Kubekho amathandabuzo amaninzi kunye neentsomi ezininzi malunga okokuqala umfazi elala nendoda. Ukuba ibuhlungu njengoko isitsho, ukuba iyopha, nokuba ungakhulelwa na, njl. Onke la mathandabuzo ahlala rhoqo kumfazi ongenamava kwezesondo njengalo lonke uninzi lwabakwishumi elivisayo.
Ke ngoko, namhlanje ndizise eli nqaku ukuba ndikuxelele ngalo ukungaqiniseki ukuba onke amantombazana akwishumi elivisayo anakho, ukuze xa iintsomi zingamabali kuphela kwaye bonwabele ngoxolo olupheleleyo lwengqondo okokuqala xa besabelana ngesondo.
Ixesha lokuqala kunye nomfana, uninzi lwabasetyhini, kufuneka ukuba luthandane kwaye lukhetheke ngakumbi, ukumkhumbula ebomini bakhe bonke. Inyani yile yokuba isondo okokuqala umntu kufuneka abe ezolile kwaye ekhululekile kwaye wonwabele umzuzu ukuze ungabinalo ixesha elibi.
Zininzi iinkolelo kunye neentsomi zokuba ukuba kubuhlungu okanye akunjalo kwaye ukuba uyintombi nto uyopha. Kodwa oku akuyonyani konke konke, kuba ukopha ngaphambili bekubonwa njenge uphawu lokunyaniseka, apho umfazi achukunyiswe kuphela, abonwa kwaye wangena kumyeni wakhe kwaye, ngenxa yoko, wayefanelekile kuye.
Kodwa le ayisiyonto yimbi ngaphandle kokukhohlisa kwamadoda ukuba azive ephezulu kunabafazi. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, enye Uvavanyo lweMachismo.
Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kuthiwe kwiimeko ezininzi okokuqala ukuba kukho intlungu encinci, kodwa yinto yendalo kwaye ayiyontlungu eyomeleleyo okanye ebaxiweyo. Ngokungaze ungene ngaphakathi, nokuba umfazi sele ephulula amalungu esini ngaphambili, ubufazi ngumngxunya omncinci kakhulu, apho ipenisi yendoda emileyo kufuneka ingene khona, ethi, nangona incinci, ibe buhlungu.
Nangona kunjalo, ayisiyiyo intlungu eyomeleleyo, kodwa yintlungu encinci okanye a ukuqina kwilungu lobufazingamanye amaxesha kubangela ukuqaqamba. Xa usabelana ngesondo okokuqala, kuya kufuneka ukhululeke kwaye uzolile kwaye ungacingi nto ngaphandle kolonwabo olunika omnye nomnye. Ngale ndlela ubufazi abuzukungena kwaye ukungena kungena ngokugudileyo kwaye kubuhlungu.
Kuyacetyiswa ukuba umntu uvuselela ngokwaneleyo ngaphambi kokungena kwabasetyhini ukuze ithambise ubufazi kakhulu kwaye ke xa ingena ayonzakalisi. Ukongeza, indoda kufuneka yenze ukungena ngobunono nangokucothayo, kuba ukuba ikwenza ngequbuliso, ingopha kodwa kuba bekukho inyembezi ngaphakathi kwilungu lobufazi.
El Heen Kuthathelwe ingqalelo njengophawu lobuntombi, nangona kuye kwathiwa kubuthathaka kangangokuba ukukhwela ibhayisekile kuyaphula ngokulula. I-hymen ayisiyo ipleyiti eqhekeka ngokuvutha okulula, kodwa inwebu ephakathi komda womanyano lobufazi kunye ne-vulva. Ke ngoko, ukuba kukho ukuphulula amalungu esini, i-hymen inokukrazula kwaye ke ayopha.
Ngamafutshane, ukuba iintsomi ziyintsomi nje kwaye ukonwabela isondo okokuqala nenkwenkwe yakho kufuneka uzolile kwaye wonwabele umzuzu kunye nolonwabo lwesondo. Ngale ndlela ayizukulimaza okanye uya kuziva kuphela ukuqina okuncinci kwilungu lobufazi, ngaphandle kokopha. Into ebalulekileyo ngayo yonke into ayikuko ukuba ibuhlungu kodwa Khusela kuqala kwiikhondom.
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