Ebomini, wonke umntu uhamba ngemiqobo ethile kunye namaxesha amabi apho amandla angaphakathi Esinokuba nayo iya kuba sisitshixo sokuqhubela phambili ngenkalipho kwaye ngaphandle kokucaphuka kakhulu kwezo ndawo zinzima sihanjiswa nazo. Ndinebinzana eliphambili kwaye ndiyaziphinda ngohlobo lwe mantra xa izinto ziba nzima kum, kwaye: "Yomelele njalo".
Nangona kunjalo, ebomini kukho iinyaniso ezithile okokuthi ukuba wazi msinyane ngazo kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukuba ucinga, kuya kuba lula kuwe ukujongana nazo. Emva koko siyakuxelela indlela yokujongana neenyaniso ezithile ukuze somelele.
Imfundo eyimfuneko
- Awulilo ixhoba: Ukuziva ulungile ngesiqu sakho yinto enye ekufuneka ixhomekeke kuwe kuphela. Xa uvumela izimvo zabanye abantu zikuchaphazele, uyasilela wena. Musa ukuvumela ukuba kwenzeke!
- Usuku luneeyure ezingama-24 ukuze ube nexesha lokujongana nomhla ogcwele imiceli mngeni kunye noxanduva. Ukusilela kwexesha ayisosizathu sakho osithandayo sokuyeka ukwenza eyona nto uyifunayo: ezemidlalo, isifundo, iprojekthi yobuqu, njl. Kuya kuba kuhle ukujonga ingcambu yokwenyani ekugcina ungahambeli phambili nezicwangciso zakho ngaxeshanye.
- Guqula ongakuthandiyo, zalisa okanye wanelise ebomini bakho. Awunguye umthi, akufuneki uhlale ungxamile kwindawo enye. Hambisa kwindawo ofuna ukuhlala kuyo, kuloo nto uhlala uphupha ngayo kwaye awuzange uthathe isigqibo sokujongana nayo
- Ayisoze ibe lixesha elifanelekileyo lokujongana nokwenza into oyifunayo ... Izizathu ziya kuhlala zikhona kwaye zifumaneke ukuze "uzisebenzise" kwaye ungayenzi into oyifunayo. Yeka ukwenza izizathu kwaye wenze. Phuma kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela!
- Ubomi bunomda Kwaye nokuba ayingombandela wencasa elungileyo, kubalulekile ukuyazi kwaye wazi ngokupheleleyo ukuba ngenye imini ubomi bakho buya kuphela. Ekuphela kwento eqinisekileyo ebomini kukuba ngenye imini siza kufa. Ukwazi ukuba usuku ngalunye oluphela kosuku olunye kuya kusinceda ukuba sicace ngakumbi malunga nokuba yintoni kanye kanye esiyifunayo kobu bomi kwaye sifuna ukubuphila njani. Wasebenzise wonke umzuzu obonelelwa bubomi bakho.
- Uya kuba ungalunganga kwizigqibo ezininzi ozenzayo, kodwa hayi ngenxa yoko, kufuneka uzimilise kwezi mpazamo. Ubomi kukungaphumeleli kwaye ufunde.
- Nguwe onoxanduva kwisigqibo ngasinye osithathayo, ngokufanayo njengoko ukwimeko yangoku ebomini bakho.
- Awunakho ukutshintsha izinto esele zigqithile ... Ukuba kukho ixesha apho kufuneka uzinikele ngokupheleleyo, kungoku nje. Ixesha elidlulileyo liphelile kwaye akukho nto inokwenziwa; ikamva lakhiwa imihla ngemihla, kwaye yile mini nosuku (okhoyo) ekufuneka sinyamekele kwaye sinike yonke into yethu.
Njengoko ubona, ziyinyani elula esiyaziyo sonke, nangona kunjalo, kumaxesha amaninzi, asizenzi okanye asazi ukuba singajongana njani nazo. Yiba nguwe kwaye uphile ubomi bakho, uchithe ixesha ubonakalisa indlela ofuna ukuba yiyo kwaye emva koko wenze nantoni na oyifunayo ukuyila.