Akungabazeki ukuthi uthando luwumuzwa omkhulu kangaka, ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi akunakwenzeka ukukuchaza ngamazwi. Wonke umuntu uthanda ukuzwa izinto ezinhle ezivela kumlingani wakhe futhi ngaleyo ndlela enze isibopho esidalwe kumbhangqwana sibe sikhulu. Noma yisiphi isikhathi yisikhathi esihle sokunikezela ibinzana elincane lothando kumuntu othandekayo. Ukukwazi ukudlulisa ngamazwi lokho umuntu akuzwayo kuyinto enomthelela omuhle ebudlelwaneni.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokukhombisa uchungechunge lwemisho yothando noma imiyalezo ukuze uyinikezele kumlingani wakho, ukumenza abone uthando nothando ozisho kuye.
Imishwana engama-25 emayelana nothando okufanele uyinikeze umbhangqwana
Ungalahlekelwa imininingwane futhi uqaphele kahle kule misho yothando engu-20 elandelayo ongayinikezela ngendlela yothando kumlingani wakho:
- Nganyamalala empilweni yakho hhayi ngenhlanhla noma ngenhlanhla, ukuze ubone ukuthi uyangikhumbula futhi ungifune lapho wenza (RousTalent).
- Sifunda ukuthanda hhayi lapho sithola umuntu ophelele, kodwa lapho sibona umuntu ongaphelele ngokuphelele (Sam Keen).
- Ekuqaleni yonke imicabango ingeyothando. Khona-ke lonke uthando lungokwemicabango (Albert Einstein).
- Mhlawumbe kumayelana nokuthola ukuthi ubani olokhu ekubuka uma uvala amehlo akho (Elvira Sastre).
- Ngiyakuthanda ukukuthanda hhayi ukuthandwa, ngoba ayikho into engijabulisa njengokukubona ujabule (George Sand).
- Umphefumulo okwazi ukukhuluma ngamehlo awo, ungaqabula nangeso lawo (Gustavo Adolfo Bécquer).
- Uthando lwentsha alukho ngempela ezinhliziyweni zabo, kodwa lusemehlweni abo (William Shakespeare).
- Umuntu usothandweni lapho ebona ukuthi omunye umuntu uhlukile (Jorge Luis Borges).
- Izincwadi zothando zibhalwa ziqale ungazi ukuthi kuzothiwani, ziphele ungazi ukuthi kushiwoni (uJean Jacques Rousseau).
- Uma uthandana awuyena umuntu ofana nalowo owawunguye ngaphambili, ngoba kungaleso sikhathi lapho uqala khona ukuphila impilo yangempela (Luis Miguel Alvarado).
- Ukuqabula? Iqhinga elimangalisayo lokuyeka ukukhuluma lapho amagama eba engadingekile (u-Ingrid Bergman).
- Woza uzolala nami: ngeke senze uthando, uzosenza kithi (Julio Cortázar).
- Othandweni kuhlale kukhona ukusangana, kepha kukhona njalo isizathu sokuhlanya (uFriedrich Nietzsche).
- Uthando alubukani; ibheke ndawonye ohlangothini olulodwa (Antonine de Saint-Exupéry).
- Uthando lweqiniso lusebenza izimangaliso, ngoba yena ngokwakhe useyisimangaliso esikhulu kunazo zonke (Amado Nervo).
- Uthando luwubusha obukhulu kunabo bonke ekuphileni (Pablo Picasso).
- Uyazi ukuthi usothandweni lapho ungakwazi ukulala, ngoba iqiniso lingcono ekugcineni kunamaphupho akho (uDkt. Seuss).
- Ukuthandwa ngokujulile othile kukunika amandla, kuyilapho ukuthanda umuntu ngokujulile kukunika isibindi (Lao Tzu).
- Uthando alunakhambi, kodwa luwukuphela komuthi wazo zonke izifo (uLeonard Cohen).
- Uthando lufana nomoya, awukwazi ukukubona, kodwa uyaluzwa (Nicholas Sparks).
- Angikufuni, ngifuna ube nami. Ihlukile.
- Ngalo lonke uthando lwami, impilo yonke.
- Ukuthanda umuntu ukwazi ukubona wonke umlingo wakhe futhi umkhumbuze ngawo lapho esekhohliwe.
- Kwesinye isikhathi kuyenzeka ukuthi lokho okuqala njengokuhlanya, kujike kube yinto ehamba phambili empilweni.
- Uthando luyizwi nje kuze kufike othile ozolwenza umqondo walo (uPaul Coelho)
Ngamafuphi, lezi ezinye izibonelo zemisho yothando, ongayinikezela othandekayo ukuze azi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi uyamthanda futhi uyamthanda. Akulimazi ukumangaza umbhangqwana ngeminye yale misho. Izikhathi eziningi imininingwane elula ingabangela injabulo enkulu kumbhangqwana, okunomthelela omuhle ebuhlotsheni ngokwawo.