Iinethiwekhi zentlalo sele ziyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bethu. Inkqubo ye- Ixesha le-intanethi Ukutshintsha kungekuphela kwendlela esiqhakamshelana ngayo, kodwa kwanendlela esihenda ngayo, okanye ukunxibelelana neqabane lethu. Zingaba luncedo ekubonakaliseni uthando lwethu kwaye zisigcine sinxibelelana nomnye umntu, zivula iindlela ezintsha, zikhululekile kwaye zikhawuleze, kodwa kuyinto eqhelekileyo nanjalo sizise ngaphezulu kwengxaki.
Uthando ngexesha le-Intanethi luza nemilinganiselo emitsha ekufuneka ijongiwe. Ubudlelwane bethu buhamba buye bucala bangene kwindawo enzima yommandla woluntu. Iinethiwekhi zentlalo zikwanyanzela izibini ukuba zijongane nezinye iingxaki: ukungathembani kubudlelwane iqabane lakho elinokuba nalo kwiiprofayili zabo, ixesha elichithwe kunxibelelwano ngeFacebook, okanye kuWhatsApp ... ifikelele kwinqanaba apho i-virtual sele igcwalisa okwenyani kwaye kuyafuneka ukuba uqonde ukuba inethiwekhi yoluntu iyichaphazela kangakanani okanye izuze ubudlelwane bethu njengesibini.
Izibonelelo kunye neengxaki zobuchwephesha obutsha kwisibini
Iikhowudi zonxibelelwano zitshintshile. Ngoku iingxelo kunye "ndiyakuthanda" zinokuvela kumyalezo kaFacebook olandelwe ngu "bonwa", unxibelelwano ngobuso alusafuneki. Kwaye kuqhelekile ukuba ubudlelwane obuninzi banamhlanje buvele ngokuchanekileyo kwezi zithuba. Imidiya yokuncokola yenza lula yonke inkqubo ye- ukukhangela kunye nokulukuhla, apho sihlala sibonisa konke okusemandleni ethu ukufumana umntu omfunayo. Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni xa sele sineqabane? Zingasichaphazela njani ezi zithuba zibonakalayo?
Izibonelelo zetekhnoloji entsha
- Kuluntu lwethu lwangoku, kuqhelekile ukuba la malungu mabini abe noxanduva lomsebenzi kunye nolunye uxanduva ngokwahlukeneyo. Ngamanye amaxesha kuncinci kakhulu ixesha esinokuthi sabelane ngalo iveki yonke, kwaye ngenxa yesi sizathu, ubuchwepheshe obutsha ziindlela ezifanelekileyo kakhulu gcina ikhonkco. Zininzi izibini ezithanda le miyalezo inothando imini yonke, amagama esingazisi ngawo kuphela into esiyenzayo, kodwa nendlela esivakalelwa ngayo.
- Itekhnoloji entsha ikwayindlela elula ngakumbi ye ukunxibelelana ngemiba ethile. Ingakumbi ezo zinento yokwenza nenqwelomoya. Kukho abantu abafumana kwimiyalezo, umzekelo, indlela elula yokuchaza iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo abanokuthi, ngokuvakalayo, bangabinakho ukunxibelelana neqabane labo. Banikezela ngokusondeleyo "kokubonakalayo" kunye nokusebenzisana neqabane.
Iingxaki ezinxulunyaniswa netekhnoloji entsha kunye nenethiwekhi yoluntu
- Ingxaki ye Ukuba bucala yenye yezona zinto zinzima. Ngokusetyenziswa kwenethiwekhi, kuyinto eqhelekileyo kuthi sonke ukuba sabelane ngolwazi oluthile, ngamanye amaxesha olungeyiyo incasa yamaqabane ethu. Ngapha koko, ukungathembi kunye nesidingo "sokuphanda" ukuba ngubani omnye umntu onabahlobo kwaye zeziphi iincoko abanokuthi babonakale. Ukuvela kweengxabano kuqhelekile apho elinye ilungu lesibini lithatha ifowuni yomnye ukuze lifunde imiyalezo yabo yabucala ngenxa yokuziva ngokungathembani.
- Uchitha ixesha elingakanani imihla ngemihla kunxibelelwano lwakho lwasentlalweni? Xa ukunye neqabane lakho, ngaba uhlala ukhangela ifowuni yakho, ngaba uchitha iiyure ezininzi kwiLaptop yakho? Ixesha Ukuba "siyalahleka" sisebenzisa imithombo yeendaba endaweni yokunxibelelana ubuso ngobuso neqabane lethu yingxaki enkulu ekufuneka siyithathele ingqalelo.
Ukufumana ibhalansi phakathi kwenyani kunye nokwenyani
Ukuze ubudlelwane bethu bufumane oko ulungelelwano olufunekayo Phakathi kwenyani kunye nehlabathi lokwenyani, kufuneka simisele isikhokelo phakathi kwezi zimbini. Iitekhnoloji ezintsha, njengoko sele sisazi, zinokusizisela izibonelelo ezinkulu mihla le, zingqonge kwaye kwangaxeshanye ijelo elisondeleyo apho sinokunxibelelana khona. Ngoku, ubukho bethu kuthungelwano lwentlalo kunye neqabane lethu, yinto ekufuneka sijongane nayo kwiimpawu zayo ezahlukeneyo. Masibone inqaku ngalinye:
- Siza kuzama kucace gca kulawulo lwethu lwabahlobo kunye «nabalandeli» kwinethiwekhi yoluntu. Le yinkalo apho umona nokungathembani kuhlala kubonakala. Kucacile ukuba sonke sinelungelo lokuba neemfihlo, kodwa ukuthembana kubalulekile. Ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho linomdla wokwazi ukuba lo mntu usebenzisana nabani, kufuneka kubekho ukuthembana kokubuza nokuphendula.
- Intlonipho soloko izimvo ezibhalwa liqabane lakho kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo. Kwaye ngokuchaseneyo. Ukuba kukho nayiphi na ingxaki okanye ukungangqinelani, kufuneka kuxoxwe ngasese, kungabikho kwinethiwekhi yoluntu.
- Cela imvume kwiqabane lakho xa usiya kupapasha into yakho, njengoko kunjalo nefoto.
- Kuya kufuneka sizimele kwaye sikhululeke ukuba nabahlobo bethu kwaye sinxibelelane kwinethiwekhi yoluntu kunye nawuphina umntu esimfunayo. Kodwa ukuba ngalo naliphi na ixesha omnye umntu, okanye ngokwakho, awuyithembi into ethile, kuyafuneka ukuba uyithethe ngokuqola nangokunyaniseka.
- Kufuneka sikuphephe ukuba yimiboniso, Oko kukuthi, ukubonisa uthando lwethu kunye neqabane lethu ngokuqhubekayo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo. Ezi ndlela zokuziphatha ziphela ziyacinezela. Uthando lungcono ukulubonisa ngasese kwaye ubuso ngobuso nalowo umthandayo.
- Kubalulekile ukuthathela ingqalelo inkcukacha enye: sonke sinayo elidlulileyo ukuthanda kumnatha. Iinethiwekhi zentlalo ezinje ngeFacebook, zisivumele ukuba sibe nembali yethu yobuqu ngokusebenzisa ilizwe kunye neefoto, apho ubudlelwane bethu buye babonakaliswa. Nobabini niyithathele ingqalelo. Ke, akufuneki sithathe ingqalelo yokujonga kwakhona elidlulileyo kwiqabane lethu, ukuba unomdla, buza iqabane lakho buqu.