Ukuqiniseka kuyisidingo kubo bonke abantu ngoba ukuba nakho kuqinisekisa ukuthi ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu bayimpumelelo yokugwema izingxabano ezingafuneki. Ukuqina kuvumela abantu ukuthi bakhulume imiqondo yabo ngokuqina nangokucabangela izidingo nemizwa yabanye. Ukuhlukumeza akusetshenziswanga futhi ngqo lokho ocabanga ukuthi kushiwo ngendlela engcono kakhulu.
Njengobaba noma umama, Kuyadingeka ukuthi ukhumbule ukuthi izingane zakho kumele zifunde ukuzethemba ngoba akuyona into etholwayo kusukela ekuzalweni noma ebuntwini. Ngalesi sizathu, ngezansi sizokunikeza amanye amathiphu ukuze izingane zakho zifunde ukuzethemba, yize khumbula ... izenzo zakho zansuku zonke zifundisa kahle kakhulu.
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Ukuqina kusho ukuqondisa ngqo kulokho okudingekayo, okufunekayo, kuzwakala noma kukholwe ngendlela ehlonipha imibono yabanye. Yikhono lokuxhumana elinganciphisa ukungqubuzana, likhulise ukuzethemba, futhi lithuthukise ubudlelwane noma kuphi empilweni yomuntu. Amanye amathiphu okufanele uwagcine engqondweni yile:
- Zibophezele ekubeni nogqozi esikhundleni sokungenzi lutho noma ulaka bese uqala ukwenza namuhla, uma izingane zakho zikubona zizofunda ezenzweni zakho.
- Khumbula ukuhlonipha abanye abantu uma wabelana ngemizwa yabo, abakufunayo, abakudingayo, izinkolelo zabo, noma imibono yabo.
- Zama ukuqonda umbono womunye umuntu futhi ungaphazamisi lapho bekuchazela.
- Khumbula ukuthi ukuba nombono ohlukile akusho ukuthi uqinisile kanti omunye akalungile.
- Thembeka futhi utshele abanye ukuthi uzizwa kanjani noma ukuthi ufunani ngaphandle kokwenza izinsolo noma ukwenza abanye bazizwe benecala.
- Phinda njengoba ujwayele ukwenza, bheka umuntu emehlweni, gcina ubuso bakho bukhululekile futhi ukhulume ngezwi elijwayelekile.
- Zama ukubona omunye umuntu njengomngani wakho, hhayi isitha sakho.
- Khuluma ngokuzethemba phambi kwesibuko noma nomngani. Naka ulimi lwakho lomzimba, kanye namagama owashoyo ... uzofunda ukubona ukuthi ulimi lomzimba wakho lunjani lapho uqinile futhi uma une-tics ethukile uzoyithola futhi uzokwazi ukuqondisa kabusha futhi ziqede.
- Namathela ngezitatimende ezifaka phakathi "ngizizwa" esikhundleni sokuthi "angikaze" noma "njalo" okuholela kulimi olunolaka kakhulu.
Ukuqina kuyikhono elidinga ukujwayela ngakho-ke kuzofanele ubekezele uze uqale ukuthola imiphumela emihle. Khumbula ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi uzokwenza kangcono kunabanye, kepha ungahlala ufunda emaphutheni abo ... futhi lo ngomunye wemiyalezo ebaluleke kakhulu kuzodingeka ufundise izingane zakho.
Izingane zakho kudingeka zifunde ukuzimela futhi indlela engcono yokwenza lokho ukuthi zikufunde kuwe. Kufanele ube nguwe ofundisa ngezenzo zakho ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze nokuthi uziphatha kanjani wena kanye nabanye. Izingane zakho zizokubuka cishe unganakile futhi zizobe zifunda konke okushoyo, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, konke okwenzayo.