Omnye wemibuzo ephindaphindiweyo kukuba ingaba uyakwazi ukukhulelwa xa usexesheni. Kucacile ukuba kufuneka sihlale sinolunye uhlobo lokuthintela ukukhulelwa xa singafuni ukubeka umngcipheko wokukhulelwa okunokwenzeka. Oko kwelinye icala, kodwa ukuba awunalo neqabane elizinzileyo, khumbula ukuba ukusetyenziswa kweekhondom kuhlala yeyona ndlela isebenzayo kuzo zonke ezinye iindlela zokuthintela ukukhulelwa.
Baninzi abantu abangacingi nokucinga ngako Yabelana ngesondo ngexesha lakho, kodwa abanye abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba lixesha elifana nelinye kumjikelo. Nangona besisoloko siva ukuba ukukhulelwa nokuya esikhathini akuhambisani, kufuneka sicace malunga nalo lonke ulwazi olukhoyo kulo mbandela.
Ngaba unokukhulelwa ngexesha lakho?
Eyona mpendulo ichanekileyo okanye eqhelekileyo yileyo Oku akunakwenzeka, kodwa kuyenzeka ngokwenene ngamanye amaxesha. esikuxelela yona ngoku. Kuba, njengokuba usazi, ukuze umntu akhulelwe, indoda kufuneka ikhuphe ngaphakathi kwaye kufuneka kubekho iqanda elichumayo. Ke akusoloko kulula kwaye nokuba kuncinci ngomgaqo. Owona mngcipheko umncinci woku kwenzeka ngethuba leentsuku zokuqala zokuya exesheni, kuba ukuze kukhule ukukhulelwa, umfazi kuya kufuneka abe nomjikelo omfutshane kakhulu, iintsuku ezingama-20 okanye ngaphantsi, kwaye ukukhutshwa kwe-ovulation kuya kuqala ngosuku lwesithandathu okanye lwesithathu. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba isidoda sinokuphila iiyure ngaphakathi, nje ukuba iimeko ezifanelekileyo zidibene. Ngoko ke, ubude bomjikelezo obongeziweyo kule nkcukacha, bunokwenza ukukhulelwa kwenzeke. Kancinane nzima? Ewe, kodwa akunakwenzeka.
Ngaba kukho umngcipheko ophezulu wokukhulelwa xa ukuya esikhathini kuphelile?
Kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba umjikelo ongaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi oqhelekileyo une-ovulation malunga nosuku lwe-11, lwe-12 okanye lwe-13. Ekubeni akusiyo isayensi echanekileyo kwiimeko ezininzi, yiyo loo nto amathandabuzo ahlala esiza kuthi. Xa owasetyhini egqiba ixesha lakhe, malunga nosuku lwe-6 lomjikelo, uba neentlobano zesini kunye ne-ovulates ngomhla we-10 okanye we-11, ewe maninzi amathuba okukhulelwa. Kuba nje kuba kufutshane ukusuka kwixesha de iqanda liqalise uhambo lwalo. Ke, ukuba unomjikelo omfutshane kodwa ukuba sexesheni kwakho kuqhubeke iintsuku ezingaphezulu, kufuneka ulumke kakhulu kwaye uqiniseke, kufuneka uhlale usebenzisa ukhuseleko.
Kunini apho kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe?
Ngokuqinisekileyo sele uyayazi loo nto amathuba anyuke phakathi komjikelo. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva kwexesha lakho, i-ovary ikhupha iqanda elitsha elihla ngeetyhubhu ze-fallopian de lifike kwisibeleko. Kungoko lelona xesha lichumileyo kuye wonke umntu obhinqileyo. Kodwa khumbula ukuba iintsuku ngaphambi kokuba iqanda likhululwe sele lithathwa njengelivundile, kunye nethuba lokukhulelwa. Ke ngoko, umngcipheko uqala ukwanda kwaye ngakumbi xa owasetyhini engenawo umjikelo oqhelekileyo kuba usenokungazi ngokuqinisekileyo xa ene-ovulate ngokwenene.
Abanye baneempawu ezithile, ezinje nge intlungu kwelinye lamacala amabini mhlawumbi ujonge uhlobo lokuhamba okanye uthathe ubushushu. Kuhlala kukho amanyathelo anokuthi athathwe ukwenza loo mzuzu ukhonkrithi ngakumbi. Sinokuthi elona xesha likhuselekileyo liphambi nje kokufika kwexesha lakho, kodwa lumka, alikho mngcipheko. Ingakhuseleka ngokubanzi kodwa siphinda sikhankanye ukuba unomjikelo omde, isenokungakhuseleki nayo. Ngoko ke, musa ukubeka emngciphekweni kwaye soloko usebenzisa indlela yokuthintela, nokuba usexesheni okanye awukho. Kuba ngale ndlela kuphela uya kuhlala uzolile, awuyi kuba nako ukothuka kwaye oko kunceda kakhulu ukuthintela umjikelo ukuba ulibazisekile ngenxa yoxinzelelo.