La ukuthembana sisiseko esibaluleke kakhulu kulo naluphi na ulwalamano, Kwaye nangakumbi ukuba sithetha ngobudlelwane. Kunzima ukuthemba umntu ongaphumelelanga okanye osikhohlisayo nangayiphi na indlela. Rhoqo abantu abadanileyo badla ngokungabathembi abanye, into enokubenzakalisa.
Es Kubalulekile ukuthemba iqabaneKe ngoko, ukuba kukho ukungqubana okanye inkohliso eye yaphula loo ntembeko, kubalulekile ukuba uyiqonde kwaye uqalise ukusebenza kuyo ukuze uthembe omnye umntu kwakhona. Ukuba neqabane akusoloko kulula, kuba kumacala omabini kufuneka kubekho kunye nomzamo kuyo yonke into ukuze usebenze.
Hlaziya ukuba kutheni kuphele ukuthembana
La Ukuphelelwa kukuzithemba yingxaki inkulu kakhulu kwisibini, ke kufuneka iphume kwaye izame ukusombulula. Inyathelo lokuqala kukwamkela ukuba ukuthembana kulahlekile kwaye ucinge ngento ebangele ukuba yenzeke. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuthembana kuyalahleka kuba omnye umntu esixokisile, wasilela okanye kungenxa yokuba kukho ukungathembeki.
Chaza ukungabikho kokuthemba kwethu
Omnye umntu kwesi sibini akasoloko eyazi ukuba siziva ngale ndlela. Xa kuziwa ekusombululeni ukungavisisani kwezithandani, inyathelo elisisiseko ngokungathandabuzekiyo lunxibelelwano. Kuphela ngokuthetha ngayo kwaye siveze uloyiko kunye neemvakalelo zethu apho sinokuthi siqonde kwaye siqondwe. Kuya kufuneka uthethe nesibini esibaxelelayo izizathu zokuba siphulukene nokuzithemba kunye nomnqweno wokuphinda umiselwe kwakhona. Kolu hlobo lwencoko kubalulekile ukuba ube nethemba, uphephe ukungcikivwa kunye nengqumbo enokuthi ikhokelele kwimpikiswano eyenza izinto zibe mandundu. Ukuba siyiveza kakuhle, omnye umntu akazukuzikhusela.
Masibe pacient
Ukuthembela kwiqabane lakho kwakhona ayisiyonto yenzeka ngokukhawuleza. Oku, njengayo yonke into, yi inkqubo enokuthatha ixesha elingaphezulu okanye elincinci kuxhomekeke ekubeni ibiyintoni ingxaki kwaye la malungu mabini ayithatha njani. Ukuba nobabini niyayenza into yenu ukulungisa izinto, ukuthembana kungabuya ngokulula.
Gxila ngoku
Akuncedi nganto ukugxeka izinto esele zenzekile komnye umntu. Kubalulekile ukuba ujonge okwangoku kunye nakwintoni enihlangabezana nazo ngoku. Sonke siyazenza iimpazamo ngamanye amaxesha ebomini, ke okokuqala kufuneka sicinge lonto Izinto ezibalulekileyo zezi ezikhoyo. Ukuba siphila kulo mzuzu kuya kuba lula kakhulu kuthi ukuba simthembe loo mntu kwakhona ngaphandle kokubuyela umva kwaye kwakhona kwimicimbi yexesha elidlulileyo.
Yamkela ukuba izinto azigqibelelanga
Kulo Ubomi njengesibini ayisiyiyo yonke into eya kuhlala intle kwaye yinto esiyifundayo ngokuhamba kwexesha. Nje ukuba isigaba sentabatheko siphele, sihlala siwela kwisiqhelo kwaye sibone omnye umntu njengoko enjalo. Ukuba sidibanisa inkohliso koku, sinokucinga ukuba obu budlelwane abufanelanga. Kodwa kufuneka sicinge ukuba akukho nto igqibeleleyo, nokuba bubomi njengesibini, yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukwamkela ukuba izinto zingatshintsha nanini na kwaye kubalulekile ukuzamkela. Ukufunda ukuphila utshintsho kunye nokuziqhelanisa naloo nto esenza ukuba sibe bhetyebhetye ngakumbi kwaye sonwabe ekuhambeni kwexesha.