Ngokuqinisekile ngaphezu kwesikhathi esisodwa uzwile leyo 'ndawo yokududuza'. Yigama elikhuluma ngendlela yokwenza izinto, a indawo yokuphepha engokomfanekiso lapho sihlala khona kaningi. Yize kuliqiniso ukuthi osukwini lwethu nosuku sidinga ukuzinza okuncane, futhi kuyiqiniso ukuthi empilweni kufanele sizibeke engcupheni futhi siqhubekele phambili, futhi ngenxa yalokhu kuzofanele ukuthi siphume kule ndawo ekhululekile.
Sizobona iyini ngempela indawo yokududuza, ukwazi ukuthi sikuphi kuwo. Kubalulekile futhi ukwazi ukuthi kungani kukuhle ukuqhubekela phambili ushiye le ndawo ethokomele kithina, imihlomulo esilethelayo. Lokhu kuzosisiza ukulawula zonke izici zempilo yethu kangcono kakhulu.
Yini indawo yokududuza
Indawo yokududuza uchungechunge lwezimo lapho sinethezeke khona. Ngokuvamile izimo esingazivumelanisi nazo, ngoba badinga umzamo omncane. Lokhu kushoda kwemizamo yikhona okusenza samukele lezi zimo kanye nalezi zici ngaphandle kokubheka ukuthi ngabe yilokho esikufunayo ngempela noma yini esivumelana nathi. Ezimweni ezinhle kakhulu, isimo siyinto esiyifunayo futhi siphila kahle kanjalo, kepha ezimweni eziningi lokhu kuzosho ukwamukela impilo esingayifuni nhlobo nokuthi ekugcineni izosenza singajabuli.
Singabeka ezinye izibonelo ukwazi ukuthi sikhuluma ngani. Umbhangqwana ongasajabuli ngomunye nomunye kodwa osese ndawonye ngoba kubo bobabili kuyinto elula kunazo zonke, ngoba akudingeki babhekane nengxabano noma ukwehlukana. Kuyisibonelo esihle futhi lapho sihlala emsebenzini ongasigculisi ngoba uhlangabezana nezidingo zethu futhi usinikeza ukuzinza okuthile, kepha asilweli ukuthola okuthile okungcono ngoba kungadinga umzamo omkhulu.
Ubumnyama bendawo yokududuza
Esinye sezici ezimbi kakhulu zale ndawo yokududuza ukuthi imvamisa yakhiwe ngokususelwa ekwesabeni. Sihlala ebudlelwaneni noma emsebenzini esingawuthandi ngoba sesaba ukufuna okuhlukile futhi siguqule impilo yethu, sihlukane nakho konke. Kuzofanele singene endaweni esingayijwayele futhi lokho kuyasethusa. Inkinga ngendawo yokunethezeka ukuthi ukuphepha esinakho empilweni yethu kuncike ezintweni zangaphandle kanye neqiniso lokuthi lezi aziguquki, yingakho injabulo ingaba yisikhashana.
Izinzuzo zokushiya indawo yokunethezeka
Indawo yokududuza iyi- indlela yokuphila sinamathela kuyo ngenxa yokwesaba ukuze yonke into iguquke futhi ibhekane nokuthile okungaziwa okubonwa njengokusongela kepha okungazange kwenzeke. Kwesinye isikhathi lokhu kwesaba kumane nje kuyingxenye yemicabango yethu. Ukushiya indawo yokunethezeka kunezinzuzo ezinkulu.
Phuma kule ndawo futhi ukungena entweni entsha kusigcwalisa ngokuphepha kithi. Sizobona ukuthi yithina esingashintsha izimo futhi sifune injabulo ngamathuluzi ethu. Lokhu kuzosenza sinciphise ukwesaba ukuthi izinguquko zizovela nokuthi indawo yethu yokududuza izonyamalala.
Ukushiya le ndawo futhi sisebenzise izinsiza nakho konke ukuhlakanipha kwethu ukushintsha izimpilo zethu nakho kunenzuzo yokusenza sibone ukuthi yini esikwaziyo ukuyenza. Kwesinye isikhathi sihlala kule ndawo ngoba asikwazi ukwenza izinto eziningi. Sizivivinye kusenza sikwazi ukusebenza futhi siqine nsuku zonke, ngakho-ke sincoma ukuthi uqale ushintshe izinto empilweni yakho ukuze ubalekele kuleyondawo yokunethezeka ngokuphepha kwayo okungamanga.