La Usizi yimvakalelo esiye sanamava kuyo ngamanye amaxesha ebomini, Inxalenye yamava ethu asinceda ukuba siliqonde ngcono ilizwe kwaye sifunde kwinto eyenzekayo kuthi. Uninzi lwabantu ludlula ngamaxesha osizi kwaye oko kongeza kwinto embi abafuna ukuphuma kuyo, kodwa kufuneka siyiqonde into yokuba, njengezinye iimvakalelo, usizi luyakwazi kwaye luyasinceda ukuba siqhubeke.
Kukho zininzi izinto esinokuzenza ukuba sihamba kabuhlungu Ebomini bethu. Akufuneki soyike okanye singakhululeki ngayo, kuba yimvakalelo eqhelekileyo kwaye yinto esihamba nayo amaxesha ngamaxesha. Kuphela ukuba iba sisifo esinganyangekiyo kwaye ikhokelele kuxinzelelo apho sinokufuna uncedo.
Usizi kukufundisa
Ukoyisa ilahleko, nangalo naluphi na uhlobo, kubandakanya ukuya kumanqanaba aliqela. Uvakalelo lokukhanyela, lomsindo wokuziva ukuba le meko ayilunganga, leyo yosizi kuba siyaqonda ukuba into ebesinayo ayisayi kuphinda ibuye naleyo yokwamkelwa, xa siqala ukuyinqoba. Ewe, i Ukuziva ulusizi yinxalenye nje yenkqubo yokoyisa nokufunda okwenzeka ebomini babo bonke abantu. Kukho abo badlula kuyo ngaphambili kwaye kukho abo bangayiqapheliyo, kodwa inyani kukuba sonke siza kudlula kwixesha losizi ngamanye amaxesha ebomini bethu kwaye siza kufunda kulo. Kubalulekile ukuba sizazi zonke ezi zigaba kwaye sihamba njani kwizinto ukuze sizithathele ingqalelo kwixesha elizayo.
Phila loo mvakalelo
Siphila kwihlabathi apho kubonakala ngathi luvuyo kuphela olunomvuzo, lokuba wonke umntu kufuneka onwabe kwaye alubonakalise iinethiwekhi zentlalo kwaye olo sizi aluvumelekanga. Ewe, ukuba ufuna ukuba lusizi unokuba nje. Akukho mntu unelungelo lokukuxelela ukuba ungabi lusizi, wonwabe kwaye ungagqibi kuloo nto kuba sisigaba ekufuneka udlule kuso. Ngelixa kuyinyani ukuba akufuneki sizixakekise kusizi kwaye kufuneka sibavumele basincede siboyise, kufuneka sigqithe kuyo kwaye iingqondo nomzimba wethu buva ukuba lusizi ukuze boyise.
Ukucinga okuqinisekileyo
Siyazi ukuba kumzuzu wosizi, ukuba neengcinga ezintle kunzima kakhulu, kuba sihlala sicinga ngezinto ezimbi kuphela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukusebenza kwezi ntlobo zezinto, kuba zinako kunceda kakhulu ukubona ubomi ngokwahlukileyo. Abantu abaneempawu ezintle babonakaliswa ngokuchanekileyo ngokuba neengcinga ezintle malunga neemeko ezifanayo kunabanye abantu. Ke zama ukufumana into elungileyo kuyo yonke into. Ukususela kwikhefu uza kufunda kwaye udibane nomntu oye wafunda kuye izinto, kwilahleko kufuneka ukhumbule amaxesha amnandi. Kuya kufuneka usoloko uzama ukukhumbula izinto ezintle onazo ebomini bakho kwaye nangoku zisekhona kuba oko kunokukunceda uqhubele phambili ngoku.
Khangela izinto ezikonwabisa
I-Illusion kunye nenkuthazo zizinto ezimbini esingafane sibe nazo xa sibuhlungu kwaye sidandathekile. Yiyo loo nto kufuneka sijonge kwakhona kwizinto ezisenza sonwabe kwaye zisikhuthaze ukuba siqhubeke. Inokuba yi ikhosi entsha apho sifunda khona into enexabiso, isilwanyana sasekhaya esisamkelayo size singene ebomini bethu, sincede abanye abantu okanye siqale uthotho esiluthandayo. Zininzi izinto ezisivuyisa yonke imihla kwaye akufuneki siyeke ukuzithathela ingqalelo kuba sihamba kwixesha losizi eliza kuphela kungekudala okanye kamva.