Lesi yingxenye yesine neyokugcina yezimo zengqondo ezingama-30 okufanele uzicabangele empilweni futhi ube nguwe uqobo.Yizeluleko zokugcina eziyishumi zokuphila okugxile ekuzethembeni okuphelele nasekuvikelekeni kuwe, ngaleyo ndlela ukwazi ukujabulela impilo ukugcwalisa ubudlelwano.
Lalela izwi lakho langaphakathi
Isizathu sakho nenhliziyo yakho kuyakwazi okulungile.Ungathonywa yimibono engemihle.Ngisho kanjani ukuthi uma ikusiza, xoxa ngemibono nabantu osondelene nabo: yisho lokho okufanele ukusho ngaphandle kokungahloniphi.Uma kufanele wenze isinqumo esibalulekile mhlawumbe uyasidinga isikhathi sokuqiniseka: Vumela kodwa khumbula ukuba neqiniso kuwe.
Qaphela amazinga akho okucindezeleka futhi uthathe izikhathi zokuphumula
Kunezikhathi lapho ingcindezi isivimbela ukuthi siye phambili: thatha isikhathi sakho uphumule, uphefumule, uvale amehlo bese uzama ukuthola ibhalansi. Kunzima kepha akunakwenzeka asikho isizathu sokuthi ungazamiKwenze ngoba kuzodingeka ukuqhubekela phambili ngokucacile nangenhloso.Uma umatasa kangakanani, kungcono ukuthi ikhefu lengqondo libe ngawe, lokhu kuzokhuphula umkhiqizo wakho futhi nengqondo yakho izokubonga.
Qala ukuzwa ubuhle bezikhathi ezincane
Esikhundleni sokulinda izinto ezinkulu empilweni ukuthi zenzeke ujabule, qala ukujabulela izikhathi ezincane impilo ezikunikeza zona: ukuphuma kwelanga ngenkathi udla ibhulakufesi, thamba amatshe emfuleni, bashwiba epaki, behamba bengafake zicathulo ... Lapho ubona lezi zipho ezincane izinga lempilo lizobe liphakeme.
Yamukela izinto noma ngabe "aziphelele"
Ukuphelela kuyisimera futhi kuyisikhubekiso kulabo abafuna ukuthuthuka. Ekungaphelelweni kuhlala kukhona lokhu. Funda ukubona izinto ezinhle futhi zenziwe kahle. Amagatsha ezihlahla eziphukile angahle angabi "aphelele" kepha asifundisa ingxenye yawo enhle futhi eningi intekenteke. ukuthandwa Kukho konke okubonayo, yamukela.
Isikhathi sokugxila ezinhlosweni zakho bese ulandela zonke izinsuku
Khumbula ukuthi indlela engama-50km iqala ngesinyathelo esisodwa.Khumbula uBeppo Sweeper ovela encwadini kaMomo:
Impilo, ngokusho kukaBeppo Sweeper
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Uyabona, Momo? Kwesinye isikhathi ngaphambi kwakho uba nomgwaqo obonakala umude ngendlela ongasakwazi ukuqeda ukushanela. Ngemuva kwalokho uqala ukushesha, ngokushesha okukhulu nangokushesha. Njalo uma ubheka phezulu, uyabona ukuthi umgwaqo mude nje futhi uzama kanzima kakhulu, uqala ukwesaba, ekugcineni uphelelwe umoya. Nomgwaqo usengaphambili. Lokhu akumele kwenziwe. Akudingeki ucabange ngomgwaqo wonke ngasikhathi sinye, uyaqonda? Kufanele ucabange ngesinyathelo esilandelayo, ugqozi olulandelayo, ukushanela okulandelayo. Ngakho-ke kumnandi: lokho kubalulekile, ngoba lapho umsebenzi wesikole usuqedile kahle. Futhi kufanele kube njalo. Ngokungazelelwe, umuntu uyabona ukuthi, igxathu negxathu, umgwaqo wonke usukhukhulekile. Awuqapheli ukuthi bekunjani, futhi awuphefumuli. (…)UMomo kaMichael Ende
Veza indlela ozizwa ngayo ngempela
Uwena kuphela umuntu kulo mhlaba okwazi ukulawula imizwa yakho futhi ukhethe impilo yakho ngokuvumelana nayo. Uzoba nobunzima, impumelelo kanye nokwehluleka. Ungafihli ngemuva kwemaski.Bungaza impumelelo yakho, ukuthukuthela ngokwehluleka kunengqondo kepha ungenzi idrama yalokhu noma wenze ukhetho lokwehlulwa ngangokunokwenzeka Sukuma uqhubeke ulwa
Yakha ngobuhlakani ubungane bakho obubaluleke kakhulu
Ukutshela abathandekayo bakho ukuthi babaluleke kangakanani kuwe kungaletha injabulo ezinhliziyweni zabo futhi uzokwabelana ngemizwa yakho yangempela.Phatha injabulo ngaphansi kwengalo yakho, ukondle abangane bakho ngenkuthalo. Awudingi abangane abayikhulu kuphela labo bantu abangempela bayakuthanda ukuthi unjani nokuthi baseceleni kwakho kokuhle nokubi. Uma kunenkinga, khuluma ngqo futhi ungavumeli ukudideka, ubugovu noma ukungabaza kumile kuwe.
Gxila ezintweni ongazilawula
Asikwazi ukushintsha zonke izinto kodwa kukhona ezinye ezingakwazi. Gxila kokungaphansi kolawulo lwakho futhi ube ngumqondisi obaqondisayo.Tjala amandla wakho kuzozinto ongazenza. Guqula, shintsha futhi uzenzele okuhle kuwe. Zisebenzise manje.
Ingqondo kumele ikholelwe ukuthi iyakwazi ukwenza okuthile ngaphambi kokwenza
Indlela yokunqoba imicabango emibi nemizwa ebhubhisayo ukuthuthukisa imizwa ephikisayo eqinile enamandla amakhulu.Lalela inkhulumomphendvulwano yakho yangaphakathi bese ushintsha eyakho engemihle.Awukwazi ukulawula okwenzeka kuwe emlenzeni wokuqala kepha ungalawula isimo sakho sengqondo ngakubo.Gxila emandleni akho ekusunguleni, empumelelweni nasekuqondeni okuhle.
Zizwe ukuthi ucebile futhi unenhlanhla njengamanje
Ngisho nasezikhathini ezinzima kufanele gcina izinto ngendlela efanele: Izolo ebusuku ulele embhedeni, ungesabi ukuthi umuntu uzongena endlini yakho ehlomile, awuyena umbaleki, uma ingane yakho igula ungaya esibhedlela esiseduze, ngeke ulambe, unamanzi okuphuza, unokufinyelela kwe-Inthanethi ...
Yiba mahhala, gxilisa imicabango yakho emihle kukho konke okuzungezile, ziveze imizwa yakho.Jabula, zithande futhi ukhumbule ukuthi ungakwenza:
Izimo zengqondo ezingama-30 okufanele uzicabangele empilweni futhi ube nguwe (I)
Izimo zengqondo ezingama-30 okufanele uzicabangele empilweni futhi ube nguwe (II)
Izimo zengqondo ezingama-30 okufanele uzicabangele empilweni futhi ube nguwe (III)
Izimo zengqondo ezingama-30 okufanele uzicabangele empilweni futhi ube nguwe (IV)
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