Eminyakeni yamuva nje, lokho okwaziwa njengokuqhunyiswa kwamabhomu kothando sekudume kakhulu emkhakheni wobudlelwano bezithandani. Kuwuhlobo lokukhohlisa olusekelwe ezimpawini eziqhubekayo zothando okuhloswe ngazo ukulawula umbhangqwana. Kuyindlela esetshenziswa abantu abancike kakhulu ngokomzwelo kubalingani babo futhi abahlushwa ukungazethembi okukhulu ezingeni lomuntu ngamunye.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokhuluma nawe ngendlela enemininingwane eyengeziwe mayelana nalesi simo esifihla ngobuqili. ukukhwabanisa kwezithandani kuwo wonke umthetho.
kuyini ukuqhunyiswa kothando
Kuyindlela ozama ngayo ukubamba abashadikazi. Ukuqhunyiswa kwamabhomu othandweni kwenziwa abantu abangavikelekile nabangazethembi abadinga abanye abantu ukuze bazizwe bejabule. Ukwenza lokhu, kuveza izimpawu ezahlukene zothando nothando ukuze kuhehe othandekayo.
Ungayibona kanjani ibhomu yothando
- Isivinini ubudlelwano obuvela ngaso sishesha kunokujwayelekile. Konke kuthatha isikhathi futhi ekuqhumeni kothando umuntu okhohlisayo unezinyathelo ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokujwayelekile.
- Umuntu okhohlisayo uzama ukuzuza ukwethenjwa kozakwethu kusenesikhathi. Ukuzethemba kuyadalwa futhi kukhiqizwe kancane kancane.
- Ukuboniswa kothando nothando akufani nhlobo nesikhathi lapho ubudlelwano butholakala khona. Into eyodwa ukuba nothando nemininingwane futhi enye ehluke ngokuphelele, ukuqhuma okuqhubekayo kombhangqwana ngemilayezo yothando namasampuli azo zonke izinhlobo.
- Kusukela ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, ukuziphatha okuhlukile kokulawula kuqala ukuvela kodwa ngendlela ecashile futhi engase ingabonakali. Umuntu okhohlisayo wenza sengathi uyazi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi umlingani wakhe ukuphi nokuthi wenzani.
Ukuqhunyiswa kwamabhomu othandweni akunempilo
Ebudlelwaneni, uthando lugeleza ngendlela yemvelo, ngakho-ke ngeke kubekezelelwe ukuthi umuntu ufuna ukuphoqelela isigqi sakhe, ngaphandle kokukwenza ngamabomu. Umkhohlisi wenza konke okusemandleni ukuze umlingani abe seceleni kwakhe futhi akwazi ukumlawula ngaso sonke isikhathi. Izimpawu zothando azizona zemvelo futhi zikhiqizwa ngenjongo esuswe ngokuphelele kulokho okushiwo uthando.
Ngamafuphi, uthando lokuqhunyiswa kwamabhomu luqhelelene ngokuphelele nalokho oluyikho futhi kubabhangqwana abanempilo. Kuwuhlobo lokukhohlisa nokulawula umbhangqwana okwenza kube nobuthi. Le nqubo ivamise ukusetshenziswa abantu abanokuntula okusobala kokuvikeleka futhi abahlushwa ukuncika okuqinile ngokomzwelo kumlingani wabo. Ukwesaba ukulahlwa nokungabi namuntu kubenza basebenzise le nqubo ukuze baxhume omunye umuntu. Yize kuwuhlobo olucashile lokukhohlisa, kubalulekile ukunaka yonke imininingwane futhi ungakubekezeleli lokho okwaziwa njengokuqhunyiswa kwamabhomu othandweni.