Ngamanye amaxesha unombono ochaseneyo wokuba yintoni ukudakumba ngokwenene. Ngenxa yokuba phakathi kwazo zonke iindidi ezahlukahlukeneyo ezikhoyo, kufanele kuthiwe zinokuchaphazela iinkalo ezahlukahlukeneyo zobomi bethu, amasiko ethu kwaneemvakalelo zethu. Ngaba ukudakumba kuchaphazela ubomi besondo?
Ewe, siza kukuxelela, ukudakumba kuyabuchaphazela ubomi besondo. Njengoko sithetha, akufuneki ukuba ibe yinto eqhelekileyo kubo bonke abantu abahluphekayo, kodwa yinto eqhelekileyo. Olu kuphazamiseka lutshintsha ngokupheleleyo umzimba nengqondo yethu, kodwa kusoloko kukho izisombululo zalo kunye nokulungisa iingxaki zobudlelwane.
Yintoni ukudakumba
Njengoko siye sachaza kakuhle, sisigulo esichaphazela iinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobomi bethu. Kwelinye icala, sinokuziva ngaphandle kokufuna nantoni na, ukonganyelwa okanye ukuxinezeleka nokudinwa. Ukunqongophala kwamandla kunye nomnqweno wokwenza izinto esizenzileyo yenye yeempawu eziqhelekileyo. Kukho utshintsho kwisidlo ngoko kuqhelekile ukuba kubekho ukunyuka ngokukhawuleza okanye mhlawumbi ukuhla kobunzima. Iingcinga ezimbi ziyasikhathaza kunye nazo, ukuphuthelwa okungasivumeli ukuba siphumle ngokulula. Ugxininiso luphantsi kunye nokukhuthaza kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, i-libido. Ukudakumba yinkqubo ende ngexesha kunemeko elula yosizi kwaye kufuneka sihlule kakuhle.
Ukudakumba kubuchaphazela njani ubomi besondo?
Njengoko sele sikhankanyile, ukunqongophala komdla, umnqweno wokwenza izinto esizenzileyo nako kunefuthe kubomi bezesondo. Ngoba? Ewe, kuba umnqweno uvela engqondweni kwaye xa sithwaxwa luxinzelelo, kukho utshintsho kulo oluchaphazela wonke umzimba. Oko kukuthi, ayikwazi ukwenza ulwazi olufanayo kwaye inkqubo esisiseko iba nzima. Kwabanye abantu oku kuya kubonakala kakhulu ekubeni nomnqweno omncinci okanye ongenalo kwaphela umnqweno wesini ukuya ekungakwazini ukufikelela kwi-orgasm. Into enokubangela ingxaki kwisibini. Ekubeni iintlobano zesini zijongwa njengomanyano lwesibini, nto leyo eyomeleza yaye ngoko iyimfuneko ngegama. Ngaphandle kwayo yonke le nto, iingcali zempilo zihlala zigxininisa ukuba kufuneka siqale sigxile ekubuyiseleni uxinezeleko kwaye okuseleyo kuya kulandela. Ekubeni ngamanye amaxesha kungekhona nje ngenxa yokudakumba ngokwayo, kodwa ngenxa yonyango olunciphisa ubomi besondo.
Indlela yokunceda iqabane lakho
Umntu ekuthethwa ngaye sele eziva ebuhlungu ngokwaneleyo ngako konke ukubandezeleka kwakhe ukuze abe nengcinezelo engakumbi. Ngoko, umsebenzi welinye icala lesibini uya kuba nomonde. Zama ukuqonda inkqubo, gxila ekubuyiseleni ngokukhawuleza kwingxaki kwaye njengenjongo, nakwimpilo yakho yesondo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuzama, kungcono ukuba unganyanzeli nawuphi na umzuzu kwaye yonke into ivela. Ukuba ngaxa lithile injongo elindelekileyo ayifezekiswanga, kufuneka isoloko ijongelwa phantsi. Kuba ngenxa yoko kukho uxinzelelo kunye nenxalenye yobudlelwane esinayo, kunye nokuthembana. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukaze kube buhlungu ukucela ingcali yonyango ukuze inkqubo ihlale ilawulwa kwaye ikwindlela engcono. Akukho fomula yomlingo kwezi meko. Ukudakumba maxa wambi kufika ngaphandle kwesilumkiso, kubangela isiphithiphithi esikhulu kumntu obandezelekileyo nakwabo bamngqongileyo. Ke, kufuneka usoloko uzibeke kwezona zandla zibalaseleyo, ulandele amayeza abonisiwe kunye noncedo oluninzi oluvela kwiqabane lakho kunye nosapho. Zama ukutshintsha imikhwa ethile kwaye ujonge izinto ezininzi ezikhuthazayo ukuze uqhubeke usiya phambili. Ukongeza kwinto exelelwa ngumgqirha, uqinisekile ukuba uya kwenza ubomi bakho bobulili bufane nangaphambili.