Ngaba woyika ukuzibophelela okanye mhlawumbi iqabane lakho? Ke siza kukunika ezinye izitshixo ezilungileyo ukuze ukwazi ukoyisa kwaye ubone ubudlelwane bakho ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Yinto enokuthi ibonakale kubantu abaninzi kwaye kunjalo, inokubangela ukuba ubudlelwane bube neengxaki ngenxa yoko.
Ke, ukuba yimeko yakho okanye yomntu osondeleyo kuwe, asinakuphinda silinde kwaye kufuneka sizame ukuyisombulula ngaphambi kokuba kufike iziphumo ezibi. Nokuba ku Kubantu abaninzi, ukuba nobudlelwane kunokuba yinto yendalo, kwabanye ayisiyonto kangako kwaye ivelisa unxunguphalo xa befikelela kwinqanaba elibaluleke ngakumbi. Fumana yonke into oyifunayo!
Yintoni uloyiko lokuzibophelela
Mhlawumbi ibinzana ngokwalo alishiyi amathandabuzo amaninzi. Imalunga ne uloyiko olunzulu lokukwazi ukugcina ubudlelwane obunzulu, uloyiko lokulwenza lube semthethweni. Nangona kuyinyani ukuba ezi ntlobo zoloyiko zinokuvela kumanqanaba ahlukeneyo obomi bethu, kuyinyani ukuba igxile kakhulu kubudlelwane. Sinokuthi luloyiko lokuphulukana nenkululeko, ukuba izinto azihambi njengoko bekulindelekile nakwikamva ngokubanzi. Ngenxa yoko, xa isenzeka kwelinye iqabane ize elinye ingayiqondi okanye icinezele, ulwalamano lunokuphela ngokungaphumeleli. Ayikokunqongophala kweemvakalelo, kodwa uloyiko lukhulu kwaye luyakhubaza.
Phakathi oonobangela abaqhelekileyo Siza kubona ukuba sikwanika umkhondo ngokuthetha ngeempawu zabantu aboyika ukuzinikela. Kwelinye icala, isenokuba sisizathu sokuwohloka okanye ukothuka kobudlelwane ebomini bakho. Ukungaziva ukhululekile ngokupheleleyo kubudlelwane babo, ngenxa yezizathu zobuqu okanye ngenxa yokuba abafumananga iqabane elifanelekileyo.
Ziziphi iimpawu zabantu abanolu hlobo loloyiko
- Kwelinye icala kuthiwa banjalo abantu abaqolileyo okanye abantu abanomnqweno omncinci okanye intando ukwenza utshintsho ebomini bakho.
- Ukuphelelwa ithemba kubonakala kukho kuzo zonke. Ekubeni umntu ekuthethwa ngaye ucinga ukuba yonke into iya kuhamba kakubi kwaye ngoko uloyiko lukhula ngakumbi.
- Abasoloko bebona okulungileyo kwimeko, ukuba kunye nomntu omthandayo, ukuqala usapho okanye ukwabelana nje imihla ngemihla.
- Ngamanye amaxesha kwakhona ube noxinzelelo oluninzi okanye unxunguphalo lwemihla ngemihla isenokuba luphawu lolunye uthotho lweengxaki ezifikelela kude.
- Bahlala becinga ngento abayifunayo kodwa ngamanye amaxesha abazibeki endaweni yeqabane labo. Enyanisweni, akudli ngokuba yimpazamo yabo xa kukho into engahambi kakuhle.
Indlela yokuphulukana noloyiko
Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, xa iyinto ephuncukileyo ezandleni zakho, kuya kufuneka sizibeke kwizandla zobungcali. Kungale ndlela kuphela apho siya kukwazi ukujongana nengxaki engomnye wemibuzo iingcali eziya kusicebisa ngayo. Baya kukunika zonke izikhokelo ukuze ukwazi ukuziva ukhululekile kubudlelwane bakho. Njani? Ngalo lonke ixesha ugxininise kwizinto ezilungileyo kwaye ushiye ecaleni okungalunganga kodwa ukuqonda ukuba nawe kufuneka ujongane nayo.
Esinye sezikhokelo ekufuneka kusetyenzwe kuso kukuphucula ukuzithemba. Ngobasithembele ngakumbi kwiziqu zethu, siya kubenza nabo basingqongileyo benze okufanayo. Ngoko ke ukulahlekelwa luloyiko lokuba nobudlelwane kunye nokuthatha elinye inyathelo kuya kuba linyathelo elilandelayo. Kuba oku kwakhona kungcono ukugxila kubudlelwane ngokubanzi kwaye uhlalutye kubo ukuze babe nolwelo ngakumbi kunye nokuzithemba ngakumbi. Ukongeza ekongezeni ukulinganisela kubomi bakho bobuqu kunye nobomi bentsapho yakho ngokuseka inkululeko ethile. Enyanisweni, xa unokudibanisa yonke into, uya kubona ukuba ukukwazi ukuzibophelela akubi kakhulu.