Iintsika ezixhasa ubudlelwane obuzinzile kunye nobonwabileyo zivame ukuba njalo Ingxoxo, ukuqonda, ukuhlalisana kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, ubulili. Yonke le milinganiselo inxulumene kwaye ixhasa umgangatho wethu wobomi kunye nokwaneliseka kwethu. Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni xa enye yazo isilela, njengokuba kunjalo ngesini? Ukuguqulwa kweemvakalelo okubangelwa luhlobo oluthile lwengxaki ehambelana nale ntsika luchaphazela ngokupheleleyo ubudlelwane bethu. Ukwabelana ngesondo kuyimfuneko, kubudlelwane obusondeleyo nomntu esimthandayo, kubalulekile ukuziva ugcwele kwaye wanelisekile.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukugcina ubudlelwane obuhle kusekelwe ngaphezu kwayo yonke into ekunxibelelaneni kunye nokuhlalisana, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ubulili kwisibini akubalulekanga kangako. Xa kukho ingxaki kulo mba Asifanele sikuqonde oko njengophawu olungenakuphikiswa lokuba uthando okanye umnqweno uphelile., akunjalo, kufuneka sicace. Ngamanye amaxesha kusenokubakho uhlobo oluthile lokungasebenzi kakuhle, okanye sisenokuba sijongene nengxaki yeemvakalelo okanye yobuqu esithintela ukuba silonwabele ngokupheleleyo ubudlelwane bethu bezesondo. Ukwazi indlela yokuqonda, ukuphatha kunye nokujongana nabo phakathi kwethu sobabini kubalulekile ukuze ubudlelwane bethu buhlale bobanelisayo.
Iingxaki kwisini sethu
Kungethuba lokuhlalisana kunye neqabane lethu apho sinokuqonda ukuba kukho into engalunganga ngesini sethu. Asithethi ngeentlobano zesini ezithile. Iingxaki zibonwa xa sineqabane elizinzile, xa sisazi imikhwa yabo kunye neyethu. Kungenzeka ukuba phakathi kobu buhlobo, sifumanisa ngokukhawuleza ukuba kukho into engasebenzi. Into eyenzekayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye oko kusibonisa ukuba kusenokubakho uhlobo oluthile lokungasebenzi kakuhle. Kodwa masiyijonge ngenyameko.
Kodwa yintoni ukungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo?
- Ukungasebenzi kakuhle kunokuvela nangawuphi na umzuzu ngexesha lesenzo sesondo, nokuba sikwisigaba somnqweno, ngexesha lolonwabo okanye ngexesha le-orgasm. Singathetha ngengxaki xa inguqulelo enye okanye ezininzi ziqala ukuziphinda ngokuqhubekayo ekuhambeni kwexesha. Zonke ezi nyaniso zidla ngokusibangela ukuphazamiseka okukhulu ngokweemvakalelo xa sicinga ukuba mhlawumbi asisanqweneleki, okanye iqabane lethu alisasithandi.
Zeziphi iintlobo zeengxaki ezidla ngokubakho?
Iingxaki kwizesondo zethu zidla ngokuba nezizathu ezimbini: ngokweemvakalelo okanye ngokwasemzimbeni. Ngamanye amaxesha siziva songanyelwe ziimvakalelo okanye iingxaki. Ukungabi nathemba, amathandabuzo ... imiba yezengqondo esithintela ukuba sinandipha ubudlelwane bethu. Kwezinye iimeko, ubunzima bunemvelaphi yomzimba, kwaye iya kuhlala iyingcali esinceda ukuba sinikezele isisombululo. Makhe sihlalutye ngezantsi kweyona nto isebenzayo emzimbeni.
1. Iingxaki emadodeni:
- Ukungabinamandla: Ubunzima bokugcina indawo yokuma.
- Ukuphuma kwangaphambi kwexesha: impendulo ye-orgasmic okanye yokukhupha ngaphambi kokuba ufune.
- Ukulibazisa ukukhupha: Iimpendulo ze-orgasmic okanye zokukhupha ezithatha ixesha elide ukuvela.
2. Iingxaki kubasetyhini
- IAnorgasmia: Ubunzima bokufikelela kwi-orgasm.
- I-Vaginismus: intlungu ebuhlungu ngexesha lokungena.
Ukujongana neengxaki zobudlelwane ukuphucula ukuziphatha kwethu ngokwesondo
Uninzi lweengxaki zesini kwizibini ngokusisiseko ngenxa yemiba engasonjululwanga, imilinganiselo ekufuneka iqwalaselwe phakathi kwabo bobabini. Ukuhlambalaza, umona, ukungathembi, ukwesaba, ukungabikho kwengqalelo ... ziinyani ezinomthwalo omkhulu weemvakalelo ngamanye amaxesha ovelisa into engenakuphepheka. ukungabikho kwe-libido.
Yamkele kwaye ukwabelana ngeengcinga zethu, amathandabuzo kunye neemfuno kunye neqabane lethu, Kuyinto eyimfuneko ukunandipha ngokupheleleyo isondo. Ukuba ingxaki yethu isemzimbeni, ugqirha uya kuba nguye oya kusinika isisombululo, kodwa ukuba imvelaphi yeyomntu kunye nengqondo, kufuneka siyisombulule ngokukhawuleza. Kufuneka sikuthintele oku kungasebenzi ukuba kungapheli kuze kuphele kukuphazamiseka ngokweemvakalelo. Ukwabelana ngesondo kubalulekile. Ukuba asikwazi ukuyisombulula ngokwethu, sinokubhenela kwingcali esinokuthi siqalise ngayo unyango lwezibini.
Kwelinye icala, ukuphucula umgangatho wobomi bethu bezesondo ngamanye amaxesha kufuna amanyathelo alula, izindululo ezilula esinokuzisebenzisa phakathi kwethu sobabini:
- Kufuneka nichithe ixesha omnye komnye. Ukuba ngeveki izibophelelo zomsebenzi azikuvumeli ukuba ube nexesha elininzi, zama ukwenza ezo zihlandlo zibe ngumgangatho, ushiye uxinzelelo kunye nokukhathazeka ngasemva. Vumela impelaveki, okanye ixesha lakho lokuzonwabisa, lingacwangciswanga. Vumela ukuzenzekelayo kuvele ngokwakho, ngaphandle kwezibophelelo.
- Lixabise iqabane lakho. Kwaye ngokuchaseneyo. Nika omnye komnye amagama anobubele, izijekulo zokuthembeka kunye nokudibana. Izinto ezincinci zibonelela ngobudlelwane obusondeleyo, ukhuseleko kunye ne ukuziva unqweneleka.
- search iimeko ezintsha okanye ezahlukeneyo onokutshintsha ngazo inkqubo yakho. Ngamanye amaxesha utshintsho oluncinci lutshintsho olukhulu. Ukudibana nomntu ehotele, indawo yokuphumla yothando, okanye into yokudlala, incwadi, okanye impahla ecekisekayo, inokukuvumela ukuba ujonge imilinganiselo emitsha yokuphucula isini sakho.
- Nikeza into emangalisayo kwiqabane lakho. Isidlo sakusihlwa kunye ne-aphrodisiacs, umhla ongalindelekanga kwindawo entsha ...
- Musa ukulinda ukuba iqabane lakho "liqale" okanye "lenze into ethile." Ukwabelana ngesondo yinkqubo phakathi kwabantu ababini apho bobabini banenyathelo lokuqala, lokuyila, ukuba phonononga kwaye wonwabe.
Ukugqiba, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kwezi meko Gcina unxibelelwano oluhle Kunye neqabane lethu, thetha ngokwemvelo nangokuzithemba. Kufuneka sichaze into esikhathazayo, into esikhathazayo okanye into esiyidingayo. Iingxaki zokwabelana ngesondo azisoloko zibangelwa kukungabikho kothando kwicala lethu okanye kwicala lomlingane wethu. Imicelimngeni kubomi bethu njengesibini isoloko iyindlela elungileyo yokwazana nokukhula ngokobuqu. Ukwabelana ngesondo kubalulekile kubudlelwane bethu kwaye sinokufunda kuyo kwaye kuthi ngomzuzu ngamnye, ukuba nje sisondela kuyo ngokuthembana nangokunyaniseka.