Uyicwangcisa njani ishawa yomntwana?

Kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo sikuxelele malunga nalo mkhwa omtsha kwiintlanganiso zabasetyhini ukuya ukuvuyisana nokufika komntwana kwaye ukonwabisa umama wexesha elizayo ngezipho, ulonwabo kunye namaqebengwana: i "ukunikewa izipho zomntwana» njengoko bethetha eUnited States, "ipati yediaper" njengoko besithi eArgentina okanye "ukunikewa izipho zomntwana" njengoko ibizwa eMexico.

Kodwa cwangcisa a ukunikewa izipho zomntwana Akukho lula kwaphela. Njengombutho weliphi na iqela, ukususela kumhla wokuzalwa ukuya kumtshato, unamaphuzu ahlukeneyo ongafanele ukulibala.

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Izinto zokwenza:

• Seta umhla kunye nexesha. Uninzi lweeshawari zabantwana zibanjwa ngaphambi kokuba umntwana azalwe. Musa ukuyenza kwangoko, njengenxalenye yolonwabo kukudlala kunye nomama oza kuba, ukubona isisu sakhe, kunye nokwabelana ngamava akhe okukhulelwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iishawari zabantwana zibanjelwa ekupheleni kokukhulelwa.
• Yenza uluhlu lweendwendwe. Ukuba ukufutshane nabazali abaza kuba, uya kuba nombono oqhelekileyo wokuba bangathanda ukumema bani. Thetha neendwendwe zembeko okanye abalinganiswa ngokwabo malunga nokuba bangabamema bani kwaye bangabamemi bani. Ukushiya abantu ngaphandle okanye ukubandakanya abantu abalinganiswa abafuni ukubandakanya kunokuba ngumthombo weengxaki.
• Zibekele imali. Uza kuchitha malini, iindleko ziya kwabelwana ngoobani? Oku kubaluleke kakhulu, kuba uhlobo lomcimbi onquma ukuwubamba lunokuxhomekeka kolu lwazi. Ukuba uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali lwakho lulinganiselwe, unokucela umntu ngamnye okhoyo ukuba anikele ngento yokutya nesiselo.
• Ngamadoda okanye ngaphandle? Uninzi lweshawari lubanjwa kuphela abasetyhini, kodwa amaqela abandakanya amadoda nawo aya exhaphaka. Ngaphezu kwayo nantoni na, isigqibo sixhomekeke kuhlobo lwepati ofuna ukuyiququzelela, inani leendwendwe kunye neminqweno yabazali bexesha elizayo.
• Yothusa? Ngokumalunga nokulungiselela itheko elingalindelekanga, cinga kabini ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo. Nangona umzuzu xa i-protagonist ifumanisa ukumangaliswa kunye nawo onke amalungiselelo ayimfihlo ayijikelezileyo intle kakhulu kwaye iyonwabisa, ayinguye wonke umntu othanda izinto ezothusayo kwaye unokuziva engakhululekanga. Ukongezelela, ukuba uquka abazali bexesha elizayo kwinxalenye yentlangano, kuya kuba lula ukufumana umphumo oyifunayo kwaye uqinisekise ukuba akukho mntu ushiywe ngaphandle kweqela.
• Izimemo. Thumela izimemo kwangethuba kodwa kungekudala kakhulu. Iiveki ezimbalwa ngaphambili zanele. Soloko ubandakanya ulwazi malunga nokuba lo ngumntwana wakho wokuqala, wesibini, okanye wesithathu kunye nesini somntwana ukuba olo lwazi luyafumaneka. Oko kuya kwenza ukukhetha izipho kube lula.
• Ukutya. Ngaba iya kuba sisidlo sakusasa, ibrunch, isidlo sasemini, iti okanye isidlo sangokuhlwa? Incwadi yenkonzo yokutya ngokweqela, ukuba ucinga ukusebenzisa enye, okanye uqale ukusabalalisa imisebenzi phakathi kwabaququzeleli. Ukwazi ukwabela abanye kunokuba sisitshixo sosindiso lwakho.
• Cinga ngemihombiso. Inokuba nantoni na evela kwizinto ezinomxholo onxulumene neentsana, iibhere, umbala wentombazana okanye inkwenkwe, njl. Bandakanya iinkcukacha ezifana ne-flavoring oils, amakhandlela kunye nomculo ongasemva, ukuba indawo iyakuvumela.

Ngaphambi kokukhetha umxholo kufuneka uhlalutye uluhlu lweendwendwe, inani labantu abaya kubakho kunye nesimbo kunye nobuntu babo. Umzekelo, ukuba linani elikhulu leendwendwe, unokukhetha ukuphepha izihloko ezisondelelene kakhulu okanye zobuqu. Ukuba abazali sele beyazi, into eqhelekileyo kukusebenzisa umxholo wesini somntwana kunye nombala ohlaza okwesibhakabhaka okanye opinki njengeyona nto iphambili, kodwa kukho iingcamango ezininzi.

Usuku olulungiselelwe umama ozayo. Kungekudala umntwana uya kugxininisa yonke ingqalelo yabazali bakhe kunye nabathandekayo. Ngoko kutheni ungaqhubeki itheko ukuze umama akonwabele? I-massage yonyawo ngexesha lepati okanye izipho ezenzelwe umama ziya kuhlala zamkelekile. Unokubandakanya ii-odolo zokuthatha, uhambo oluya kwiimuvi, okanye isatifikethi senkonzo ye-manicure.

Ingcamango?

I-diapers ingaba ngumxholo we-baby shower: izimemo kunye nemihlobiso, zonke zigutyungelwe kwi-diapers yonke indawo. Kwisimemo, gxininisa ukuba ngokuzisa ipakethe ye-diapers uya kukwazi ukuthatha inxaxheba kumzobo webhasikithi ebalulekileyo. Lungiselela ibhasikidi enomtsalane enewayini, itshizi, iisoseji, enye yezo wonke umntu angathanda ukuba nazo. Ukuthatha inxaxheba, undwendwe ngalunye kufuneka luhambise ipakethe yeediapers. Emva kokuba umzobo ugqityiwe, umama ozayo uya kuba nombulelo kuba akayi kuthenga ama-diapers kwiinyanga zokuqala zomntwana wakhe.

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