi emsebenzini ingaphela, kepha impilo ihlala iza nenani elithile lengcindezi… ngoba kuhlale kungumsebenzi wansuku zonke, futhi ongapheli. Ungahle ucabange (pro) ukuthi uma uthanda zonke izici zobuzali futhi ukwazi nokumomotheka ngaphakathi lapho ingane yakho ikumodi ephelele yokuhlangana, izinga lokucindezeleka kwakho kungenzeka libe liphansi kakhulu Kuthiwani uma bekufanele ukhulise umndeni wakho ngenkathi usebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya ...
Kepha-ke omunye umcabango uyakuhlasela (ngokumelene) futhi lokho ukuthi izingane zingaba ngaphezu kwezikhalazo ezimbalwa, ukulwa nokungaziphathi kahle ... Ungaba nezingcindezi ezingeziwe ngenxa yemali encishisiwe.
Ukulinganisa lokhu futhi uzizwe ucindezelekile, uzodinga ukusebenzisa imikhuba yokulawula ukucindezeleka, njengokuzivocavoca ukuphefumula, isikhathi sokuthula, noma ukuzindla. Ungakufundisa lokhu nasezinganeni zakho ukuze zifunde ukuphatha ukucindezeleka kwazo.
Nginombono ohlukile ngokuphila uma ngingekho nezingane
Impilo yakho yezenhlalo izobona ushintsho olukhulu njengoba usuzogxila kuyo. Ungazi (pro) abanye abantu abaningi abahlala ekhaya futhi bagcina sebengabangani bakho, nokuthi ungenza ubusuku bamantombazane noma ntambama ngomama ... njengekhefu elincane ngenkathi wabelana ngokuhlangenwe nakho okuvamile.
Yize kungenzeka futhi ukuthi (njengoba ilawula) awenzi imisebenzi eminingi njengangaphambili ngaphambi kokuba ngumama. Ukuthola ibhalansi kule micabango kungcono ukuthi ugcine ukuxhumana nabanye abazali ukwabelana ngezinto abazithandayo, abakuthandayo nemicabango yabo.
Yize okuhle kunakho konke ukuthi wena nezingane zakho ninokuthile okuhle ezimpilweni zenu ... niyakujabulela ukwenziwa kanye namashejuli ahlelekile!