Ayizukude ide ifike Usuku lukaValentine, Iintsuku ezimbalwa ezizahlula kude kube nguFebruwari 14 alithandabuzeki elona xesha lilungileyo lokuqalisa ukucinga ngesidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nobo busuku bothando neqabane lethu. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, iingcali zengqondo zisixelela ukuba inokuba sisizathu esifanelekileyo sokubonisa imeko yobudlelwane, kunye nolonwabo lwethu.
Kuyinyani ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu onika ukubaluleka okufanayo kulo mhla, i Icandelo lezorhwebo Kulapho kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, siziva sinyanzelekile ukuba senze eso sipho okanye sibe nesipho kunye neqabane lethu. Kodwa ukushiya bucala iindibano zezinto eziphathekayo, uSuku lweValentine limi njengethuba elihle lokuvula iintliziyo zethu kwaye someleze ukubumbana kwethu nomntu esimthandayo. Kwaye isidlo sangokuhlwa iya kuba lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuzibophelela kwaye unike ukufunda ngokweemvakalelo malunga nolwalamano.
Kutheni le nto iValentine ibalulekile?
Singatsho ukuba naliphi na ithuba lilungile lokuba nomhla okhethekileyo kunye neqabane lethu, ukuba izizathu ezincinci zihlala zikhokelela kwezona zibalaseleyo. amaxesha okusondelelana nomntu esimthandayo. Kodwa masiqhubeke kancinci: lusuku apho ixabiso lobuhlobo liphakanyisiwe, kwaye ubukhulu becala, ukubaluleka kokuthanda nokuthandwa. Ukubhiyozela ke kuyacetyiswa kakhulu ngenxa yemilinganiselo esiyibonise ngezantsi:
1. Usuku lukaValentine ngumhla ocetywayo kakhulu wokusebenzisa Ukungeniswa. Kwanele ukuba sizijonge, sivavanye ukuba siphi na. Zibuze ukuba ukhona nyhani apho ufuna ukuba khona, kwaye ukuba amava akho ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kufanelekile. Kubudlelwane, omabini la maqela kufuneka atyebisane, yiyo loo nto ngamanye amaxesha ukungalingani kunokuvela esingakwaziyo ngokupheleleyo. Kunjani ukuzithemba kwam, ndonelisekile ndim? Ndonwabile? Kufuneka uzibuze le mibuzo kumntu wokuqala.
2. Cinga neqabane lethu: Nje ukuba senze olwethu uvavanyo kwimeko esizifumana sikuyo, oku kuqeshwa ngoSuku lweValentine lithuba elingaphezulu kwelona libalaseleyo lokuthetha malunga nezinto esiye sahlangabezana nazo kunye nokuphakamisa iinjongo zexesha elizayo. Kubalulekile ukuba masithethe ngeemvakalelo zethu Ngokwesiqhelo, uthando luphawu oluntsonkothileyo apho uninzi lweemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo zidibana. Veza ukonwaba kwakho, kodwa kunye neemfuno zakho ngaphandle koloyiko lokusebenzisa umntu wokuqala: "Ndiva ntoni ..." okanye "Ndifuna ntoni ...". Kukwabalulekile ukuba umisele ukumamela okusebenzayo kunye nokwakhayo.
3. Ubusuku bobunzima: Xa isibini siqhela isiqhelo, baba semngciphekweni wokuba ubudlelwane buza kuma. Kuhlala kulungile ukuzisa iindaba ezincinci kunye namava enabelana ngawo nobabini. Ngamaxesha athile yesiqhelo Imihla ngemihla siya siqikelelwa: umsebenzi, ikhaya, izifundo, abantwana ... Kutheni ungenzi into eyahlukileyo amaxesha ngamaxesha? Usuku lukaValentine ngumhla ophumelele kakhulu wokwenza into ngaphandle kwesiqhelo esivumela ukuba sizise umnqweno wokukhohlisa kunye nokungaqhelekanga.
Iingcebiso zobusuku obugqibeleleyo ngoSuku lweValentine
Puede que os seduzca la idea de celebrar una cena en un restaurante. Nosotros, desde Bezzia, te recomendamos que este San Valentín lo celebréis sisobabini ekhaya. Ukongeza kokonga, siya kuvumela ukuba sibe sodwa kunye neqabane lethu, ngokuzolileyo sizonwabele isidlo sangokuhlwa, ukubonakala kunye neekumkisi.
Ukupheka kunye kuhlala kungumbono olungileyo, umntu unokukhathalela ukuqala kunye nedessert kunye nenye ikhosi ephambili, umzekelo. Kodwa kufuneka sicwangcise iintsuku ezimbalwa kwangaphambili ukuba iyakuba yintoni imenyu yobo busuku. Sikunika iingcebiso:
1. Dlala ngemibala. Yinto enomdla kakhulu. Ukutya okubomvu, okupinki kunye neetoni ezimnyama kunika isitya sethu umdla onomdla kakhulu. I-blueberry okanye i-raspberry sauce kunye nenyama yinto efanelekileyo onokuyixabisa phakathi kwezi zibini.
2. IiAphrodisiacs. Inketho enomdla ngokungathandabuzekiyo khetha ukutya kwe-aphrodisiac ngezibonelelo zesondlo ezihlala zikhathalela kwaye zonyusa i-libido yethu. Kodwa soloko ukhumbula ukuba ingqondo yeyona nto ivuselelayo kuzo zonke. Iimbatyisi zandisa ukuchuma, kunye neminye imifuno: ithanga, i-artichoke kunye netswele… zizinto ezithandwayo zesini. Njenge dessert, nasiphi na isiqhamo, i-ayisi khrim okanye iswiti enongwe ngesinamoni kunye nejinja, zizinto ezihambelanayo ezifanelekileyo ukukhuthaza ukujikeleza kwegazi, ukukhuthaza ukuvuswa kwesondo.
Yikhathalele le ntetho: Into ebalulekileyo ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo. Ukwenza oku, zama ukwenza indawo efanelekileyo apho into nganye ibalulekile: ukukhanya, ukwahlulwa kwezitulo ukujongana, ulungiselelo lweiglasi, isiqhumiso segumbi (ivumba leVanilla yenye into evuselelayo, kuba Umzekelo), umculo onentsingiselo kuthi sobabini ...
Sukuzixakekisa ngolwazi ngalunye ujongeka ugqibelele kwaye ulungile, vumela ulwalamano Banobukho babo ngexesha lesidlo sangokuhlwa, kuba yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu. Usuku lukaValentine sisingxengxezo nje, isipho enisinikezanayo ukuze nihlaziye umanyano lwenu ngokuvela kancinane kunye nefantasy. Ukonwaba kokutya, umlingo weembonakalo, iicaresses, kunye nokunyaniseka kwencoko yakho kuya kuthi ngokuthe ngcembe kubangele ukuhendwa kwendalo phakathi kwenu nobabini. Ukwenza ukuba kungalibaleki, kufuna kuphela uncedo lweenkcukacha ezimbalwa ezincinci ukonwabela, isidlo sangokuhlwa esimnandi, ukuhleka okumbalwa, ii-anecdotes zokukhumbula, izicwangciso zexesha elizayo zokuseka kunye nentuthuzelo elula yokuba secaleni komntu esimthandayo. Olo qabane esiziva naye ndonwabe ngokupheleleyo.