Ngaba ukhona "umthetho wokutsala" kubudlelwane?

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Umnxeba "Umthetho womtsalane" Enye yezona zimvo zixhaphakileyo xa kufikwa ekuchazeni ukuba kutheni siqala ubudlelwane hayi abanye. Kodwa ngenxa yokuba yenye yezona ziphindaphindwayo, ayisiyiyo le inenkxaso yezenzululwazi, kwaye ngokuchasene noko. Nangona kunjalo, ikho, inikezela kubantu abaninzi uhlobo "lobunyani bokwenyani" apho ithuba ngamanye amaxesha ligqiba ukudibana okubonakala ngathi kuyilo lwamva, okanye amandla e-cosmic aphezulu kunathi.

Kodwa yintoni eyinyani phantsi kwale nkolelo idumileyo? Kufuneka sicace gca malunga nomba omnye: akulunganga ukushiya into enzulu njenge ubudlelwane obunomdla. Ukudibana, esiphela sikunye nomntu hayi omnye ngokuqinisekileyo unento engaqhelekanga, into engachazekiyo. Kodwa xa obo budlelwane buqalile, kubalulekile ukuba sihlale sihamba phambili ngalo lonke ixesha. Oko kuphawula izigqibo zethu kunye namandla ethu. Kufanelekile ukugcina engqondweni. Kanye njengoko kufanelekile ukuhlalutya ngokweenkcukacha ukuba yintoni ebizwa ngokuba "ngumthetho wokutsala".

Iziseko zethiyori ezenza «Umtsalane womtsalane»

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Umthetho wokutsala unesiko elikhulu kwaye kutheni ungatsho, intengiso eninzi. Lowo uxhasa uninzi lokuzinceda kunye ukuziphucula. Kodwa masibone izembe ezisisiseko ezichazayo:

Isayikholoji efanelekileyo

Isayikholoji elungileyo iyasixelela ukuba kobu bomi, kubaluleke kakhulu isimo sethu sengqondo. Umbono oqinisekileyo wezinto uvula iimbono ezininzi kuthi kunokungakhathali kunye nokungahambi. Kuya kufuneka ucinge ngothando, umzekelo, ngendlela ethembisayo kunye neqinisekileyo, apho ithuba lesibini lihlala linokwenzeka. Sonke kufanelekile ukuba sonwabe, kwaye njengoko ithiyori yomtsalane iya kusixelela, kufuneka kubekho iqabane elifanelekileyo kuthi sonke.

Amandla engcinga

"Umthetho wokutsala" usekwe kwingcinga yokuba ingamandla eengcinga zethu, asinika ithuba lokufezekisa izinto ezithile. Lo mfanekiso uchazwa ngumbono wokuba kukho amandla athile, anakho ukuhambelana ukusinika oko sikufunayo. Ingcinga enjalo ivela kwimikhwa AmaBuddha namaHindu, Imigca emincinci apho, omnye unombono we «yonke». Apho apho ingcinga, intando kunye nempumelelo, yonke into iya kumanyana.

Ingqondo yokusebenza kwengqondo

Ikwathatha imiba ethile yethiyori yokuqonda ukuze ichaze umthetho wokutsala. Ukuqonda kwethu, okanye ixabiso yengcinga Njengesicwangciso sokulawula ukuthanda kwethu, yinxalenye ebalulekileyo. Thatha, umzekelo, abo bantu bafuna ukuyeka ukutshaya. Ukuzibona yonke imihla kusasa ngaphandle kwelo cuba emlonyeni kuya kuba linyathelo eliya kwimpumelelo yabo.

Iingcamango zokuziphatha

Ukuziqhelanisa nokuziphatha ngokweengcinga zethu kunye neminqweno yethu, kuya kuba yinto ebalulekileyo ukufezekisa oko sikufunayo. Ukuba, umzekelo, sinqwenela ukuba ne- izibini ezizinzileyo kunye nobudlelwane obuphawulwe kukuthandana kunye nomnqweno, ngokomthetho womtsalane, kuya kuba ngokwaneleyo ukukunqwenela. Yinqwenela ngeyona ndlela ilungileyo, ucinga ukuba into enje izakwenzeka.

Nje ukuba ukucinga kwethu "kusicinge" kuloo njongo, ihambo yethu Ndingaba sele ndijolise kuloo mbono. Ithuba, amandla ekamva kunye nendalo iphela iya kwenza konke okunye. Ngaba unokuthenjwa? Makhe siyibone ngokulandelayo.

Umthetho woMtsalane ngokuchasene noMthetho weSenzo

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Asinakuyikhanyela loo nto. Ukuba besinokwenza uphando oluncinci kwizibini ezininzi ukubuza ukuba badibana njani, uninzi lunokuthi yayilindelwe. Ukuba bekukho into engachazekiyo ephela ibadibanisa ngoluhlobo, ngokungathi ngumntu othile ngebecwangcisile ngaphambili ukuze yenzeke.

Ukuwa eluthandweni yinto yomlingo. Kodwa ukuthanda, kufuneka ugcine iinyawo zakho emhlabeni. Ukukholelwa "kumthetho wokutsala" akusenzakalisi, endaweni yoko, kusibeka kwingcinga apho Umyolelo, isimo sethu sengqondo kunye positivismZiintsika ezicacileyo zokufezekisa izinto. Ukuba kukho inkwenkwe oyithandayo, umzekelo, kufanelekile kakhulu ukuba ucinge ukuba unokuba nethuba lokuba kunye naye, ukuba ungamrhwebesha, ukuba ufanele nayiphi na inzame yokufumana umdla wakhe kunye nomdla.

Oko kukuthi, eyona nto ifanelekileyo kukuncedisa umthetho wokutsala nomthetho wezenzo. Akwanele ukufuna nje. Ngokuvumela iingcinga zethu ukuba "zityhale" ezi zibizwa ngokuba ngamandla angabonakaliyo ukuze ubudlelwane buqale ngaphandle. Uninzi lwexesha kufuneka senze eyethu indima: ukuthetha, ukulukuhla, ukusondela, ukucebisa, ukwazana kwaye sivavanye ukuba kunokwenzeka na ukuqala ubudlelwane obunjalo.

Inkosana yethu enomtsalane ayizukuvela nje ngokumnqwenela emnyango wendlu yethu. Khangela amathuba, jonga phezulu; ifuna kodwa ikwenze. Inkqubo ye- "Umthetho womtsalane" Yimbono elungileyo kwicandelo lokuphuculwa komntu, okusinika amandla kunye nenkuthazo. Oko kuyasikhuthaza ukuba sibonise ukuba sonke sinako ukwenza izinto ezinkulu ukuba sigxila kuzo.

Kwaye umlingo ukhona, ewe, unje ngamathuba kwaye loo ntlantsi iyatsha xa sidibana nomntu ogqibeleleyo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba nakuluphi na ubudlelwane, uhlala unabo iinyawo emhlabeni kunye nokujonga ngaphakathi kuwe. Ukukhathalela ukuzithemba kwakho, ukuthanda kwakho kunye nozinzo lwakho lweemvakalelo. Kufanelekile ukugcina engqondweni.


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