Ibhafu okanye ishawa? Xa uyila igumbi lokuhlambela elitsha, kuqhelekile ukuxoxa phakathi kwebhafu okanye ishawa. Loluphi ukhetho olufanelekileyo? Kwi Bezzia Asinakukunika impendulo enye, kodwa sinokukunceda wenze isigqibo ngokukubonisa izinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga zokhetho ngalunye.
Ubudala Abantu abenza usapho bahlala benesigqibo xa bekhetha enye okanye enye. Ngelixa iintsapho ezinabantwana ziya kukufumana kunomvuzo ukuba nebhabha yokonwabela isithethe sokuhlamba, abantu abadala baya kufumana izithintelo ezimbalwa kwishower. Kodwa ubudala asikuphela kwento ekufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo, njengoko ubona ngezantsi.
Izinto eziluncedo nezingalunganga ebhafini
Ngubani ongakuthandiyo ukonwabela ibhafu eshushu enogwebu Ngelixa umamele umculo ongasemva? Ukuhlamba umzimba yinto esinokuyonwabela kuphela xa sifaka ibhafu kwindawo yokuhlambela. Kuya kufuneka ucinge, nangona kunjalo, ukuba izihlandlo apho ukonwabela ukuhlamba zanele ukogqitha ububi bayo.
Izinto eziluncedo ibhafu:
- Iyasivumela lala phantsi uphumle xa ufika ekhaya. Isinika amava adlula ngaphaya kococeko ngokwalo; esivumela ukuba sikhuphe uxinzelelo oluqokelelwe emini.
- Yeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo yabantwana. Kwiminyaka yokuqala ubudala, ukuhlamba kuba sisithethe apho ucoceko kunye nokudlala kudityaniswa.
- Kwibhafu kunokwenzeka ukulungisa isilwanyana sakho. Kukhululeke ngakumbi kunezinye iindlela.
- Ebhafini ungahlamba, kwishawari awukwazi kuhlamba.
Ezingeloncedo ibhafu:
- Ifuna kabini ukuya kathathu amaxesha indawo eninzi kunokuhlamba.
- Ku abantu abanokuhamba okuncitshisiweyo ibhafu inokuba ngumqobo. Inokuba yingozi, kuba ukuphakamisa umlenze ukuze ungene kuwo kunokubangela ukuba abantu abadala bangalungelelani kwaye bawe.
- La isixa samanzi ukuhlamba kubaluleke kakhulu kunaleyo siyisebenzisayo ukuhlamba; isiqwenga solwazi esiya kubonisa i-invoyisi.
Izinto eziluncedo nezingeloncedo kwishawa
Kucacile ukuba indawo efunekayo ukufaka ishawa ingaphantsi kwale ifunekayo ukufaka ibhafu. Esi sesinye sezibonelelo ezilungileyo, kunye nokufikeleleka kunye nentuthuzelo yemihla ngemihla kwabo bafuna ukuhlamba. Izifundo zithi Abantu abadala bakhetha ukuhlamba ukuhlamba yonke imihla, uyavuma?
Izibonelelo zokuhlamba:
- Isithuba esifunekayo sokufaka itreyi yeshawari sincinci kakhulu. Isizathu sokuba kutheni belunge ngakumbi kwi Iindawo ezincinci.
- Kuyenzeka ukuba ufumane iimodeli ezahlukeneyo zeshawari, ezivumela ukuba zilungelelaniswe ngokulula kwindawo ethile.
- Ukonga amanzi xa sikuncama ukuhlamba kuyaqwalaselwa kwaye kuchaphazela ipokotho yethu.
- Banikezela nge ukufikeleleka ngcono. Kukho ukuhamba-hlamba okuququzelela indlu yangasese yabantu ngokuhamba okuncitshisiweyo okanye abantu abadala.
- Ngaphakathi sihlamba rhoqo wento sihlambayo
Ukungancedi kweshawa:
- Ayinakuze isinike amava afanayo okuphumla okuhlamba, nangona namhlanje kukho iinkqubo zokuhlamba ezilinganisa ii-spas.
- Kulabo banabantwana, ukuzilungisa kwabo kwemihla ngemihla kuya kuba yinto encinci.
I-priori, ishawa lolona khetho lufanelekileyo xa unendawo encinci kwaye ukuhlamba ayisiyonto iphambili kulo naliphi na ilungu losapho. Ibhafu, kwelinye icala, ibonakala iyeyona ilungileyo kwabo banabantwana, izilwanyana zasekhaya okanye ukubeka phambili izindlu zangasese ngaphandle kokuba bavelisa iikati ezinkulu.
Ezi ndlela zimbini, nangona kunjalo, azihambelani. Ukuba igumbi lokuhlambela likhulu ngokwaneleyo, singazifaka zombini: ishawa kunye nebhafu. Namhlanje kukho iindlela ezininzi zokudibanisa zombini izinto njengoko sikubonisa kumfanekiso ongentla. Kananjalo asizukukhetha phakathi kokunye ukuba sinamagumbi okuhlambela amabini okanye igumbi lokuhlambela kunye nendlu yangasese enkulu ebonakalisa ukufaka ishawa.
Kwaye wena? Ngaba ukhetha ibhafu okanye ishawa?