Kwiinyanga ezininzi bendinamaphupha amabi aphindaphindiweyo; nokuba ndivale amehlo kwaye ndikhululekile, kunzima ukulala Ndiye ndahlala ke ndilindile kwade kwasa, ndihleli kwithambeka ngelixa ndithambisile enye yezinja zam, ebingazolanga de indibone ndilele.Ngawaphi amaqhinga akhoyo ukuze sivale amehlo ethu kwaye siphuphe Nokuba ingqondo yethu isebenza ngakumbi kunesiqhelo ngelo xesha lobusuku?
Ukuba sihamba namava abuhlungu, ayothusi into yokuba iingcinga zethu zibethelelwe kwindawo esingenakuphuma kuyo.Emini ukuba sixakekile kwaye nangona ezo ngcinga zihlala ezingqondweni zethu, inyani kukuba xa singenzi nto kukho amaxesha apho singaziqapheli ukuba zikhona Eyona nto ifika ebusuku, xa kuthe cwaka kangangokuba sive omnye nomnye sinika ikhulu ithuba lokucinga okanye inkumbulo ngaphandle kokubonakala ngathi kukho indlela yokuphuma.Andithethi ngokungalali kodwa malunga nenyani ethile ethintela ukuba siphumle.
Kunjengokuba "ungacingi ngebhere emhlophe" esivile kakhulu ngayo, ewe, iqhinga lam okanye into endiyinyanzelekileyo xa ndingenakuyeka ukucinga malunga nento eyenzekileyo, ngobuso babantu abathile abaphuma ngapha nangapha bendikhumbuza ngento eyenzekileyo zezi zilandelayo: ungazami ukuyeka ukucinga ngale "bhere emhlophe" kodwa ubenombono wayo ngokweenkcukacha kwaye nje ukuba ndimbone kwaye ndiyamazi, ndimphatha ngendlela endifuna ngayo, oko kukuthi, nditshintsha umbala wesikhumba sakhe, ndimthatha ngeendlela endizenzileyo kwaye ndithethe ngqo naye nangona singathethi ngokufanayo ulwimi.
"Zama ukuzibekela umsebenzi wokungacingi ngebhere emhlophe kwaye uyakuyibona isilwanyana esilahlekileyo umzuzu ngamnye"
(UFyodor Dostoyevsky)
Ukungabaleki kubalulekile kuthi ukuze siqale ukucaca kwengqondo kunye nobomi obusempilweni Ixesha lethu elidlulileyo alizukunyamalala ngenxa yento yokuba asijongi ngasemva, iingxaki zethu azizukukhula zenze zingaze zibekho.Kuya kufuneka ubeke ibhere ecaleni lakhoKuya kufuneka uthethe naye kuba uliqabane elihlala ecaleni kwakho yonke imihla ebusuku kwaye livuthela emva kwentamo yakho.
Isenokungakuncedisi kakhulu ekuqaleni ukuba ujonge emehlweni akhe, kodwa ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba xa unokwazi kwaye uyazi ukuba akukho qhinga lendalo elinokuthi liyenze inyamalale, uya kuba nakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba uya kuba nakho khokela amanyathelo akhe ecaleni kwelakho kwaye sukubaleka phambi kwakhe.
Ndiyakhumbula xa ndandisemncinci ukuba umalume wam, owayesebenza ngoomatshini, wandixelela ukuba uninzi lwabantu ababulawa ngoololiwe kungenxa yokuba babaleka phambi kwakhe endaweni yokufuduka kwaye bakwazi ukumthintela.Ithuku lethu lokuqala kukubalekakule meko ke iyafana.Sifuna ukungaboni, ukuziva, kunye nokubandezeleka ngento enokwenzeka kuthi.
«Phakathi kwezilwanyana; iintaka ziyabhabha; iintlanzi ziyadada kwaye izilwanyana zibaleka. Abo babalekayo banokunqunyulwa ngumgibe; abo badadayo banokuyekiswa ngomnatha; kwaye abo baphaphazela banokumiswa ngotolo. Kodwa ke kukho iNamba; Andazi ukuba ihamba kanjani phantsi kwamanzi okanye ihamba njani emhlabeni; Andazi ukuba iqhuba njani emoyeni okanye iwela njani esibhakabhakeni. Akukho mntu unokumisa inyoka. Namhlanje ndibone uLao-Tzu kwaye ndingatsho ukuba ndilibonile iNamba. "
(UConfucius)
Iingqondo zethu zichaphazela ngokuthe ngqo imizimba yethu kwaye iingxaki zomzimba ziqala: ukuphefumla ngokukhawuleza, ukubila, ukubetha kwentliziyo, umnqweno wokulila ukuze ekugqibeleni udinwe, hayi kuba siphumelele kodwa kuba sithabathe imizimba yethu igqibe Kwaye ngengomso sivuka sidandathekile, silusizi kwaye sidiniwe endaweni yokuvuka sinamandla okulungele ukujongana nolunye usuku.Ukuba siqhubeka ngale ndlela ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba Kuza kusasa xa ungade uphume ebhedini ngenxa yokuba ungakwazi.
Ngaphambi kokufikelela kolo gwenxa ukuba andinqweneli mntu Zama ukubhala ngqo ungakhange wenze into eyenzekileyo kuwe, thetha nebhere kwaye uyimemele ecaleni kwakho phambi kokuba ikulinde.Ndiyazi ukuba kufuna umgudu omkhulu ukufunda incwadi kwaye ugxile kufundo lwayo. kodwa yizame. abantu abasokolayo nabanokukhuthazaUkuba awufuni kuthetha nomnye umntu, sukuyenza nangona inokuba ilungile kuwe.
Kodwa okokugqibela, mandikuxelele ukuba enye indlela onokuzinceda ngayo kukunceda abanye; Nokuba kukuvolontiya ngezilwanyana okanye ukunceda abantu abasweleyo Kuvakala kukuzingca ukunceda abanye ukuba bazincede, kodwa Umzuzu ochanekileyo uza kuza xa uyakuphinda uve ukubetha kwentliziyo yakho ngenkani kwaye uve kwakhona ukuhleka kwakho okuhlekisayo ngayo nayiphi na into encinciEmva koko awukwazi ukuba nguwe, kodwa ungcono kunokuba wawungenxa yokuba awuzange ubaleke kwaye ukhulile njengomntu: uya kuba yinamba obukhe walala kuyo ngaphakathi kwaye uya kubuya ulale ukhululekile ngaphandle koloyiko.
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