La ubhubhane uthethe utshintsho olukhulu kwindlela esiphila ngayo kwaye usuku nosuku. Ubudlelwane esitshintshileyo nabo, ngakumbi kuba uninzi lwabo kuye kwafuneka bagcine umgama wabo okwexeshana okanye banqunyelwe. Yiyo loo nto ingumbono olungileyo ukwazi ukuba ungabugcina njani ubuhlobo obude ngexesha lobhubhane.
Es Kulula ukusuka ebantwini nakubahlobo xa singababoni rhoqo. Sihlala kwindawo yethu kwaye sinika abucala unxibelelwano kunye nonxibelelwano, into ethe yanda ngakumbi nangobhubhane. Yiyo loo nto ingumbono olungileyo ukuba nombono wendlela yokugcina ubuhlobo kude.
Thatha ithuba lokunxibelelana nabantu
Kwiminyaka eyadlulayo Kwakunzima ngakumbi ukunxibelelana nabantu abakude kwaye bazi ngobomi babo. Nangona kunjalo, namhlanje sinesixhobo esisincedayo ukwenza njalo. Sikhalaza ngezinto ezimbi ezenziwa ziinethiwekhi zentlalo kunye nendlela eziguqukela ngayo kwinto ethi iimveliso zisebenzise ukuthengisa, kodwa inyani kukuba injongo yokuqala yezi nethiwekhi yayingenguye omnye ngaphandle kokunxibelelana nangona sasiqelelene ngeekhilomitha ezininzi. Ke singazisebenzisa kwakhona kule njongo.
Ayisiyiyo kuphela malunga nokujonga abafowunelwa bethu kuthungelwano, kodwa ukunxibelelana nabo, bagqabaze kwiifoto zabo, bathumele imiyalezo yabucala okanye bathethe nabo. Kuya kufuneka sibonise ngakumbi ubomi bethu ukuba sinikeze unxibelelwano kunye nonxibelelwano naba bantu. Ngale ndlela baya kwazi ukuba sikulungele ukunxibelelana kwaye sibonise iinxalenye zobomi bethu.
Bonisa inkxaso yakho
Siyazi ukuba ubuhlobo benzelwe amaxesha amnandi namaxesha amabi, nangona obona buhlobo buphucukileyo buqwalaselwa kuba abo abukushiyi xa amaxesha engakhange abengcono. Lo bhubhane usichaphazele sonke, yiyo ke le nto ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuva kubahlobo bethu kwaye sibaboleke inkxaso yethu ukuba bayayifuna. Baninzi abantu abaphethwe kukudakumba okanye unxunguphalo okanye abayibonileyo imisebenzi yabo okanye impilo yabo isengozini, ke ukuba lapho njengenkxaso luphawu olukhulu kubuhlobo kwaye siza kubona ukuba imvakalelo iphindaphinda njani. Abahlobo kufuneka bakhathalelane, nokuba kukude.
Yenza izinto kunye
Nokuba singohluliwe bubhubhane, kuhlala kunokwenzeka ukwenza izinto kunye. Umzekelo, ungaqala ukubukela uthotho ngaxeshanye. Ngale ndlela uya kuba nento oza kuphawula ngayo kwaye nobabini okanye iqela labahlobo bakho baya kulithanda. Olunye uluvo kukuba uqala ukufunda into oyithandayo, enje ngolwimi, ngenxa yohambo lwexesha elizayo kunye, into eza kunikhuthaza nobabini. Ikwayenye ingcinga elungileyo ukufunda incwadi kwangaxeshanye ukuze uthethe ngayo. Ukuba nezinto eziqhelekileyo ezikumanyanisayo kwaye nabelana ngazo nangona nahlukanisiwe yinto eqinisa ubuhlobo kunye nonxibelelwano.
Cwangcisa uhambo lwexesha elizayo
Oku kunokumanyanisa kakhulu. Asazi owona mzuzu sinokuthi sihambe ngaphandle kweengxaki kodwa ngu umbono omkhulu ukusikhuthaza ukuba sicinge ngawo, kwiindawo esifuna ukuzityelela nakuyo yonke into esiza kuyenza. Ke umbono olungileyo wokujoyina abahlobo bakho kulo bhubhani kukucwangcisa into kunye, uhambo olwenza ukuba nonke nichwayite. Ukuhamba ujonga iinqwelomoya, ukugcina iihotele onokuzithanda kunye nokukhangela iindlela zayo kunokuba yinto entle nenomdla.
Yabelana ngeenkumbulo
Ubuhlobo buhlala bukhumbula izinto ezihlala zisonwabisa. Ke unokukhangela kwaye ukhuphe imifanekiso Ukuxoxa ngamanye amaxesha angcono nabahlobo. Ingaba ngamava amnandi akukhumbuza ukuba kutheni obu buhlobo.