Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule, komunye umbhalo ophathelene nokusebenza kwengqondo, bengikhuluma ngalabo bantu okufanele 'sibasuse' ezimpilweni zethu, siye abantu abanobuthi okusizungezile usuku nosuku. Uma ungakayifundi, ungakwenza lokho lapha. Futhi kungani ngikhulume ngalesi sihloko? Ngoba ixhunyaniswe kakhulu nale engikunikeza yona namuhla: amasela amandla ngokusho kweDalai Lama.
Ukukholelwa kulokhu, noma kunalokho, ukwazi ukuthi konke esikutshela khona ngezansi kuyiqiniso, akudingeki ube ngumBuddha, kufanele uzibuze ukuthi ngabe lezo zinto zake zehlela thina. Uma impendulo inguyebo kubo bonke noma iningi labo, khona-ke unala "masela wamandla" asondele kakhulu kuwe. Zisuse empilweni yakho uma ukwazi, futhi uma kungenjalo, hlala nazo lapho ungafuni impilo yakho nomoya wakho ube kubi usuku nosuku.
UDalai Lama usitshelani?
Lokhu kushiwo uDalai Lama engxoxweni abe nayo naye. Iphoyinti ngephuzu:
- “Bayekeni abantu abeza kuphela ukuzokwabelana ngezikhalazo, izinkinga, izindaba eziyinhlekelele, ukwesaba nokwahlulela abanye. Uma othile efuna ikani lokulahla udoti wabo, zama ukungabi semqondweni wakho.
- "Khokha izikweletu zakho ngesikhathi. Ngasikhathi sinye, ukhokhisa obakweletayo noma okhetha ukumdedela, uma vele kungenakwenzeka ukumkhokhisa ».
- Uma ungathobelanga, zibuze ukuthi kungani umelene nalokhu. Uhlala njalo unelungelo lokushintsha umqondo wakho, ukuxolisa, ukunxephezela, ukuphinda uxoxe futhi unikeze enye indlela yokuthola isithembiso esingagcwaliseki; yize kungenjengesijwayelekile. Indlela elula yokugwema ukungahambisani nento ongafuni ukuyenza ukuthi Cha ekuqaleni.
- "Susa konke okusemandleni futhi udlulisele leyo misebenzi ongakhethi ukuyenza bese uchitha isikhathi sakho wenza leyo oyithandayo."
- "Zinike imvume yokuphumula uma usesikhathini sokudinga futhi uzinike imvume yokwenza okuthile uma usesikhathini sethuba."
- "Donsa, uphakamise futhi uhlele, akukho lutho oluthatha amandla amaningi kunesikhala esimapeketwane esigcwele izinto zakudala ongasazidingi."
- “Beka impilo yakho phambili, ngaphandle kokuba imishini yomzimba wakho isebenze kahle kakhulu, awukwazi ukwenza okuningi. Thatha ikhefu.
- “Bhekana nezimo ezinobuthi ozibekezelelayo, kusukela ekusindiseni umngani noma ilungu lomndeni, ukubekezelela izenzo ezimbi ezivela kumlingani noma eqenjini; thatha izinyathelo ezidingekayo.
- "Uyamukela. Akukona ukusula emsebenzini, kepha akukho okwenza ukuthi ulahlekelwe ngamandla amaningi kunokumelana nokulwa nesimo ongeke ukwazi ukusiguqula.
- "Uxolo, dedela isimo esikudalela ubuhlungu, ungahlala ukhetha ukudedela ubuhlungu benkumbulo."
Siyazi ukuthi kubonakala kulula lapho uthi nhlá, kepha akunjalo ... Kodwa-ke, kuphi ukwaneliseka kokuhambisana nakho?