Umntu okhohlisayo ngumntu odla ngokusekela iingcamango okanye izibakala zabo kubuxoki, othi kwangaxeshanye azame ukudlala ixhoba ukuze athembeke ngakumbi. Ekubeni uya kwenza konke okusemandleni ukuze afezekise iinjongo azibekela zona. Ewe, konke oku kunye nokunye okuninzi kunokufunyanwa ngexesha elithile. Emva koko, Wenza ntoni umntu okhohlisayo xa ebhaqiwe?
Njengoko sithetha, akusoloko kulula ukuyifumana, kodwa ukuba siyenzile, ke utshintsho kuyo luya kubaluleka kakhulu kwaye yile nto siza kuyityhila namhlanje. Ukuze ukwazi ukuqaphela kakuhle ukuba unokungakhathali, omnye wabo bantu baye bayiqiqisa yonke le nto, bakhubeke baveze zonke iimfihlo zabo.
Baya kukwenza uzive unetyala
Esinye sezixhobo ezisetyenziswa kakhulu zomntu okhohlisayo kukuba abafane bavume iimpazamo zabo. Ngokukodwa xa zifunyenwe, ngoko baya kugxeka abanye. Bade bayijike ngendlela eya kukwenza uzive unetyala kwaye uya kuba sisizathu somdlalo wabo omdaka. Kaloku eyona nto bayijongileyo kukususa elona tyala bakubeke emathandabuzweni ukuze bangabi ngabakhohlakeleyo ngokoluvo lwakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngumdlalo ophindwe kabini ozama ukuphumelela umdlalo xa sele zifunyenwe.
Ngaphezu koko kuyimfuneko kuya kuthetheleleka
Ukuba sizibhaqile akusayi kubuya umva. Kodwa liyinene elokuba loo mntu uya kuzama ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukuze kungahlali kunjalo. Elinye lamanyathelo abalulekileyo kukuba baya kuzithethelela ngeendlela ezahlukahlukeneyo, ukuba nje abanikezeli. Unikezwe ukuba into abayizamayo kukuba ityala aliweli kumadoda abo ngokwenza uthotho lokucela uxolo. Ukongezelela, elinye laloo malinge kukukwenza ubone ukuba le nto bebeyenza ayimbi kangako, ekubeni baya kukuxelela ukuba oko bebekwenza ukuze kulungelwe wena.
Baya kuzama ukoyikisa
Ayisoloko isenzeka kodwa kufuneka ikhankanywe. Ngokuba xa umntu ebekwe ekoneni kakhulu, baya kuzama ukuphuma kwicala lokoyikisa. Kwezinye iimeko baya kuzama ukuzinyanzela ngazo zonke iindlela, kusenokuba ngokuphakamisa ilizwi labo okanye ngokumthuka. Kuba yindlela yokusabela ngaphambi kokucinga ngesicwangciso esilandelayo abaza kusisebenzisa. Ewe, ayithetheleleki kuyo nayiphi na imeko, kodwa kuyinyani ukuba siye sadibana nayo kwaye kungoko ikhankanywa njengenye yeempawu zomntu okhohlisayo.
Umntu okhohlisayo uya kuba lixhoba
Sikhankanye ngaphambili ukuba baya kuzama ukuwujika umdlalo entloko ngokukwenza uzive unetyala. Ewe, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba xa kunjalo, baya kuhlala bengamaxhoba. Ngokuba yenye yeendlela ezinokubangela uvelwano oluncinane kuwe. Ngaloo ndlela ukuphepha ububi obukhulu kunye nokunciphisa yonke into. Isicwangciso esisebenza kubo ngamaxesha amaninzi. Kungale ndlela kuphela abathi basondele ngakumbi emntwini ukuze amanye amaqela abaqonde. Ewe, kuyathetheleleka kwisohlwayo.
Sebenzisa amaqela esithathu
Ukuba ayizizelanga ngokwayo, umntu okhohlisayo unokwenza nangomntu wesithathu. Xa izinto zingahambi njengoko bekulindelekile, akukho nto ifana nokuthatha iqabane elingaqhelekanga. Ke, iya kusondela kwabo bantu besithathu baya kubalamlela phambi kwakho. Ukukhupha uxinzelelo olungakumbi kwaye uzame ukufezekisa injongo yabo. Xa sithetha ngolu hlobo, sinokugqiba kwelokuba baneengqondo ezijijekileyo eziya kuzama ngandlela zonke ukufezekisa oko bakucebisayo kwaye abayi kuyeka de bakufumane. Kwanaxa bebhaqwe baya kuqhubeka nokulangazelela kwabo. Ngaba uyabazi abantu abakhohlisayo?