Enye yezinselelo ezinkulu abazali ababhekana nazo namuhla ukufundisa izingane ukuba zihloniphe umhlaba ezibazungezile. Akuwona umsebenzi olula futhi kuncane emphakathini esihlala kuwo. Umphakathi ogcwele ukungcola, ukuzimela wedwa, ukuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo nalapho okubonakala phezulu kubonakala kubaluleke kakhulu kunezindinganiso zangempela noma ezinhle.
Akulula njengokuthi 'inhlonipho ibaluleke kakhulu ngakho-ke kumele uhloniphe'. Lutho neze. Ukukhula kwengane kuhlala kungaphezu kwamagama, yizenzo nendlela oziphatha ngayo okufundisa izingane ukuthi iyini inhlonipho.
Inhlonipho ezinganeni
Inhlonipho isho ukubeka inani kumuntu noma entweni ethile bese uphendula ngokufanele. Isibonelo, lapho ubazisa abangane bakho, ubaphatha ngomusa. Uma uhlonipha umphakathi wakho, ugwema ukungcola. Yize inhlonipho kungumqondo ongaba nzima ukuwuqonda, kubalulekile ukusiza ingane yakho ukuthi iqonde ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuhlonipha. Ngenxa yalokhu, kubalulekile ukuthi abazali baqonde ukuthi yini edingekayo ukusiza ingane ukuthi ihloniphe abanye abantu, yona uqobo, nezwe elibazungezile.
Ukuba ngabazali kungumsebenzi onzima futhi mhlawumbe unezibopho eziningi kangaka awukaze ume ucabange ngokubaluleka kokufundisa izingane zakho imikhuba emihle futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukubaluleka kwenhlonipho ezimpilweni zazo. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ufundise ingane yakho ukuthi yini inhlonipho ngezenzo ukuze, kuyo yonke impilo yayo, ikwazi qala ukucabanga ngezindlela zokuqonda ukubaluleka kanye nencazelo yenhlonipho.
Khombisa inhlonipho
Uyisibonelo esihle kakhulu sezingane zakho futhi zifunda ngokulingisa. Izingane zakho zizofunda ukukhombisa futhi zilingise indlela yokuziphatha ngokushesha nje lapho uqala ukukwenza. Uma uphatha abantu abaseduze kwakho ngenhlonipho, izingane zakho zizokukhetha lokho futhi zenze ngokuvumelana nabantu ababazungezile, okubandakanya nawe. Noma kunjalo, Uma ukhuluma nabanye abantu ngezindlela ezimbi noma ungayinaki imibono yabo kanye nemibono yabo, izingane zakho zizokhetha lokho kuziphatha ezizokulingisa.
Yize kuliqiniso ukuthi abantu abaphelele, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi ukuziphatha kwakho kubalulekile futhi bazohlala befundisa izingane zakho izinto ezinhle. Uma ungumuntu ophikisayo, ukhuluphele, unolaka ... ngakho-ke kufanele ucabange ukuthi ungakuthuthukisa kanjani ukuziphatha kwakho ukuze ube yisibonelo esihle ezinganeni zakho. Kunezindlela eziningi ongakhombisa ngazo inhlonipho empilweni yansuku zonke.
Khuluma ngenhlonipho nezingane zakho
Udinga ukuchazela izingane zakho ukuthi iyini inhlonipho nokuthi kungani kubaluleke kangaka ukuyicabangela emndenini nasemphakathini. Njengoba izingane zisencane kakhulu kufanele zijwayele leli gama. Lokhu kungaba yinto elula njengokukhuluma ngokubaluleka kokuhlanganyela amathoyizi noma ukungathathi okuthile komunye umntwana.
Kungaba yinkimbinkimbi ngokwengeziwe, njengokuchaza ukuthi kungani udinga ukuba nenhlonipho noma okuhle kwabanye abantu. Lapho uqala ingxoxo mayelana nenhlonipho, izingane zakho zizozizwa zikhululeke ngokwengeziwe ukuhlola lesi sihloko nawe. Okubaluleke kakhulu, bazokwazi ukukubuza imibuzo mayelana nokuthi kusho ukuthini ngempela ukubonisa inhlonipho kwabanye. bese-ke bezofuna ukubona leso sibonelo kuwe.
Uma usufinyelele kuleli qophelo, kufanele umkhombise nsuku zonke ukuthi iyini inhlonipho nokuthi unayo kanjani kubantu obazungezile. Lapho uthola ithuba usuku ngalunye, chaza izibonelo zenhlonipho osuyenzile.