Los iingxaki zengqondo zingakhokelela kwezinye iingxaki zempilo, kuba yonke into inxulumene ngokusondeleyo. Yiyo loo nto namhlanje kukho umkhwa wokukhathalela ngakumbi impilo yethu yengqondo, eyimfuneko ukuba sonwabe kwaye siziva sizalisekisiwe. Nangona kunjalo, kuqinisekisiwe ukuba iimpawu ezithile zobuntu zisinceda ukuba sibe ngabantu abaphilileyo ngokwengqondo.
Fumanisa ukuba zeziphi ezi zinto iimpawu ezikwenza ube ngumntu osempilweni kwaye wonwabe. Nangona ubuntu bethu buzinzile ngokuhamba kwexesha, inyani kukuba sinako ukusebenza kuyo ukuphucula kwaye sisondele kule ndawo ukuba sibe nengqondo esempilweni.
Ukuzithemba
Enye yezinto eziphambili uphawu kwengqondo esempilweni kukuzithemba. Umntu onokuzithemba okwaneleyo uya kuziphepha iindlela zokuziphatha ezingalunganga kubo kwaye uya kuyazi indlela yokuzisindisa iimeko ngokuhlala ucinga ngezinto ezilungileyo kubo ngaphandle kokuzenzakalisa. Ukuzithanda yinto enokuthi isebenze kwaye esigcina sikude nabantu abanetyhefu kunye neemeko ezinobungozi ngakumbi, yiyo loo nto luphawu olusinceda ukuba siphile kwimeko yolonwabo.
Ukudibanisa kunye nokufuna ukwazi
Asitsho ukuba izethulo azonwabanga, kuba zinokonwaba ngokufanayo. Nangona kunjalo, kunjalo kunokwenzeka ukuba uxinezeleke okanye ube noxinzelelo. Ubuntu obuphumayo obunomdla malunga nomhlaba ongaphandle kunye namava amatsha aphilayo enza zonke iintlobo zemisebenzi kwaye ujongeka usebenze ngakumbi kunaleyo ingeyiyo. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuba sisebenze kwizakhono zethu zentlalo, nokuba singabangenisi.
Thatha uxanduva
Baninzi abantu abangaze bawafezekise amaphupha abo kunye neenjongo zabo kuba bengakwazi ukuthatha uxanduva. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ngumntu o eUyakwazi ukugxila kwinto oyifunayo kwaye ngubani osebenzela ukuyiphumeza. Ewe, olu luphawu lobuntu bethu esinokusebenza ngokucacileyo kuyo yonke imihla, sonyusa ukusebenza kwethu kakuhle kunye nokukwazi kwethu ukuthatha uxanduva.
Ukunyamezelana nobubele
Ezi zinto ziyasixelela indlela esidibana ngayo nabanye kunye nonxibelelwano lwentlalo esinalo. Umntu okwaziyo ukubonisa ukunyamezelana nabanye kunye nobubele obuninzi uya kuba nakho ukulawula ngcono unxibelelwano lwabo nabanye kwaye afumane impendulo engcono mihla le, enegalelo kulonwabo lwabo. Kwakhona ukuqonda abanye nokuzibeka endaweni yabo yinxalenye ebaluleke kakhulu yokufunda ukunyamezelana nabanye abantu.
Ukunyamezela
Olu phawu lusixelela ngabantu abathi, nangona befumana ubunzima, baphume bomelele kubo, kuba banazo izixhobo zokuba funda kokubi kwaye woyise. Yile nto ibizwa ngokuba kukomelela, ukukwazi komntu ukuziqhelanisa nazo zonke iintlobo zeemeko kwaye uqhubeke, nokuba uphume womelele. Ukuba singabantu abomeleleyo kakhulu, siya koyisa amaxesha amabi kwaye sonwabe ngakumbi ebomini. Aba bantu banokuxhathisa ngakumbi ekuveliseni uxinzelelo, kuba bayakwazi ukuthatha iimeko kwaye baphume kuzo.
Neuroticism
Eli gama lisixelela indlela umntu anokuthambekela ngayo khulisa uxinzelelo, uxinzelelo, okanye uxinzelelo. Ezi ngxaki zixhaphake kakhulu namhlanje ngenxa yendlela esiphila ngayo, kodwa kukho abantu abachaphazeleka ngakumbi kunabanye ngenxa yobuntu babo. Olu phawu lunokubakho kubuntu bethu, kodwa ukuba siyasebenza kulo kunokwenzeka ukuba singathambeki kwezi ngxaki. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sifunde ukuqonda iingxaki esinazo ukuze sizinyange kwaye siphucule impilo yethu yengqondo.