Uthando kunye nothando zinokubhidaniswa ngamanye amaxesha., ngoko namhlanje kufuneka sithethe ngazo zombini kunye nokungafani kwazo ukuze ekugqibeleni sihlale sicacile, kokubini xa kuziwa ekuzichazeni nasekuzivezeni. Ngokwahlukileyo sonke siyakwazi ukuba uthando luyintoni kwaye yintoni uthando. Kodwa xa kufika ixesha lokuziva, mhlawumbi yonke into iyatshintsha.
Ngenxa yoko, ngamaxesha athile sinokuziva sibhideke ngokwenene. Kanjalo Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba sijongene nenye okanye enye, thina kunye nomntu osecaleni kwethu.. Singakuxelela ukuba zombini zineemvakalelo ezahlukileyo. Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba ziyintoni na?
Yintoni uthando kunye nothando
Kwelinye icala sinothando kwaye sinokuyiva le nto kubahlobo bethu kunye nezilwanyana zethu zasekhaya. Ekubeni iligama elinokusetyenziswa ebantwini, kwizilwanyana okanye kwizinto. Kuwe, zonke zibalulekile, kwimilinganiselo eyahlukeneyo, yiyo loo nto ufuna ukuba nazo ebomini bakho. Ngoko sinokuthi umsa ufana nqwa nokuba nothando. Kodwa uthando luluvo olunzulu kakhulu kwaye alukho ngokubanzi kodwa lusondele, yiyo loo nto, xa sithetha ngokubanzi, siyivuma kunye namaqabane ethu kunye nosapho, ewe. Apha sifumana uthando kunye nolonwabo. Ekubeni akuyi kuba luthando olufanayo njengesibini kunye nosapho esilukhankanyileyo. Kungoko Sinokuthi inyathelo lokuqala luthando yaye elesibini luthando. Kuba oku kunzima ngakumbi.
Umahluko phakathi kothando nothando: Iqhina lomanyano
Njengoko sele sikhankanyile, sinokubathanda abahlobo kwanezinto eziphathekayo njengeenkumbulo. Kodwa yintoni uthando, siya kuziva kubantu abasondeleyo kuthi, igazi lethu, usapho kunye namaqabane. Kungoko Amaqhina nawo ayinto ebeka loo mqobo xa kufikwa ekuchazeni imvakalelo ngomnye.. Oko akuthethi ukuba awubathandi abo bahlobo basecaleni kwakho yonke imihla, kodwa umzekelo ofana nalo uqikelelwayo ngakumbi ukuze sibone umahluko.
Ubunzulu beemvakalelo
Liyinyaniso elokuba sinako ukumthanda kakhulu umntu kodwa nothando oluninzi. Ke apho sisenokungawuboni umahluko ongako, nangona ukho. Kuba kwakhona kufuneka siyikhankanye loo nto Uthando ligama elibanzi kakhulu elibandakanya iinkalo ezahlukeneyo kwaye ngoko ke likwanamandla ahlukeneyo kodwa ngokwenene lilawulwa ngamandla anamandla kakhulu.. Uthando alukho ngasemva, kodwa lunjalo nje, uhlobo lokhuselo, ukuthantamisa kodwa lungaphantsi kothando.
Ukusuka kuthando ukuya eluthandweni
Kuyinyani ukuba kukho umgca obhityileyo phakathi komnye nomnye. Ngamanye amaxesha bahlukana kakuhle okanye ubuncinci siyazi ukuba singabahlula njani ngokubonga abantu abasingqongileyo kunye nento esivakalelwa ngayo ngabo. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha Ewe, liyinyaniso elokuba uthando lunokuvuselela iimvakalelo ezinzulu., umtsalane ongakumbi, umnqweno wokuba naloo mntu ixesha elide yaye yonke imihla. Siya kwandula ke siqonde ukuba sithabatha amanyathelo abheke phambili yaye iba luthando.
Ukuchasa uthando
Omnye umahluko phakathi komsa nothando kukuba umsa ngokuqhelekileyo uhlala ixesha elide.. Ewe, kuyinyaniso ukuba inokuphinda iphule, kodwa ukuba sithelekisa zombini, ngoko siya kuthi yomelele kakhulu. Ngenxa yoko, xa iphela okanye iphuka, iphinda ibe buhlungu ngakumbi. Ngelixa uthando luthanda ukuba buthathaka kwaye luphele ngokukhawuleza. Nto leyo ngamanye amaxesha yenza ukuba kungabikho buhlungu njengoko sinokucinga. Kwaye wena? Ngaba uziva unothando okanye uthando?