Ukuba unyulwe ukuba ube lingqina lomtshato ke siyavuyisana nawe. Kungenxa yokuba esi sibini siziva sisondelelene ngokwenene, umntu obekunye naso okanye enaso kulwalamano lwaso, esixhasayo. Ke, ngoku kufuneka abonise yonke loo nto ukuba isondele ngakumbi kumsitho.
Kodwa ukuba awukaqinisekanga ukuba ukhetha bani ngosuku lwakho olukhulu okanye indima enamangqina, kunye neminye imibuzo ehlala ethanda ukuphanga, ke uhlale nathi kwaye uya kufumanisa ngokuqhwanyaza kweliso. Lixesha lokuba uzivumele uhambe kwaye ufunde ngakumbi malunga nokuba la manani angakwenzela ntoni kunye nomtshato wakho. Ngaba uzilungiselele okanye uzilungiselele?
Lenza ntoni ingqina lomtshato?
Omnye wale mibuzo okanye amathandabuzo athi qatha engqondweni yile. Kodwa ukuba sele sicinga ngegama abalifumanayo ke baya kusinika imikhondo eyaneleyo. Ukuba umsitho wakho ngowonqulo, kuhlala kululuvo oluhle ukubuza umfundisi wendawo nganye ukuba kukho ezinye iinguqulelo. Kodwa kufuneka ukhethe abantu ababini, omnye usecaleni kwakho nomnye kwicala lesibini ukuba kunokwenzeka. Abantu abakwazi kakuhle, abakudala bengabahlobo ngenxa yokuba baya kudibana nomfundisi oza kukutshata kwaye bavame ukubuza ukuba nazana ixesha elingakanani na. Kwintlanganiso ekhankanyiweyo, umsebenzi wamangqina kukuqinisekisa ukuba amaqabane atshata ngokuzithandela kwaye ngaphandle kwemidla ebandakanyekayo.. Kwelinye icala, kumsitho woluntu kungafuneka uhambe nomtshakazi nomyeni ukuya kutyikitya uthotho lwamaphepha kwiholo yedolophu, apho kufuneka ubonise i-DNI kwaye uqinisekise ukuba batshata ngokuzithandela.
Yintoni efunekayo ukuze ube lingqina lomtshato?
Inyaniso kukuba akukho mfuneko, njengomgaqo jikelele. Nangona ewe kuyacetyiswa ukuba babekwiminyaka esemthethweni kwaye njengoko siye saphawula ngaphambili, ukuba banobudlelwane obusondeleyo nesi sibini. Kwezinye iindawo akukhuthazwa ukuba babe ngamalungu osapho, yiyo loo nto ungasoloko ubheja ngobuhlobo. Kodwa, ukuba kunokwenzeka, kungcono ukubuza indawo apho uza kutshata khona ukuze uhlale uqinisekile.
Mangaphi amangqina omtshato afunekayo
Inyaniso kukuba into eqhelekileyo kukukhetha ezimbini kwaye baya kuba sele bekhathalele onke amaxesha apho ibango. Njengexesha leentlanganiso zangaphambi komthendeleko, ukuba kuyimfuneko. Kwakunye nokutyikitywa kwamaphepha ukuze waneliseke nguloo mtshato kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, nokuba kufutshane nomtshakazi nomyeni ngosuku olukhulu. Kude kuthiwe amadoda angamangqina anokugqoka isinxibo esifanayo somyeni (i-suit, idyasi yasekuseni ...) kunye nabasetyhini, babheja kwiisuti ezintle kakhulu, ukuze bagqamise umsebenzi wabo okanye isikhundla sabo. Kodwa ngokwenene asiyonto eyenzekayo kuwo wonke umtshato. Ke ngumbono kwaye ungayincamathela kweyakho okanye hayi.
Yintoni enikelwayo xa ubona umtshato
Sisenzo sokungazingci apho zikhona, siyazi. Ke ngoko, le nxalenye ikwayinto ekufuneka ithotyelwe ngokungqongqo. Kodwa ekubeni sikwisiganeko esikhethekileyo, izipho ziya kuhlala zilulungelelwano lwemini. Ngenxa yoko, ukuba umtshakazi nomyeni bafuna ukubenzela isipho, banokukhetha ilitye elinqabileyo. Kwaye akukho mfuneko yokutyala imali eninzi kuba umtshato sele usikhokelela kuwo. Ezinye izacholo zesilivere, zihlala zinexabiso elihle kwaye unokufumana zombini iinketho kubo kunye nabo. Kwakhona ibhokisi elinencasa yeetshokholethi okanye iiliqueurs. Zeziphi izimvo onazo ngengqina lakho lomtshato?