Ucansi luyinto ebalulekile futhi eyisisekelo ekuphileni kwansuku zonke kombhangqwana. Ngakho-ke kuvamile ukuthi izinkinga ezithile zingase ziphakame lapho kunokuntuleka okusobala kocansi ebudlelwaneni noma lapho omunye wabathintekayo engumlutha wocansi. Lokhu kulutheka kuyinkinga yangempela kumuntu uqobo, ngoba ukuthatheka okunjalo ocansini kugcina kuba nomthelela omubi ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene zokuphila njengasemsebenzini noma emndenini.
Ukugwema lokhu, kubalulekile ukuthi umuntu abone futhi azi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi uhlushwa inkinga nokuthi kumele kusingathwe ngokushesha ukuze kunqandwe abashadikazi ekuhlukaneni.
Ungazi kanjani ukuthi umbhangqwana umlutha wocansi
Isikhathi esiningi kunzima ukwazi ukuthi umbhangqwana umlutha wocansi. Umuntu owumlutha uzama ukufihla inkinga yakhe ukuze omunye angaboni lutho. Kodwa-ke, kunezibonakaliso ezimbalwa ezingabonisa ukuthi umbhangqwana unenkinga yokuluthwa ucansi:
- Anilali nilala ndawonye futhi ukhetha ukuhlala ebukele ithelevishini noma ahlole i-Internet kuze kuse.
- kungangeni moya futhi akawutsheli umbhangqwana ukuthi wenzani.
- Uhlushwa ukushintsha kwemizwa kungazelelwe ngemva kokuya ocansini.
- Kukhona ukuntuleka okusobala kokukhulumisana nomlingani uma kuziwa endabeni yocansi.
- unezinkinga ezinkulu lapho uxhumana nabanye abantu.
- amanga kakhuluO, akalikhulumi iqiniso.
- izithombe zocansi ezifihliwe ukuze umbhangqwana ungathukutheli.
Okufanele ukwenze uma umlingani wakho ecwile ocansini
Akulula noma kulula ukuthola ukuthi umbhangqwana umlutha wocansi. Okujwayelekile wukuthi uthe ukulutheka kugcina sephule ubuhlobo obunjalo. Lapho bethola ukulutheka okunjalo, kukhona ukuntula ukwethemba umbhangqwana okunzima ukukulungisa nokukulungisa. Kodwa-ke, kunezimo lapho kunqunywa khona ukuxazulula inkinga enjalo futhi uzame ukwenza ubuhlobo buqine kakhulu. Ezimeni ezinjalo kubalulekile ukuthi umlutha azi ukuthi unenkinga futhi ufuna ukuyilungisa ukuze ulondoloze ubuhlobo.
Isinyathelo sokuqala ukuya kuchwepheshe wokulutha ukuze usize lowo muntu anqobe inkinga enjalo. Umgwaqo omude futhi oyinkimbinkimbi, njengoba kubalulekile ukubuyisela amanani abalulekile njengokwethembana, uthando noma inhlonipho kumbhangqwana. Uma kungenzeki ukuphinda umethembe uzakwethu, kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu futhi kunzima ukuthi ubudlelwano busebenze futhi.
Ngamafuphi, ukuluthwa ucansi kuyinkinga enkulu yekusasa elihle lobudlelwano. Akulula ukuphila ukuphila njengombhangqwana nomuntu obhekene nalolu hlobo lokulutha, ngoba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, izindinganiso ezitholakala kumbhangqwana, njengenhlonipho noma ukwethemba, ziphulwa. Ukulwela ubudlelwano nokufuna ukwelapha ukulutheka uthe kubalulekile ukuze umbhangqwana ungagcini ngokuhlukana.