Kunenkolelo eyiphutha ngokuphelele edumile yokuthi ukubamba ingane ezingalweni, kuyindlela yokumjwayela kabi noma yokumkhulisa kabi. Kodwa-ke, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi izingalo zabazali ziyadingeka ekuphileni kwansuku zonke kwengane, njengoba kunjalo ngokudla noma ukulala. Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokubamba lapho ingane idinga.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sikhuluma ngokukhulisa izingane ezingalweni, izinzuzo zalokhu kwangana kanye ukubaluleka enakho ekukhuleni okuphelele kwengane.
ukubeletha ezingalweni
Enye yezinto zokuqala abazali abazithengayo ngaphambi kokuba ingane yabo izalwe yi-stroller. Umphakathi uye wabangela ukuba abazali bangakhulelwa ukuphila ngaphandle kokuba nenqola ongahamba ngayo nengane yakho. Kodwa-ke, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi esikhathini esidlule akekho owayesebenzisa umqhubi lapho ehamba umntwana. Kulokhu, abazali babesebenzisa izingalo lapho behambisa izingane zabo.
Nakuba abantu abaningi bengazi Ziningi izinzuzo zokukhulisa izingalo. Lolu hlobo lokukhuliswa lusiza ekuqiniseni isibopho phakathi kwabazali nengane, ngaphezu kwalokho ekuthuthukiseni ubuchopho bengane. Ngaphezu kwalokhu, izingalo zabazali zisiza ingane ukuba ikhululeke futhi izole. Ngenxa yazo zonke lezi zizathu, akukona okungaphezu kwamandla ukukhulisa izingane ngezandla.
Ukwanga okuhle okuvela kubazali kufanele kube khona njalo emfundweni yezingane. Akukhathalekile ukuthi ingane incane noma isineminyaka eminingi njengoba kwenzeka kwentsha. Akukho okudlula ukwanga okuhle ukudlulisela lonke uthando nothando ezinganeni. Ngeshwa emphakathini wanamuhla, ukwangana akwenziwa ikakhulukazi uma ingane isikhulile.
Indlela yokufaka umzali ezandleni
Kubalulekile ukuba abazali bazi ukuthi izingalo ziyisidingo esiyisisekelo sezingane. Ochwepheshe kule ndaba bayeluleka ukuthi abazali babambe izingane zabo ezingalweni kusukela ziseyizinsana. Ukusuka lapha bangasebenzisa inqola njengomphelelisi maqondana nemfundo yezingane zabo. Kumele siyibeke eceleni inkolelo yokuthi ukuthwala ingane ezandleni zakho kubi futhi kuyayimosha.
Ukukhulisa izingalo akukhona nje ukubamba ingane uma uyidinga noma uyifuna, futhi ukwazi nokuhlanganisa isikhumba nesikhumba noma ukubopha. alale eduze kwabo ukuze ehlise umoya futhi angalala ngendlela engcono kakhulu.
Ukukhulisa noma ukufundisa ezingalweni kuhlanganisa nokugona izingane izikhathi eziningana ngosuku nokwenza zibone ukuthi izingalo zabazali Bayohlale bekhona lapho bebadinga. Kuyafaneleka ukwanga okunamandla enganeni ukukhombisa uthando nothando olukhona emndenini. Imibukiso yothando phakathi kwabazali nezingane ibalulekile futhi ibalulekile ekukhulisweni ngendlela efanele.
Kafushane, nakuba namuhla ingxenye enkulu yomphakathi ingase icabange okuphambene, Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokugoqa izingane zakho ezingalweni zakho. Ukwanga okuhle kwabazali kubalulekile lapho umntwana ezizwa ephephile futhi ephumule noma ezolile ngokuphelele. Uma ingane idinga izingalo zabazali bayo, akukho okwenzekayo ukuyenza futhi ikwazi ukujabulisa omncane. Ukukhulisa izingane ezingalweni kuyindlela emangalisayo yokufundisa izingane nokunikeza izimpawu ezimangalisayo zothando, okusiza ukuqinisa isibopho esidaliwe kanye nokuba kuhle ekukhuleni kwengane.