Ukwethembana kuyisisekelo lapho noma ibuphi ubuhlobo busekelwe khona. Amanga angonakalisa konke ukwethembana okwakhiwa kumbhangqwana oshiwo futhi aqede ubudlelwano ngokwabo. Akunandaba ukuthi hlobo luni lwamanga, ngoba lungena kancane kancane esibophweni esidaliwe, lubangele ukungakhululeki okukhulu noma intukuthelo okunzima ukuyixazulula.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sikunikeza uchungechunge lweziqondiso noma amathiphu okuthemba uzakwenu futhi uma kwenzeka eqamba amanga.
Amanga ebudlelwaneni
Amanga ayizitha ezinkulu zokwethembana ngakho-ke nobudlelwano. Ukuqamba amanga kumlingani kuholela ezimweni ezingenampilo eziholela ekuhlulekeni kobudlelwane. Nokho, kungase kwenzeke ukuthi iqembu eliqamba amanga libone iphutha elikhulu alenzayo futhi lifune ukuhlehlisa isimo ukuze liphinde lilahlekelwe ukwethenjwa.
Ukuthembana okuphukile noma okuphukile phakathi kwabashadikazi Akulula ukuyithola. Kuyinqubo ende engathatha iminyaka futhi idinga ukubandakanyeka ngokugcwele kwabathintekayo ebudlelwaneni. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kudinga ushintsho oluphelele lomuntu oqambe amanga kanye nokusebenzisa ukuthembela kumuntu oye waphathwa amanga.
Ukubaluleka kokubekezela
Indlela yokubuyisela ukwethembana phakathi kobudlelwano ihlukumeza futhi yinde. Awukwazi ukumethemba umlingani wakho kusukela osukwini olulodwa kuya kolunye, ngakho ukubekezela kubaluleke kakhulu. Izenzo ezihlukene zansuku zonke ezingasiza ukuphinda uthembe umbhangqwana. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi uma konke kuhamba kahle, kuqinisekile ukuthi amaqembu azozuza ngokuvikeleka nokuzethemba.
Izihlamba azisizi ngalutho
Uma iqembu elimele linquma ukuthethelela umlingani, uthe intethelelo kufanele yamukelwe nayo yonke imiphumela futhi ngaphandle kwezaba. Kungakho noma yiluphi uhlobo lwesihlamba kufanele lugwenywe futhi lugcinwe ngendlela efanayo njengoba lungazuzi nhlobo uma kuziwa ekubuyiseleni ukuzethemba okulahlekile. Uma lokho okufunayo nokufunayo ukuhambisa ubuhlobo phambili, kubalulekile ukuqala kusukela kusisekelo futhi yakha kabusha ukwethembana ukuze uqinisekise ubudlelwano obuqinile nobuhlala njalo.
Gwema ukuzivikela
Ukuthola ukwethenjwa okulahlekile kuwumsebenzi wazo zombili izinhlangothi. Kufanele uzilolonge umsebenzi onzima wokungaqapheli yonke into futhi ugweme ukuhlala uzivikela. Endabeni yokukholelwa ebudlelwaneni futhi ulwe nabo, kufanele uthathe igxathu eliya phambili ucabange ukuthi konke kuzoba ngcono futhi lokho kuthembana kuphinde kube khona ebudlelwaneni.
Ukwelashwa kwezithandani ukuze kubuyiselwe ukwethembana
Sesike sasho phambilini ukuthi akulula ukubuyisa ukwethembana ebudlelwaneni, lapho amanga adale umonakalo omkhulu. Ukuze konke kuphinde kusebenze, bobabili abathintekayo ebudlelwaneni kufanele benze konke okusemandleni ukuze bakhe futhi isisekelo esihle, esisekelwe entethelweni nothando. Kunezikhathi lapho ubudlelwano budinga usizo lwangaphandle ukuze buqhubekele phambili futhi bulungise ukwethembana okulahlekile. Kulezi zimo kuwumqondo omuhle ukuya ekwelashweni kwezithandani futhi welulekwe uchwepheshe owazi kahle ukuthi ungayixazulula kanjani le nkinga.
Ngamafuphi, yenaNgokuvamile yibo abanecala ngezithandani eziningi ezihlukanayo futhi ungahlali isikhathi eside. Ukwephula ukwethembana kuyinto esho ukuphela kobudlelwano obuningi. Kodwa-ke, kungenzeka ukubuyisela ukwethenjwa okushiwo futhi, lapho kukhona ukuthambekela okuthile kwamaqembu ukuxazulula inkinga enjalo. Kulokhu kubalulekile ukuthi ingxenye eqamba amanga ishintshe futhi ilwele ubudlelwano futhi ingxenye ehlushwe amanga yazi ukuthethelela.