Namhlanje lusuku loTata, kwaye nangona ngamanye amaxesha sibona ezi ndidi zeminyhadala njengemihla ejolise ikakhulu kumashishini kunye nentengiso, kubalulekile ukuba sifunde kancinane kwesi sibophelelo sisodwa esidibanisa nabazali bethu. Kucacile ukuba abazali abaludingi usuku "olukhethekileyo" lokukhumbula ukuba bakho, ezo yinxalenye yelifa lethu, igazi lethu kunye nokucinga kwethu.
Banathi unyaka wonke nangamaxesha onke, kwaye nangaphezulu, kunokwenzeka ukuba ebomini bakho awuyi kuvuyela kuphela loo mzali ukunike ubomi kunye nothando olunyanisekileyo. Mhlawumbi namhlanje unelo qabane ulikhethileyo ukuqala usapho. Ukwakha ikamva lakho, ilifa lakho. Ke ngoko, siyakumema ukuba ubhiyoze naye olu suku ngaphaya kweendibano, uphile ngokusuka entliziyweni.
Indima katata namhlanje
Sisebenzise kakhulu ukufunda amanqaku, iincwadi kunye neencwadana zokuba sifundisa njani abantwana bethu ngalo lonke ixesha kwindima yokuba ngumama. Njengomama sinexhala kakhulu malunga nokuba zeziphi iindlela zokhathalelo kunye nemfundo ezizezona zifanelekileyo ukunika ilizwe elonwabileyo, elikhululekileyo nelikhulileyo labantwana.
Ngoku, ukuba ngumzali akukodwa kumama. Ukuba ngumzali yindima ekwabelwana ngayo phakathi kwababini, apho utata afezekisa indawo ebaluleke kakhulu. Kude kube namhla, uninzi lweendlela zesintu esizibonileyo kusapho lwethu, kwaye sinokuthi sishwankathele kwezi zembe, sele zophuliwe.
- Abasetyhini abasabuyiselwa emakhaya, kukhuliso olukhethekileyo kunye nokugcinwa kwendlu. Indawo yakhe esebenzayo eluntwini yenza ukukhathalela abantwana kungumcimbi wesibini kunye no-6 ukuba sibala ootatomkhulu noomakhulu.
- Kuhlala kukho intsomi yokuba oomama badlala indima "yothando" ngelixa utata esenza isikhundla "sokufundisa, ukumisela imigangatho, kunye nesohlwayo." Ngokucacileyo, olu lolwakhiwo olungeyonyani loluntu sonke esinokuthi "siqhaqhe" umbono wethu.
- Abazali bathatha inxaxheba ebonakalayo ekukhathaleleni nasekukhuliseni. Bona bathambekele, badlale, batshintshe amanabukeni, bondle, bakhokele kwaye bafundise ngendlela efanayo noomama.
- Ngokuzibandakanya, namhlanje sinokubona amadoda amaninzi ade anyamekele uxanduva lwasekhaya kunye nokunakekelwa kwabantwana kujongwa ngabafazi babo abanomsebenzi ongcono. Izivumelwano ziyafikelelwa kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kugqitywe "ngokutshintsha iindima zakudala."
Bhiyozela uSuku kaTata, bhiyozela ibhondi ekhethekileyo
Siyayazi loo nto ngamanye amaxesha akukho lula kumntu wonke ukugcina ubudlelwane obuhle nabazali babo. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba ukuba ngumama, ukuba ngutata akukho lula. Abantwana abaze emhlabeni benencwadana yemiyalelo malunga nendlela yokwenza ukuba bonwabe kwaye babavumele ukuba bakhule ngokuhlala ubanika elona cebiso lililo, eyona nkxaso ilungileyo. Sonke siyazenza iimpazamo.
Uloyiko oluphambili abazali abaninzi bahlala benalo kukuba "abekho." Ngenxa yoxanduva lomsebenzi, bobabini utata nomama bayanyanzelwa ukuba bachithe ixesha elininzi kude nekhaya ukuphoswa ngamanyathelo okuqala, loo magama, loo mvakwemini xa abantwana bedinga inkxaso yasekhaya okanye umntu abadlala naye.
- Into abazali abayaziyo kukuba nangona zikhona iintsuku apho bangakwaziyo ukuhlala nabantwana babo kangangoko bafuna, ixesha ababelana ngalo kufuneka lihlale LISEMGANGATHWENI.
- Ngoko ke, Sonke sigcina kwimemori yethu ezo zihlandlo zisentsimini, olo hambo, loo midlalo, ngala mini basifundisa ukukhwela ibhayisekile, apho bafikelele kuthi ngeengalo zabo kwaye basenza ukuba sithinte isibhakabhaka. Saziva sikhuselekile kwaye sizibona njengabona bantu babalulekileyo emhlabeni xa sasinabo.
- Ukuba ngumzali yinto eza ngequbuliso, banikwa itayitile ngamanye amaxesha eboyikisayo. Kodwa imihla ngemihla bayayiqonda loo nto "Ukuba ngutata" ngawona magama amahle awakha aba nawo ebomini babo, kwaye yinkqubo efundwayo yonke imihla. Indawo entle abayithandayo kwaye ebenza bancume ngokufihlakeleyo xa bebona abantwana babo belele, xa bebabona bethatha amanyathelo abo okuqala okanye besiya esikolweni bodwa okokuqala.
Ukubhiyozela uSuku kaTata sisipho esingafanele ukusityeshela. Kufuneka sibamangalise, senze into abangayilindelanga kwaye sivumele amava ukuba ahlale ngonaphakade kuloo trunk yeemvakalelo ezihlala emphefumlweni.
- Lungisa "ibhokisi emangazayo". Faka iinkumbulo, izinto zakudala ezinjengeefoto okanye iinkcukacha ezizodwa, zidityaniswe neenkcukacha zangoku: ubugcisa babantwana, iileta apho sichaza khona ukuba kutheni sibathanda ...
- Bothuse: lungiselela usuku olukhethekileyo olungalindelwanga ngabazali. Iqala ngesidlo okanye ipikniki, ukuphuma kosapho, undwendwela indawo esichazayo ... Endaweni yokubeka phambili "iinkcukacha ezibonakalayo" jonga loo mathuba ahlala phakathi kwethu, anokubenza bancume kwaye benze imvakalelo ehlala ihleli. ubomi bonke.
Oomakhulu nootatomkhulu bakho, abazali bakho kunye namaqabane akho ... Bonke kufanelekile ukuba babe nosuku lwabo olukhethekileyo, amazwi abo kunye nokwamkelwa ukuba ngaphandle kokuba wonke umzuzu wonyaka, namhlanje ngokukodwa kufuneka bafumane ngohlobo lokuwola kwaye bajonge apho Banokubulela yonke into abasenzele yona. Sixelele ... Uza kubhiyozela njani uSuku lukaTata?