El ukuzihlonipha nokuzethemba akuveli ndawoNjengezinye izimfanelo, kufanele sisebenzele kuyo futhi akulula uma sinenkinga efana nenkinga yokuphansi evela kokuhlangenwe nakho nokufunda okuthile. Okuhle ukuthi konke kungaphinde kwenziwe kabusha futhi kwenziwe, ngisho nokuzithanda wena, yingakho singakufeza uma sikusebenzela.
Sizobona eminye imibono namathiphu okuthuthukisa ukuzethemba noma ukuzethemba. Kungumuzwa okufanele ubhekwane nawo ngoba ukuzethemba okuphansi kungaholela kwezinye izinkinga, kusuka ebudlelwaneni obunobuthi kuya ekucindezelekeni noma ekukhathazekeni. Ngakho-ke sifuna ukukunikeza amathiphu okuthola ukuzithanda okuningi.
Nakekela umzimba wakho
Ukunakekela umzimba kungenye indlela yokunakekela ingqondo. Umzimba wethu kufanele ube yithempeli lethu, ngoba sizohlala kuwo kuze kube sekupheleni kwezinsuku zethu futhi kufanele siwuphathe ngenhlonipho efanele. Yingakho kufanele sinakekele umzimba, ngoba futhi kufakazelwa ukuthi lokhu kukhulisa ukuzethemba kwethu futhi kusenze sizizwe singcono ngathi. Qala ukudlala imidlalo, udle okunempilo futhi uzame ukwelashwa kobuhle okungakuthakazelisa. Uzobona ukuthi uzozizwa kanjani ungcono ngaphakathi nangaphandle.
Musa ukuziqhathanisa nomunye umuntu
Lokhu kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu okumele siyinake, ikakhulukazi ngezikhathi zokuxhumana nabantu. Sibona abaningi amaphrofayili wabantu ababonakala benempilo ekahle nephelele, yize lokhu kungumbono ongaphambili kuphela. Kumele sikhumbule ukuthi sonke sikhombisa ubuso obuhle kunabo bonke kumanethiwekhi nokuthi iqiniso lingahluka kakhulu. Kepha kunoma yikuphi, umuntu ngamunye ungumhlaba futhi akumele siziqhathanise nomunye umuntu. Sinamandla nobuthakathaka bethu futhi kufanele sigxile kulokho, ngoba umuntu ngamunye uhlukile futhi akaphindeki.
Gxila kokuthandayo
Kubalulekile ukuthi singachithi isikhathi ezintweni esingazithandi nhlobo noma esizigcwalisayo, ngoba sizozithokozisa kakhulu. Gxila kulezo zinto ozithandayo, noma kungenjalo ithandwa kakhulu noma imfashini. Impilo yakho ngeyakho futhi kumele uzimele uma kukhulunywa ngokusho ukuthi kukhona okuthandayo noma cha, uma ufuna ukwenza umsebenzi noma cha. Uma uthola okuthile okuthandayo futhi kukugcwalise, uzobona ukuthi ukuzethemba kwakho kukhula kanjani kakhulu.
Gwema abantu abanganikeli
Lokhu kungenye into okufanele uyikhumbule. Singabantu abaphilayo futhi sihlala sixhumana nabanye abantu. Kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele sixhumane nanoma ngubani noma ukuthi kufanele sibekezelele abantu abangasiletheli okuhle ekugcineni. Uma kukhona ubudlelwano esibubonayo ukuthi akusasebenzi Kungcono ukuzinika isikhala ukubona ukuthi lowo muntu ufake okuthile kithi noma cha. Ukuze sikwazi ukwenza okuhle ezimpilweni zethu, kufanele futhi sazi ukuthi singazishiya kanjani izinto ezingasilungele.
Bheka izinhloso nezisusa
Una umuntu ozethembayo nokuzethemba nokuzithanda unezinhloso nezisusa ezikwenza uzizwe ugcwalisekile. Kungaba ukusebenza, ukutadisha noma ukuqala umndeni. Izinhloso zakho zinqunywa nguwe, kodwa kuhle ukuba nezizathu zokuvuka usuku nosuku uyolwa.
Khuluma okuhle
I-Las abantu abanesimo esihle banokuzethemba okuningi nokuzethemba kunabanye abantu. Banethemba futhi babona ingilazi igcwele isigamu, benesimo sengqondo esingcono ngezinkinga zempilo, into ebasizayo ukuzixazulula ngokushesha. Yingakho kumele sifunde ukukhuluma kahle, noma ngabe sikhuluma nathi noma nabanye.