Ukuba nomonde luphawu olukhulu, kuba kumaxesha amaninzi ebomini bethu kuya kufuneka silinde izinto ezingafikiyo okanye ezibonakala zikude kakhulu. Ukuphuhlisa umonde kuyenzeka ukuba singomnye wabantu abangenamonde abafuna yonke into izolo. Ukuba nomonde kusinceda kwiinkalo ezininzi kwaye kuzisa izibonelelo ezinkulu, ke kufanele ukuba kube yinto elungileyo ukuba ithathele ingqalelo kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla.
Ukukhulisa umonde asiyonto ilula, ngakumbi kwihlabathi lanamhlanje apho kubonakala ngathi yonke into kufuneka ihambe ngokukhawuleza okanye iphele ngokukhawuleza. Le ndlela yokuphila yokungakhathali ibangela ukuba sibe nomonde omncinci nangaphantsi phambi kwezinto zobomi bemihla ngemihla, okusinika ixhala, imithambo-luvo nokungonwabi, into engasincedi nganto. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba uhlakulele umonde.
Izibonelelo zokuba nomonde
Las abantu abagulayo abadla ngokulawulwa luvalo Kwaye bayakwazi ukonwabela apha kwaye ngoku ngaphandle kwexhala lokungakhathali kunika abantu abasoloko becinga ngenye into. Ngomso kuyakufika kwaye yonke into esiyifunayo iphelela ekubonakaleni, kodwa kuya kufuneka sifunde ukonwabela indlela ngaphandle kokuziva ukuba asinalo ixesha lokulinda. Umonde usinceda ukuba sazi ngakumbi ngokubaluleka kwezinto, sinceda ukulawula uxinzelelo kunye nokunciphisa uxinzelelo lwemihla ngemihla. Konke oku kuba sisidima esinokusinceda kwiinkalo ezininzi zobomi bethu.
Ziqhelanise nezimbo zomzimba ezincinci
Ayisiyiyo kuphela into yokuba sibe nomonde kwizinto ezinkulu esizilindeleyo, kodwa umonde uyabonakala nakwimpawu ezincinci zemihla ngemihla. Ukuphuhlisa esona siguli singekho lula ukuba asilulo olo hlobo lomntu, kodwa kufuneka sifunde ukukwenza kwaye kufuneka siqale kwezona zilula. Umzekelo, sonke saye sanomonde wokulinda emgceni evenkileni okanye nakweyiphi na ivenkile ukuze sihlawule size sihambe. Ewe, masizame ukungakuqapheli ukungabinamonde, kodwa kufuneka sizame ukuwudlulisa loo mzuzu ngokungathi yinto enomdla. Zama ukuqaphela abantu, uku thatha ixesha lakho ucinga ngento ethile okanye umzekelo ukwenza uluhlu lwezinto ekufuneka uzenzile. Ukuphazamiseka kuya kuthintela ukungabi namonde kuvele kwimeko enjalo yemihla ngemihla.
Zibeke endaweni yabanye
Ngamaxesha amaninzi siphelelwa ngumonde kwabanye abantu ngaphandle kokuzibeka endaweni yabo. Asinguye wonke umntu onesantya esifanayo okanye owenza izinto ngesantya esifanayo, ke kuya kufuneka uzame ukungagwebi. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba umntu ngamnye ebeneemeko ebomini bakhe kwaye kufuneka sinyamezele. Ukuba besikwindawo yabo besifuna ukuba babe nomonde. Phatha abanye ngobubele kwaye uya kuvuzwa ngokuphathwa kakuhle. Uninzi lwamaxesha oku kuluncedo kuwo wonke umntu.
Lawula ukuphefumla kwakho
Amaxesha amaninzi siphelelwa ngumonde kwaye kwangaxeshanye siyacaphuka kwaye sisoyika. Kukho izifundo ezithi ukuba siyalawula iimpendulo zethu zomzimba oku kuchaphazela ingqondo yethu. Oko kukuthi, ukuba siyakulawula ukuphefumla kwaye senze ukubetha kwentliziyo kunye nokukhathazeka kwehle, siya kuziva sizolile kwaye sikuphephe ukuphelelwa ngumonde kuyo nayiphi na imeko. Kungenxa yoko le nto kulungile ukuba uqhelise ukucamngca okanye iyoga, kuba ziluleko ezisinceda sigxile ngoku kwaye silawule imeko yethu ngokuphefumla kunye noxinzelelo.