Kwizihlandlo ezininzi, siphila ngokungenabunono kwaye amawaka emibuzo ejikeleza entloko phantse rhoqo. Oku "kungathandabuzeki" okungasombululwanga, ezi ngcinga zimbi, konke oku kungazinzi, kusengqiqweni kunciphisa iimvakalelo zethu. Kodwa umjikelo awupheleli apha. Ezi iimpawu ezingokweemvakaleloKuxhomekeka kubuninzi bokwenzeka kwazo, zingakhokelela kwiingxaki ezinzulu zempilo, eziza kuqala ngeempawu zentliziyo kunye nokuphefumla.
Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba zeziphi ezona ngxaki zixhaphakileyo zeemvakalelo phakathi kwabantu kwaye zeziphi iimpawu zempilo abakhokelela kuzo.
Ezona mpawu zixhaphakileyo zeemvakalelo
Zininzi iimpawu zovakalelo esinokuzijonga phakathi kwabantu namhlanje, kodwa ezona zixhaphakileyo zezi zintathu:
- Ukoyika ukufaNangona ukusuka kumanqanaba okuqala obomi bethu sisazi ukuba ubomi buphelile kwaye kufuneka sibuthathe njengesipho, ixesha liyadlula kwaye nangawo nawuphi na umzuzu ixesha lingafika lokuba sonke sithi ndlela-ntle, asenzi njalo sigqibe ukuzenzela umbono. Uloyiko lokufa yenye yeempawu ezixhaphakileyo zeemvakalelo zale nkulungwane, kwaye iminyaka yokufa kwabantu minyaka le, ngenxa yenkqubela phambili kwezonyango nakwezobuchwepheshe, iyanda.
- Uloyiko lokuphulukana nolawulo kunye nokuphambana: Xa kufuneka sibaleke kulawulo lwethu, baninzi abantu abasabela kakubi kuyo, ngakumbi abo bathanda ukushiya yonke into ibotshelelwe kakuhle, banonophele kakhulu kwaye bafuna ukugqibelela ebomini babo nasemsebenzini wabo.
- Imvakalelo ye yinyani, ungaziva uziva ungaziva, okanye uziva ngathi "uzimele wedwa": Olu phawu luhlala luxhaphakile ingakumbi kwabo bantu kuye kwafuneka ukuba babulawe kukusweleka komntu abamthandayo ngokungalindelekanga. Kananjalo abantu abaphila noxinzelelo, abangenalo ixesha labo, njl.njl., Banolu phawu lweemvakalelo.
Zonke ezi mpawu zeemvakalelo zikhokelela kwezinye izinto ezinzima kunye nezempilo, ngamanye amaxesha ezinokuthi zibeke umzimba wethu emngciphekweni. Ezona zixhaphakileyo zezi zilandelayo:
- Iimpawu zentliziyo: Ukuphazamiseka okanye ukuqina esifubeni; ukubetha, ukubetha kwentliziyo, okanye ukubetha komdyarho.
- Iimpawu zokuphefumla: Ukuziva uphefumla kancinci okanye uxinekile; imvakalelo yokuhluthwa.
Ukuba uqaphela nayiphi na kwezi mpawu, nokuba zezesifo sentliziyo okanye sokuphefumla, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ubone ugqirha wakho okanye ugqirha ongxamisekileyo.
Iimpawu ezingokweemvakalelo azikho mnene kwaye azinabungozi njengoko abantu bekholelwa njalo. Zingakhokelela kwiingxaki ezinzulu zempilo.