Las iipilisi zokulawula inzala Baye inguquko kwisini sabo babini. Kodwa njengalo lonke ukusetyenziswa kwexesha elide kolu hlobo lweziyobisi, ziziphi iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga abanazo?
Kwiipilisi zokuqala zokuzalwa, emva kwiminyaka ye-60, babenamanqanaba aphezulu e-estrogens kunye neprogesterone ezazinokuba nefuthe kwi-libido yomntu, ukunciphisa umnqweno wesini. Ukonyuka okuthile kubunzima bomzimba kunye nohlobo oluthile lokungalingani kwinkqubo ye-nervous system kunokubonakaliswa.
Kodwa njengayo yonke enye into, izinto zokucwangcisa zavela kwaye zagqitywa. Ukusetyenziswa ixesha elide kweepilisi ngeli xesha akuvelisi ziphumo ebezingalindelekanga kwaye, phantsi kweemeko eziqhelekileyo, azivelisi ukunciphisa i-libido, okanye ukutyeba, okanye olunye uhlobo lwempembelelo yecala.
Kwangokunjalo, ukuba usebenzisa izinto zokuthintela ukukhulelwa ixesha elide kwaye ubona naziphi na iimpawu ezithile, eyona nto ilungileyo kukwenza uthethwano lobufazi ukuze ukwazi ukuhlasela ingxaki kwasekuqaleni kwaye ukwazi ukumisela unyango olufanelekileyo.
Ndifuna ukwazi ukuba ndingazithatha na iipilisi zokuthintela inzala ukuba andikaze ndimithe ndineminyaka engama-34 kwaye khange ndizihoye kwaye andimithanga ndingenza ntoni ukuze ndizame ukuyeka ukuzithatha ukuze ndibone ukuba ndiphume ndinje.ndincede ndenze ntoni nceda
Molo, kwinyanga ephelileyo ixesha lam leza neentlungu ezininzi, lahlala iintsuku ezimbalwa kwaye ndathi ndakugqiba ukuya exesheni, malunga neentsuku ezi-2 kamva ndandisondelene nesoka lam kwaye emva kokuba ephulula amalungu esini saqaphela ukuba wophe kancinci ngelo xesha ... Ndaya Ugqirha wabasetyhini wenza uvavanyo lwegazi lokukhulelwa kwaye uvavanyo lwe-pelvic ye-pelvic ye-transvaginal yaphuma ilungile kodwa i-echo ayibonisanga nto. kwaye yonke into ibibonakala ngathi iqhelekile, silinde enye iveki ndaphinda ndenza olunye uvavanyo lwaphuma lungelulo kwaye enye i-echo nayo ihambe kakuhle.
Kweli xesha lokugqibela ndiqale ngeepilisi zeBelara, ukuya exesheni kwakuqhelekile, kwahlala iintsuku ezi-4 okanye ezi-5, amabala okugqibela ayemdaka, emva kweentsuku ezi-3 ndaphinda ndathandana nesithandwa sam kwaphinda kwenzeka into efanayo, into eyophayo Ngeli xesha ibingaphantsi kakhulu kunangaphambili ibisuswe ngemini enye ngengomso ibingumbala omdaka ngemini elandelayo ukuba ibincinci igazi, ibincinci kwaye ibiphinde yamdaka kwakhona kwangoko nam ibala elincinci kakhulu legazi kodwa lincinci. Andazi ukuba ngeli xesha kweli xesha kungenxa yepilisi kuba lixesha lokuqala ukusebenzisa le ndlela yokuthintela ukukhulelwa, kodwa kuba ndinembali yenyanga ephelileyo indenza ndithandabuze ... ungandinceda ?
Ndiqale ngokuthatha iipilisi zokuthintela ukukhulelwa. Yintoni endifuna ukuyazi ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo?
Molo, ndifuna ukukhulelwa, kodwa ndineminyaka emihlanu ndisela iipilisi kwaye ndifuna ukwazi ukuba kufuneka ndikwazi ukukhulelwa ixesha elingakanani.Ndicela undincede, kuba ndifuna ukuyenza ngokukhawuleza ,, ... Enkosi… ..
Molo bendifuna ukubuza ukuba kutheni ndiqale emva kweveki ndisebenzisa izinto zokuthintela ukukhulelwa? Kwaye ndabelana ngesondo kwaye khange ndizikhathalele ngenye indlela yokuthintela ukukhulelwa endifuna ukwazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni xa kulilize ukuthatha iipilisi?
Molo ngale ntsasa xa ndivuka ndiqonde ukuba andizityi iipilisi ngolwesiHlanu nangoMgqibelo ndineminyaka emibini ndisela iipilisi ezingazange zenzeke kum, ndiye ndazithatha zombini ngolwe-Sihlanu nangoMgqibelo ezizakundizisela iingxaki kwakamsinya Yabelana ngesondo.
Mholo!!! Umbuzo wam ngulo:
Emva kokulala nesithandwa sam malunga neeyure ezi-2 kamva, wathatha iipilisi ezimbini zokuthintela ukukhulelwa ngaxeshanye ukunqanda ukukhulelwa (oku kwakungo-2: 3 kusasa) kwaye ngohlobo olulandelayo lwakusasa 11 ekuseni waqala waba namaqhuma kunye nentloko. , kusuku olulandelayo ezo mpawu bezimkile kodwa ukuba amathambo enzakalisa intloko esiswini kwaye abe nomkhuhlane omncinci, bendifuna ukwazi ukuba ngaba ezi mpawu ziqhelekile emva kokuthatha iipilisi ezimbini ngaxeshanye (hayi ngosuku olulandelayo kodwa ezo zi ithathwa yonke imihla)
Ndiyathemba ukuba uyawuphendula umbuzo wam kwaye enkosi kakhulu kwangaphambili!
Molweni.umbuzo wam ngulo, ndiqale ngokuthatha iipilisi, kodwa kulenyanga bendineentsuku ezi-4 ndiqalile kwaye bendiqala ukuziva kabuhlungu kufuneka ndiye esibhedlele kuba bendisiva iintlungu zesifuba, intloko ilapha ngasekunene , esibhedlele bandixelele ukuba inyukile uxinzelelo, ndaqhubeka ndisela iipilisi kwaye ndihlala ndisiva iimpawu ezifanayo kodwa zazisa uxinzelelo oluqhelekileyo, ucinga ukuba ndiyeke ukuthatha iipilisi
Amanqatha amaninzi !!
Hola
Nditya iipilisi zokucwangcisa, lixesha lokuqala ukuzisela kwaye ndishiyeke ne-5 yebhokisi yendibaniselwano yepilisi, ndiqala ngesicaphucaphu, iintlungu zesisu njlnjl. Kodwa ndinombuzo endandikunye nesoka lam Ndicinga ukuba iipilisi ziyaziphelisa iintsuku ezichumileyo, kodwa ndaziva ngathi ndinemifinya emininzi yomlomo wesibeleko kwaye ndifuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni? Kananjalo ukuba ndibathathe yonke imihla, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ndikhulelwe?
Molweni, umbuzo wam ngulo ulandelayo ndineminyaka engama-27 kwaye khange ndibenabo abantwana, ndineminyaka engaphezu kwe-10 ndisela iipilisi zokuthintela inzala, andizange ndiye exesheni kwaye ngenxa yoko ugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini wandithumela ukuthatha iipilisi ukwenzela ukuba zize kum njengeminyaka eli-14 okanye eli-15 ndiqala ukuzithatha ukusuka apho andikazinqandi ndihoya ukukhulelwa kwaye kwangaxeshanye ukuze ukuya kwam exesheni. Umbuzo wam lusuku lokuba ndithathe isigqibo sokuba nomntwana, ayizukundichaphazela into yokuba ndizokwazi ukumitha.Bathi ukuthatha iipilisi ixesha elide kangaka kunokuba yinyumba kwaye ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba iyinyani kangakanani? Ndicela undiphendule ngokukhawuleza, enkosi kakhulu
Andithandabuzi, ndithatha iipilisi iminyaka emibini ngoku, kwaye ixesha lam belisoloko lifika ngexesha lokuphumla, kwinyanga ephelileyo ifike kuphela iintsuku ezimbini kwaye phantse ngomhla wokuthatha ithebhulethi yam elandelayo, kwiveki ephelileyo kuthabatho lokugqibela ithebhulethi yam ephele ngoMgqibelo ndalala nomntu endithandana naye, ngoku lixesha lokuba ndize kwaye ixesha lam alikafiki, andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe andinazimpawu, kodwa ndinexhala lokuba ndinayo funda ukuba ukuthatha i-pastiolals ngaba kungabikho sexesheni, oku kuyinyani, nceda undincede
Molo, ndilibele ukuthatha iipilisi iintsuku ezi-4 kwaye ngoku ndiyopha kwaye ukujija okuninzi kuyinto eqhelekileyo, ndinexhala kakhulu, khange kwenzeke kum
Sawubona i-perunta yam .. Ndathatha iipilisi kunyaka odlulileyo kwaye ndayeka ukuwasela inyanga ekupheleni kokuya esikhathini kunye nepilisi yokugqibela yenyanga. Ithuba lokugqibela beliqala nge-12 ukuya kwi-17 kaNovemba kwaye nge-1 kaDisemba ndabuya kwaye ukuza kuthi ga ngoku andikanqunyulwa.
ungandiphendula.
kwaye ngoku ndiyazithatha ukusuka ngomhla wokuqala kuDisemba.
Molo, ndithatha i-gyneplen malunga nomba wamabala kwaye bendifuna ukwazi ukuba ngaba uneziphumo ebezingalindelekanga ngotywala kuba ndisebenza ebusuku kwaye andazi nokuba ndingabusebenzisa na kwaye mvanje ndinamaqhakuva. Umbuliso
Ndikunye nesithandwa sam saqala ukuba nobudlelwane, kwaye ndisoyika ndaya kugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini wandinika iipilisi kodwa zange nangaliphi na ixesha ndimxelele ukuba bendinabo obobudlelwane, kuye kwavela ukuba ixesha lifikile kum kodwa ndinguye ngeempawu ezihlazo, isicaphucaphu, isiyezi, njl. ... Ukopha okumdaka, ngaba kuya kuvela kwiziphumo zeepilisi, okanye ngaba ndikhulelwe?
Molo, ndiyekile ukuthatha iipilisi zokulawula inzalo, ndalala nesithandwa sam kwaye asikhathalelani, ingaba ezi pilisi zinefuthe elihlala ixesha elide okanye into enjalo ??? Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe? Enkosi
Ewe, ndithathe izinto zokuthintela ukukhulelwa ngaphezulu kweminyaka eyi-12, andikaze ndibenazo iingxaki zaluphi na uhlobo, kodwa kunyaka ophelileyo bendinengxaki yokufumana icholesterol ephezulu kwaye ugqirha wam wandixelela ukuba umzimba wam uyayivelisa, le izakuba nento ngezinto zokucwangcisa. Ndizolonga umzimba kwaye ndondla ngendlela esempilweni. Ndineminyaka engama-42 ubudala, ndinobunzima obuziikhilogram ezingama-60. Enkosi
Molo, NDIFUNA UKWAZI UKUBA YINTONI OKUNOKWENZEKA UKUKHULELWA EMVA KWEMINYAKA E-8 YOKUTHATHA IINQWELO-MALI. UKUKHULELWA KUNOKWENZEKA NGALINYE OKANYE EMVA KWEXESHA ELide KUKUBA NDIKHULEKE.
Andiyikholwa! Ndithathe i-minesse phantse iminyaka emi-5, kwaye ukusukela ngoSeptemba 2008 bendikhangela ukukhulelwa ndingakufumani. phambi kweepilisi ndandisele ndinabantwana abayi-2. Ukuba ngokweemvavanyo endizenzileyo, yonke into ilungile, ungandixelela ukuba yintoni ingxaki? Inqanaba leprogesterone kuphela li-4 kwaye oku sisiphumo seepilisi zolawulo lokuzalwa.