Qhubeka uye phambili okanye qhekeza nayo yonke into sinantoni ngoku? Akusoze kube lula ukwenza esi sigqibo, nangona kunjalo, nangawuphi na umzuzu wobunzima, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba masenze njani ngokufanelekileyo, sisazi okusilungeleyo.
Ukuzibeka phambili akubalulekanga. Kubo bonke ubomi bethu sihlangabezana neemeko apho kuye kufuneke ukuba sifumane amandla ngaphakathi, kwaye sizibeke phambili ngokwethu. Ndibambe ukubandezeleka, okanye nwabanga yobudlelwane obuzisa usizi ngakumbi kunokukhula, ayisiyongo Kule meko, kubalulekile ukwaphula ubudlelwane kunye naloo mntu, kwaye uqhubeke. Soloko uqhubela phambili unethemba kunye nesibindi.
Ukophula nayo yonke into? Okanye ubambe ixesha elide?
Awusoze walwa ngokwaneleyo ukuba ube mnye ubudlelwane babini. Yonke imizamo ibalulekile ekukhuliseni ukuzibophelela, ukukhohlisa kunye nothando lwemihla ngemihla oluphumelela kwiinkcukacha ezincinci.
Ngoku, leliphi ixesha ekufuneka siqale ngalo ukucinga ukuba mhlawumbi ukuya phambili yeyona nto ingalunganga? Camngca kule milinganiselo.
1. Iinzame zelinye icala ezingavuzwa
- Kukho abo bacinga ukuba eluthandweni, kufuneka sinike yonke into mahala, ukuba ukuzinikela kufanelekile. Ukukhathazeka ngalo lonke ixesha ukugcina isibini sonwabile, ngaphandle kokuthandabuza okomzuzwana ukulahla izinto ezithile ukuze utshintshe uzinzo apho umntu othandekayo anelisekile.
- Kufuneka silumke, Ubudlelwane bomtshato awasekelwanga kubuntu, isencinci ekunikezeleni ngayo yonke into "ngelize."
- Uthando yi ukulingana, kukutyala imali kwiprojekthi efanayo ngokulinganayo.
- Nangona kuyinyani ukuba ngaxa lithile sinako rhoxisa Kwinto ethile, ukurhoxa kwenziwa kuba nathi "sizuza okuthile": ukuze sikwazi ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye ngemvumelwano, ukuze sikwazi ukuqala ubomi kunye xa kunokwenzeka umsebenzi ungasivumeli ...
- Ukurhoxa kuyancediswa, lonke ulwabiwo-mali lutyalo-mali kwaye yonke into iyavunyelwana, kukho ingxoxo kwaye kugqitywe ngokuvisisana.
- Okwangoku siqokelela ukurhoxa emva komnye, umnyinyiva emva komnye, kwaye akukho nanye kwezo zenzo eyaziwayo, ukukhungatheka, iintlungu.
- Xa ukusebudlelwaneni, mnye kuphela umntu ozama ukugcina ubudlelwane bume, kukho into engalunganga.
2. Guqula ukubandezeleka
Kukho amaxesha apho singayazi loo nto asiphilanga. Kunzima ukukholelwa. Nangona kunjalo, kumaxesha amaninzi luthando ngokwalo olusigcina simi ngokuvumela iintsuku ziqhubeke ngelixa sigcina ithemba.
- Ndiyathemba ukuba izinto ziyatshintsha.
- Ke ukuba ndiyayenza le nto, mhlawumbi ndiza kuyazi ngakumbi
- Ukuba sinoxinzelelo oluncinci, loo msebenzi uyaphucuka ...
- Ndiyathemba ukuba iqabane lethu liya kuphinda lifane
- Kuqhelekile ukunamathela kwezi ntlobo zembono zijolise kumbono wethu komnye umntu. Ngaba kubizwa ntoni "Umbono wetonela"Sibona kwicala elinye kuphela, siphulukene nembono kuyo yonke into esijikelezileyo.
Sibeka phambili umntu esimthandayo alibale ngeziqu zethu, kude kube lusuku olunye, oko ngumhlobo ngubani ukuxelela ukuba ubonakala ulusizi. Eyakho bazali Bayakuxwayisa ukuba ubhityile, kwaye ubonakala udiniwe ... Kwaye uyaqonda.
Uyaqonda ukuba awusenguye, kwaye ukuzithemba kwakho kuyothusa kwaye uphulukene nemibono emininzi. Kulapho uzibuza khona umbuzo Qhubeka okanye uphule nayo yonke into?
Ngalo lonke ixesha qhubela phambili, sukuzivumela ukuba ube libanjwa lokungonwabi
Noba kwenzekani isigqibo. Nokuba ukhetha ukwahlukana okanye uqhubeke nobudlelwane bakho, isitshixo sihlala sisiya phambili. Ngoku ... siqonda ntoni ngokuqhubela phambili kubudlelwane bethu?
- Ukuqhubela phambili kukwazi ukusombulula mahluko, kwaye umahluko ayizizo iindonga ezingenakoyiswa kodwa yimilinganiselo yokuhlonipha nokuqonda.
- Ukuqhubela phambili kukwazi ukuba siziva silungile, sanelisekile kwaye sigqibelele kolo lwalamano. Ukuba siyaqhubeka nokugcina iifayile ze- inkohliso kwiprojekthi esikholelwa kuyo.
- Phambili hlonipha izithuba. Kukukwazi ukukhula ngokobuqu nanjengesibini, apho ubuntu buhambelana ngokugqibeleleyo "nathi". Eyakho iyahambelana neyam kwaye sobabini siyaphumelela.
Kwimeko apho sithatha isigqibo "sokwaphula yonke into", kholwa okanye ungakholelwa, injongo yakho iya kufana: ukuqhubeka uye phambili njengomntu:
- Ukophula nayo yonke into kuthetha ukubeka ecaleni inxenye yobomi bethu nokwaphula olo nxibelelwano apho uthando lusidibanise nomntu. Konke oku kuya kuthetha ukuba kufuneka uhambe nge Inkqubo ebuhlungu.
- Ukusuka kwelo xesha lidlulileyo kuya kusinyanzela "Sizakhe" ngaphakathi, ukunxibelelana kwakhona nesizungu, ukumamela ilizwi lethu kunye nokupholisa inxeba elingaqhelekanga. Kwezo zingabonwayo ngeliso lenyama.
- Kwaye uyakuyifumana, kuba ubomi buya phambili ukuvala izangqa, apho apho ngamanye amaxesha sinyanzeliswa ukuba siqhekeze nayo yonke into. Nangona kunjalo, isiphelo ngasinye linyathelo lokuqala lesiqalo, apho uya kuhamba khona indlela yobomi kwakhona ulumkile kancinci.
Abantu bazibona rhoqo kwezi meko zintsonkothileyo, apho kufuneka ukhethe icala elinye okanye elinye. Musa ukoyika ukubeka phambili ngokwakho, ungacingi ukuba uzicingela ngokwakho kuba ukhetha ukonwaba, ngokushiya usizi okanye ukungoneliseki ecaleni. Yiba nesibindi kuyo yonke into oyenzayo kwaye Thatha ithuba Kuko konke kufanelekile