Yiba ne isibini asisoloko sifana kunye nokonwaba naloo mntu. Njengabo nabuphi na obunye ubudlelwane, kukho amahla ndinyuka, amaxesha amnandi kunye namaxesha amabi, kodwa kuya kufuneka uphinde usebenze kumacala omabini ukuze uqiniseke ukuba yonke into iyasebenza ngokuhamba kwexesha kwaye woyise iingxaki kunye.
Akukho ndlela ifihlakeleyo yoku Fumana ulonwabo njengesibini, kodwa izinto esinokuzenza ukuze sisebenze imihla ngemihla ukuze yonke into isebenze. Amaqabane ayatshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha kwaye iimeko zabo ziyatshintsha, ke abahlali bephela bonwabile, kodwa zikhona izinto esinokuzenza ukufumana ulonwabo njengesibini.
Chitha ixesha kunye neqabane lakho
Si sichitha ixesha elininzi kunye neqabane lethu asizukukwazi ukuyazi ngazo zonke iindlela, imihla ngemihla, kuxa simazi kakuhle umntu lowo. Kubalulekile ukuchitha ixesha, kodwa nokuzinika indawo. Ukuba sihlala sincinci kakhulu, kunzima kuthi ukudibana okanye ukuzithemba ngokwaneleyo kwaye kuya kubonakala ngathi akukho mdla, ke ngokuhamba kwexesha ubudlelwane bunokuphola. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka uchithe ixesha kunye naloo mntu, nonwabele ukuba kunye nabo kunye namaxesha amnandi kunye kunye nisenza izinto enizithandayo nobabini.
Fumana iindawo eziqhelekileyo
Awuyi kuhlala uthanda izinto ezifanayo, kuba umntu ngamnye unezinto azithandayo, kodwa kuyinyani ukuba kunjalo Ngaba niyayifumana into eninokuyithanda nobabini? kwaye nizonwabele kunye. Ukusuka ekuhambeni ukuya kwiikonsathi okanye ukuya kwiimuvi. Kubalulekile ukufumana imisebenzi kunye neendawo oza kwabelana ngazo kwaye ke wonwabele into efanayo.
Shiya igumbi lakho
Elinye icandelo elibalulekileyo kukufumana ibhalansi elungileyo phakathi kokwabelana ngezinto kunye nokuchitha ixesha wedwa. Kuyimfuneko ukuba nobabini ninendawo enizonwabisa ngayo kunye nobuhlobo, ukuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye neqabane lakho kodwa ungashiyi bucala ukuba ungubani kunye nento obusoloko uyithanda, naxa ubungenalo iqabane. Yindlela yokungalibali isazisi sakho kunye nezinto ozithandayo, into eyenzeka kwizibini ezininzi kwaye iphela iyinto ebenzakalisa bobabini.
Gxila kunxibelelwano
Ukuba kukho into ekufuneka yenziwe sisiseko saso nasiphi na isibini, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo lunxibelelwano. Kwisibini kufuneka kubekho unxibelelwano no xelelanani izinto nokujongana neengxaki ezinokubakho phakathi kwezi zimbini. Ukuthetha ngokwenzekayo kunye nokunyaniseka yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ukuze sikwazi ukuthembana, into esisiseko ukuba sifuna isibini sihlale iminyaka kwaye siphile ngokuhamba kwexesha. Kufuneka sihlale sizama ukunxibelelana nomnye umntu kwesi sibini, senze ibhulorho phakathi kwaba babini, kokubini ngamaxesha amnandi nangamaxesha amabi.
Uthando kodwa inkululeko
Kuya kufuneka usoloko umthanda omnye umntu kwaye wonwabele uthando kunye nenkampani, kodwa kufuneka sikwenze oko sikhululekile, ikwahlonipha nenkululeko yomnye umntu. Ukuba sithanda kakuhle, siya kuyazi indlela yokonwabela ukonwaba komnye, sibashiye bekhululekile ukwenza izigqibo zabo kwaye benze oko bakuthandayo ngokuba kunye nathi. Logama nje kukho intlonipho phakathi kwaba babini kunye nenkululeko, siya kwazi ukuba lo mntu uhlala nathi kuba sisigqibo sabo simahla kwaye hayi ngenxa yezinye izizathu ezinokuba zingalunganga.
Khathalela iinkcukacha
Kubudlelwane, nokuba ixesha lihamba, akufuneki siyeke ukuba neenkcukacha kunye nokukhathalela omnye umntu. Oku kufanele ukuba kunisebenzele nobabini. Ngaba kubalulekile amaxesha ngamaxesha ukukhumbuza komnye umntu osengumntu okhethekileyo kuthi, ke kufuneka sikhathalele zonke iinkcukacha.