Ukudlala ixhoba yenye yeengxaki abantu abaninzi abanazo. Kuyinyani ukuba kwiimeko ezininzi asiyonto ngenjongo kodwa ivela kuthotho lweempawu ebomini babo. Njengoko uyazi kakuhle, Singakuchaza ukuba lixhoba njengesikhalazo esiqhubekayo kwabanye, ngokungathi babekek’ ityala ngayo yonke into eyenzekayo kuthi..
Ukongeza kwelo tyala, kuyinyaniso ukuba sifuna ukwambatha kunye novelwano lwabantu abasingqongileyo. Abantu abaninzi bagxininisa ukuba le yindlela yokufumana ingqalelo kwaye ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, oku kunomthombo omele ukufunwa ukuzama ukuphilisa ngokukhawuleza. Mhlawumbi wonke umntu ebomini bethu ukhe waba lixhoba elithile, kodwa liyinyaniso elokuba xa iba yinto esisiseko ebomini bethu, simele sithabathe inyathelo.
Hlalutya kwaye wamkele eyakho ingxaki
Uninzi lweengxaki esinazo ebomini bethu nasengqondweni yethu, zivela ngenxa yokuba asikwazi ukujongana neemeko ezithile. Kuyinyani ukuba akukho lula ukukusebenzisa kodwa kufuneka sizame ukukwazi ukophula zonke ezo mvakalelo zingathandekiyo zisibangela intlungu enkulu ngokweemvakalelo. Ukuba sinomsindo asifanele sisoloko sibeka abanye ityala ngasoKufuneka siyiyeke ihambe kodwa ngaphandle kokuyithethelela kwabanye abantu. Kuba xa sifika kweli nqanaba, siya kuba siguqula inyani de siyikholelwe. Simele sicinge malunga nokuba le ngxaki inokuvela phi, sihlalutye amava, isimo sengqondo kunye neemvakalelo zethu, ukuqonda ukuba yonke into ikithi kwaye ayikho kakhulu kwabanye.
Kungcono ukuba ungalindi nantoni na ukuze ukwazi ukuyeka ukudlala ixhoba
Xa silindele into entle emntwini okanye ebomini size singayifumani, loo nto isenza sizive sibi nangakumbi. Ukuba sele sithambekele ekuzibekeni kweyona nto imbi, konke ukungakhathali kuya kuphuma kunye nexhoba. Cinga ukuba yonke into eza kuwe iya kuba ngesizathu kodwa hayi kuba benetyala kuwe ngentsingiselo echanekileyo yegama. Ngamanye amaxesha sibona imbonakalo kwabanye abantu kwaye sithi 'banethamsanqa'. Ewe, mhlawumbi akunjalo kodwa baye basebenza nzima ukuze bakwazi ukufumana umsebenzi omhle okanye uncedo ngaphandle kokuwulinda. Kulapho ihlabathi lokuthelekisa lingena khona kwaye yiyo loo nto eyokuqala Ukuze oku kungenzeki kukwamkela ubomi bethu, iingxaki zethu nazo zonke izinto ezilungileyo ezinazo, kuba ziya kuba nazo..
Funda ukujamelana nezona ngcinga zingathandekiyo
Asisathethi ngemeko ethile ngaphandle kweengcinga ezimbi ezihlala zivela ezintloko zethu. Lixesha lokuba zichongwe kwaye zibekwe bucala, kuba azinalo naluphi na uhlobo lomnikelo osebenzayo. Kuba zezo zivela ngumsindo okanye umsindo nosizi. Ekubeni xa zivela, siya kuphinda sithelekise ubomi bethu nobunye esibubona bubonakala bumangalisa ngakumbi. Ngoko, Xa ezi ntlobo zeengcinga okanye iimvakalelo zifika, into esifanele siyenze kukucinga ngazo zonke izinto ezilungileyo esinazo, malunga nezicwangciso zethu, abantu abasingqongileyo., Njl
Bhala iingcinga zakho yonke imihla
Oko kwe bhala njengedayari yonke into eyenzekayo kuthi imihla ngemihla, yinto entle ngokwenene. Kuba veki nganye sinokufunda yonke into ebhaliweyo kwaye siqonde ukuba sivela njani okanye soyise ntoni. Khumbula ukuba asifuni zithethe, chaza nje into esiziva ngayo kwaye siphile. Ngokuqinisekileyo kancinci kancinci uya kuyiqonda into ekufuneka uyitshintshe.
Chitha ixesha ngcono
Kuthiwa ukudlala ixhoba kuthatha ixesha elixabisekileyo nelinokusetyenziswa ngeendlela ezahlukahlukeneyo. Ukuba ungumntu onengqondo eyomeleleyo, ngokuqinisekileyo akufuni kudlala ngelo xesha libalulekileyo. Ke, zama ukuyijika ngengcinga entle, ngenkuthazo kwaye uzivumele ukuba uthathwe yimisebenzi oyithanda kakhulu.