Ngabe kukhona owake wakutshela ukuthi ngokuhlala ekhaya unakekele izingane zakho nekhaya lakho kufanele ubonge? Akuyona yonke imindeni engakwazi ukukhokhela imali ngeholo elilodwa (uma kwenzeka kukhona umholo womlingani wakho kuphela), lokhu kuyiqiniso, kepha empeleni nawe uyasebenza, yize kungekho noyedwa okunika i-euro eyodwa. Kukhona abangasiqondi lesi sinqumo nabanye abasishayelayo ihlombe.
Uzizwa unengcindezi
Omama abahlala ekhaya nabo babhekana namazinga ahlukene okucindezeleka. Yize kuliqiniso ukuthi ukucindezeleka emsebenzini kungenzeka ukuthi akusekho, impilo iyohlala ikulethela amazinga athile oxinzelelo. Ungazithanda zonke izici zobuzali, uhlale nezingane zakho nsuku zonke amahora angama-24 ... kepha izinga lokuxineka kwakho belingaphansi kakhulu uma kufanele ukhulise umndeni wakho ngenkathi usebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya, ngoba ungakwazi 'ukunqamula' isikhashana.
Izingane zingamunca kakhulu, ikakhulukazi lapho zihlushwa, zilwa noma zingaziphathi kahle. Lokhu kungadala ukuthi ube nezingcindezi ezingezekile ezandisa ukukhathazeka kwakho, noma ngabe awudingi ukubekezelela umphathi ehhovisi lakho. Manje usunabanye abaphathi: izingane zakho.
Lapho uzizwa unengcindezi, kufanele usebenzise imikhuba yokulawulwa kwengcindezi, njengokuzivocavoca ukuphefumula, isikhathi sokuthula, noma ukuzindla. Ungakufundisa lokhu nasezinganeni zakho ukuze zifunde ukuphatha ukucindezeleka kwazo.
Umbono wempilo uyashintsha
Ngaphezu kokuzizwa ucindezelekile, impilo yakho iyashintsha. Isibonelo, impilo yakho yezenhlalo izoba noshintsho olukhulu njengoba uthuthuka futhi uba nezingane. Ungahlangana nabangane abaningi abahlala ekhaya nezingane zabo nokuthi ungahlangana nabo nezingane ukukunika ikhefu futhi uphume endlini. Ungaba wedwa nabo ukuhlanganyela okwenziwayo nokunciphisa ingcindezi yokuba ngumama.
Ungaqaphela nokuncipha kwemisebenzi owawubambe iqhaza kuyo lapho wawusebenza khona. Ungalahlekelwa ukubamba iqhaza emicimbini yomphakathi enjengemicimbi yasehhovisi, imihlangano yebhizinisi, nokuphuma ezinkampanini okuvame ukukhuluma ngokuthenga kakhulu kunokuphila komndeni. Umbuthano wakho wezenhlalo ungancishiselwa labo abanye omama futhi kuphelele lapho.
Ngokufanelekile, kufanele ugcine ukuxhumana okunempilo nabanye abazali futhi nabanye abantu ababelana ngezinto ozithandayo nezobuchwepheshe, noma ngabe banazo izingane noma cha!
Ngemikhuba uzoba nengcindezi encane
Uma unosuku oluhlelekile olunemizila, uzozizwa unengcindezi encane ngoba wonke umuntu uzokwazi ukuthi enzeni ngaso sonke isikhathi. Uzokwazi ukulawula kakhudlwana okwenzeka ekhaya futhi ngeke kudingeke ukhathazeke ngokuthi uma kufanele uphuthume emhlanganweni ntambama. Imizila yakho izofana isonto nesonto futhi lokhu kungakwenza uzizwe uzolile.
Kepha uma uqaphela ukuthi inkambiso isiphenduke isithukuthezi, ungangeza okuhlukahlukene, njengokuvakashela amapaki amasha noma izindawo njengomndeni. Izingane zakho zizoba nezinkumbulo ezinhle ngenxa yokuthi ubukade unabo ngaso sonke isikhathi ngenkathi zisakhula.